I cannot stand these meaningless rants of hers anymore. She takes these buzzwords or catch phrases (eg, "self-care/self-love/self-worth," "boundaries," "putting yourself first," "right path") and then rehashes them
to death, but it never fails to remain incredibly hollow and surface-level. She does the same with the whole plant-based/environment thing and words like "sustainable," "ethical," "eco-friendly." It's like she thinks if she says these words often enough, people will believe she's deep and knows what she's talking about. In reality it is painfully clear that she's just hiding behind these notions but doesn't have anything of substance to say and doesn't have a deep understanding of what they actually implicate. It honestly amazes me how long she manages to talk (out loud in videos, or in written form in her captions) yet say nothing at all? It's just the same vague 'advice' she goes on about, every single time.
This comment below and her reply to it are telling. Niomi's entire focus is on herself, and everything always goes back to herself. She refuses to flat-out accept the idea that "helping others is good;" she just
has to add "but being selfish is good." Don't even get me started on the hilariously unaware mention of "every now and again"...when being selfish is literally all she does, all day everyday, and all she's been able to harp on about for the past 6 months! She has actively encouraged people to be selfish, and has openly admitted that she was selfish, for months now. Her selfishness has extended well and far beyond "now and again" at this point.
Also, it’s funny she mentions work/life balance because that is indeed something she struggles with, but maybe not in the way she thinks. Niomi's problem is that her job basically
is her personal life. Her job is to take care of herself, at least that's what she has actively
made it to be. She could've focused her social media channels on other things, but she's decided to make it about "lifestyle," all about herself and her own life. Which is why it's even funnier when she then goes on to claim that she's “the kind of person who puts others first”—in what world? If you were the kind of person who puts others first, wouldn't you seek a more altruistic occupation? As opposed to a job that literally consists solely in advertizing yourself and selling your own image? She literally
makes money out of talking about herself, her life, and her taste. How is that not contradictory with the idea of putting others first in her mind?
Contrary to her reply above, I feel like she's anything
but balanced. Since the breakup she's decided she had to "put herself first" and she has turned that into justification for not doing her job
at all (e.g. skipping at least 8 weeks of uploads altogether since July) and not caring about others
at all (exhibit A: her attitude toward COVID-19). All this 'introspection' yet she hasn't been able to "find that balance" yet?
She is a walking contradiction and she has ZERO self-awareness about it. Not even an ounce. It's truly embarrassing to watch.
Idk about you all, but Delusional Dimbobs is definitely not who I think of as a “fierce woman”
Someone please tell me what is "fierce" or "inspirational" about a white, conventionally attractive woman who grew up rich in £1M mansion in the English countryside, was privately educated but achieved mediocre to low results at school, was handed a social media career on a silver plate by her high school sweetheart (whom had done the initial work of making himself known on the internet), now makes hundreds of thousands of pounds every year by selling her audience mops and gimmicky skincare, gets gifted free goods/services/trips on a daily basis, and whose idea of stressful/hard work is something that requires 45 minutes spent on her computer?
