This is what I do with everything in life so it may not be your thing. But, I never build anything up or have any expectations so, I’m never disappointed. It allows me to have a free mind and enjoy things in the moment if that makes sense. So when I went to New York the first time, I had a rough idea of what I wanted to see and I absolutely loved it. However, my best friend planned her visit within an inch of her life and was bitterly disappointed. I’m not saying this is the case for everyone but, it was our experience.
I’ve stayed at the Quin Central Park which is an artsy hotel and very beautiful. I’d recommend wherever you stay to stay on levels 15+ as I found it fascinating just looking out and watching the world pass by. I’ve also stayed at The Lotte as I’m a big gossip girl fan. This hotel if you can get a room facing the cathedral is very beautiful and romantic. But, don’t order room service or eat there as it is extremely expensive and there are so many alternatives. Location wise, we booked with a private travel agent and he said he would never recommend staying in Times Square as you do not get the true experience.
If you are a bit of a foodie then book in advance as some places book up quite quick. There are lots of lists full of recommendations online. We tried to book in a steak house we really wanted to go and the only time they had was 10:30pm so just be careful about that. Also, for transport we got in an executive car as it was miles cheaper than a taxi. We were told this before so when we arrived we asked at the help desk and found they were really accommodating and arranged everything for us at a reasonable fare.
If you go out on a boat tour I’d recommend the speed one as they usually have a funny host, a bit of adrenaline and you see the good bits. We also did a longer cruise which was about 2-3hours and after a bit it got a bit boring. Once you’ve seen one bridge from a boat you’ve seen them all really.
I would definitely recommend going to see a show, you can book in advance and the prices are about the same as over here. The first time we went we walked in the box office in the morning and the only seats available were in what we call the Royal box. The price was amazing as apparently it is a restricted view but, we had no issues. Although it did feel as though we were looking down on people which was a bit uncomfortable when the lights are on.
I went in July once and would not recommend, it was very humid and muggy. I’d say spring or September. Also, I wouldn’t recommend going to the Statue of Liberty, it’s better to see it from afar. You don’t really gain anything from being on the island. Also, unless you want a few designer items which can be slightly cheaper or want to go to iconic stores, I wouldn’t waste your time going shopping. It’s no different to our cities.
Central Park is amazing and you could spend a whole day getting lost in there. It’s just lovely.
Finally, the people - we found no issue even in the areas where they advise you to be careful. In fact they were lovey and nicer than when we have visited London. They love the accent, we are Mancunian and some had never heard the accent before so they were very excited. On the whole, we found it very safe for such a large city. I felt a lot more comfortable walking around New York than I ever have walking around Paris. I loved it and think it has so much to offer for all types of people, the food, architecture and sights are incredible.
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I think Londoners are rude when I compare them to Northerners. Or the Spanish! 
. It wouldn’t put me off going either though, you get rude people everywhere
please keep em coming!