Thank you @fairylights2000 for the title suggestion .
@themuffinwoman the nursery should have a transition program, everyone does it slightly different but ours was always an hour stay and play with parent, then an hour alone the next day with parent in the parents waiting room and gradually build it up over a week or two. Could you ask what their policy/support for transition and settling in is and see if you could start a week or so before you go back to work?
I will say the age old thing though - for the ones that struggle settling, hanging around at drop off makes it worse. Once you’re out of sight it’s generally much easier to settle and distract them.
@themuffinwoman the nursery should have a transition program, everyone does it slightly different but ours was always an hour stay and play with parent, then an hour alone the next day with parent in the parents waiting room and gradually build it up over a week or two. Could you ask what their policy/support for transition and settling in is and see if you could start a week or so before you go back to work?
I will say the age old thing though - for the ones that struggle settling, hanging around at drop off makes it worse. Once you’re out of sight it’s generally much easier to settle and distract them.