I don't post on this forum as much anymore because I unfollowed Dumbo several months ago now (my life has been so much better since!). But I do check the thread every now and again to catch up and have a laugh at how ridiculous this person is. All I have to say is: your break up was nearly a year and a half ago now. Just shut up and move on already. I swear this bitch has so little going on in her life she will keep dwelling on this for decades to come and acting like the biggest victim in the world. It's beyond embarrassing and frankly out of touch considering the state of the world right now. She brings EVERY little thing back to her breakup. Someone asks for general life advice, she gives them relationship advice. Someone asks for her favorite book, she mentions a book about being single. She buys her first house, she talks about how hard moving as a single person is. We get it, he dumped your ass. Now how about you focus on the million privileges you have in your life? Being able to own a house in London, traveling constantly, having a supportive/united family around you, not ever needing to worry about money, getting free shit every single day of your life, being healthy, having all the time in the world to yourself, not having to show up to a job every single morning, being a white/wealthy/conventionally attractive woman who will never have to face any form of discrimination or adversity in achieving whatever she wants. I could go on. If that guy is "so horrible," "so selfish," or whatever the fuck you're trying to convince yourself that he is, then you should be glad that he left you and is out of your life now! Sounds like he did you a favor. Now shut the fuck up and GROW UP.