Glad I found this thread. Found out last week my so called partner who I'm meant to be due to marry next year decided has a baby on the side (baby daddy number 7 for her, most the kids are in care, house is a revolving door knocking shop, looks like she died 6 months ago and someone's dug up her corpse). He is saying he doesn't care and all he wants us me, the kids and our pets. I went no contact and that lasted all of a few days. I already knew before that he had cheated on me with this dog when I was pregnant with our disabled baby but this is permanent evidence of what he did to me. Worst thing is asides from being unable to keep his nob to himself he's our protector, provider, we have each other in tears laughing on a daily basis, we think the same, can read each others thoughts, I've got good punani and love to
duck, he had no reason to this.
I've told him I just don't see how I can move or get past this.
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. But you’re right about spur of the moment decisions x
but would never leave her he was devoted to her and said she's most important person in his life ...look at Wayne Rooney and his shenanigans he could have set up home with any of they tarts he was with but he won't leave Colleen so she must be his true love even though he has done that to her 
