This is not chaotic for her? It’s things that will happen to her kids at school. Spread across three kids, it’s not even chaotic for any one of them.
Actions for her:
Attend leavers event
Send child to school with money for collection
Exhausting.
And here’s the thing - the folks organising this stuff (that her kids will benefit from) are actually working, and would be justified in feeling that this is a chaotic time of year.
Imagine being a teacher at her kids school, and realise this workshy lazy woman is fanning herself in her greenhouse on the way back from a dog walk, before having a cup of tea and ‘pottering,’ because she’s tired from jazz, and hasn’t got the self awareness to realise that moaning about the chaos of the mere thought of the stuff being done BY OTHER PEOPLE FOR HER CHILDREN is causing HER anxiety!