I hated their “not in the spirit” BS. Just the perfect excuse to delete anything they felt like deleting. Especially if they didn’t want to upset any celebs that might be invited onto a web chat at a later date.Well I got banned for speculating about celebrity affairs, Never know what they mean by "not in the spirit of the site" considering most users rip the tit out of each other in most threads, particularly in AIBU and the passive aggressiveness is off the scale in the rest of them. Tattlers are much more friendly and supportive of each other and they reserve their venom for where it is actually deserved