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In the last few days I've seen a few threads, adult children didn't come to see cousins baby, friends don't come to see my performances and husband was nasty about my gym goals, and a LOT of the replies are basically 'you care, no one else does'. And I think no wonder so many of them have constant conflict with everyone around them! I'm not interested in random babies, choirs or gym workouts but I am interested in my friends and family, so if they have a baby, perform something or achieve a goal then I ask questions, look at photos, attend events, send congratulations etc. It really puts the I've lost all my friends' 'My SIL hates me' 'My friends left me out of a meet up' posts into context!
In my job I quite often come across older people whose family don't speak to them, or only see them once a year. After spending some time with them, it's usually very obvious why that is.
 
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One of my sisters works in elderly dementia care and she says some of her patients never get visitors, despite having sons, daughters and grandchildren. She says it’s often not the dementia that stops them coming, it’s because they’ve been absolute thundercunts all their lives, neglectful and abusive for the most part. Just because someone looks like a sweet old person doesn’t mean they are! It’s sad.
 
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I've decided MN need to ban posters who respond to a query with "well I asked AI and". It's even worse than "well I asked DH and". Do they think the OP couldn't have asked ChatGPT? They aren't even doing it in the classic "let me Google that for you" pointed way. They genuinely think it's adding to the conversation.
 
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"Anyone else have the same?" Christ, can you just imagine buying a house with NO fireplace?! Must be poor.

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Quite obviously the answer is to buy a photo of a log fire and paste it to the wall. With a live, love, laugh decal and some glue on mirror hearts all around it.
£3.58 from Temu! And it’s so realistic. I’m going to rip out our actual fireplace and replace it with this.
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Lots of snarky responses in this thread (as well as lots of mumsnetters talking about how beautiful they were once!)
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There's a thread in AIBU about the OP being annoyed with her husband for not booking a table seat on a long train so they won't be able to have their usual train picky bits lunch..... cue all the usual hyperbole about how disgusting it is that she would dare to slurp/chug/chomp/gulp/shovel whilst being pretentious/performative/elbowing/spilling oil/rustling packets....

Oh and this absolutely normal person....

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Has the 'bereavement leave for miscarriages' thread turned into a 'bun fight' and people arguing that people shouldn't get it because they didn't have it? Of course it has.

Lots don't want it to be allowed because people will take the piss, yeah, they will, like people take the piss out of every other policy or rule or whatever that gets you something, does that mean it shouldn't be available for those who need it though.
 
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If bars went quiet when she walked in, it wouldn't have been because they were thunderstruck by her beauty. It was more likely to be a case 'don't look now but that egocentric self important twit has just walked in, don't make eye contact' :D
Or her dress was so enormous they were waiting to see if she'd walked in on purpose or just blown in when there was a breeze.
 
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My Dear sister in law is obviously a mumsnetter. Happened to mention on weekend how my kids are costing me a fortune as they eat at least a punnet of strawberries a day, apparently they are full of sugar and therefore evil. I'm just glad they are eating something that isn't chocolate! 🙄
 
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