That’s what I noticed about the lack of paperworkWe all know rebs had
Privileged upbringing and is used to a certain lifestyle big house. Lots holidays and shopping.
All parents want to financially see that their kids are alright.
She is spoilt which is part of why she acts like she does.
Its too late change their parenting style now shes 29!
Then we move onto lack of life experience.
No proper job other than uni placement at Disney.
Shes mostly just been with lee.
Like i said before she leads an insular life only mixing with her own type.
She has no idea what its like to live in a city.
Or have a low income balancing childcare or both parents working alternate shifts like passing ships i the night.
She has no idea that some parents have children with sen or severe illnesses.
She was very lucky poppy was only in hospital for a week.
I had hoped that experience would make her nicer but as demonstrated by poor charity efforts its not.
Shes only advertised charities that pay her like thank you midwife.
I just always get such sense of entitlement from her.
She keeps saying we very fortunate.
I never feel like she genuinely appreciates things.
Its like when a child gets too many presents and they like next they can never take a step back to appreciate it.
I do wonder about her mental health if she genuinally thinks her life is hard.
Theres that whole if you keep saying it then you convince yourself.
If you ad up her filming and editing its part time hours at most.
I once went to school with a girl whos dad lost his job.
Rather than tell his family.
Every day he got up put his suit on grabbed his breifcase and left for his imaginary work.
I feel like meldrums are the same its the illusion they so busy with work.
What i like about mummy dady and me kate Ellison is they both work from home.
Different jobs.
They have in the new house and old house a proper office set up.
They do share the school runs clubs and cooking.
Her husband does lots work overseas so she says he works evening's.
They dont live in each other's pockets.
John hates shopping.
Katie does food shopping, other shopping and sees her parents all by herself.
To some extent she carefully time managed her work when wren is at nursery.
The same with this mama life she comes home in her lunch hour most days to tidy.
She works 4days at other job then spends 5th day trying to do as much as she can as well as working late into night whilst the meldrums are watching prision break.
Even our beloved Charlotte is much more efficient with her time and her workload.
Rebs like today I just couldent be bothered to do any work tommorow is another day.
She classes a few insta stories and typing a few comments as work.
Its like they by their own admittance spend days pottering. Slow days. Carving personal time.
When other self employed people are grafting as income can fluctuate.
Sarah this mama life said theres phonecalls to make.
Editing.
Filming ad brand work can take ages as they so specific.
Quite a few say they have to chase up invoices.
Thats all before they do their social media admin of posts and comments.
Not all influencers are lazy with no direction.
Some are quite business like and professional.
So puzzled why they have no sit down office space and choose to work from bed or sofa in their free pjs.
A lot home workers say you have to be disciplined at home.
Getting dressed and having a quiet organised space works.
Reb lacks self disipipline.
She has bursts of motivation.
She seldom sticks anything out.
So a desk with a computer
Phone in office
So she can talk to brands channel mum and you tube without screaming baby in background or c beebies blast loud.
I would expect some sort filing system for brand contracts and invoices.
If shes as successful as she pretends to be how come we see none of this stuff.
If shes such a flourishing company how come we see none of this.
I know a few people who do admin for their husbands businesses mostly trades people and they say it can be quite busy.
A greater degree of separation between work and home would be better for her.
Better to do a few things well then too many things badly.
Why does she always have to go shopping with lee.
Does she not like driving.
I met my husband through work and its not ideal living in each others pockets.
What exactly do they have to talk about.
Here im like this happened today at school and he will be like this happened at work.
We often get talking about the kids .
Lee and reb must have very little to talk about on date night.
I wish she stop labelling everything as mum.
3kids is hardly an army its fairly common number.
She keeps going on about missing things.
But shes i charge if her own work schedule.
She never works evenings does she.
Her time management and organisation skillls are very poor.
I woukd of had more respect for her other month if she attended the assembly and went shopping the next day or filmed in the evening.
Theres nothing wrong with sahm dads if shes grafting as Lee says.
But have clearly defined roles.
Plan your day
Share the tasks like cooking food shopping and school runs.
Have some time away from each other i feel is essential to a good relationship.
We’ve an office, plus the house kitchen table is littered with paperwork and so is the utility and where ever else it gets dumped. Rebecca come and see how a real business works. She’s got no filing cabinet or shelving either for all her folders and paperwork