Her latest post has filled me with rage. Im a military wife, have 3 kids (youngest is 2 and is the worst sleeper ever) 2 dogs and my husband is currently away helping drive ambulances for covid hit areas. He will come home for a few days before he then flies out on deployment. I live 300 miles away from family. I actually have NO time to myself whatsoever. She lives in a dreamland if she thinks everyone has time! Sorry that post is very "woe is me" but it's been a shit week
But you have a full life - even with shit weeks - not a vacuous existence. ( Hope your husband has a safe deployment x)
Rebecca constantly seeks validation of how good her life is from strangers on social media through their positives comments and likes on posts. She feels that she can create envy of her lifestyle by 'asking' for opinions on wallpaper at £56 a roll.
The reality in my opinion is that she is completely unaware of how she is perceived and that her extreme immaturity and narcissistic personality somehow buffers her from reality. I don't live in Banchory but not too far away and I have friends there. Although an old fashioned term and not really PC one business owner and one 'service provider' in Banchory have described her to me as coming across as a bit of a 'simpleton'.
Rebecca likes to flaunt her 'wealth' with branded goods but it seems a very 'fur coat and no knickers' lifestyle as she has a peloton but cannot afford a boiler. Wallpaper at £56 a roll but shoddily applied wainscotting.
I have several friends who are in the wealth bracket Rebecca could only dream about - one actually only 3 miles from her. Do they sit and have cups of tea, waft some essential oils over the plastic tray of crystals ? ... no. They either work or volunteer, they certainly would not be jealous of Rebeccas lifestyle, they would be bored shitless. They use their skills to help others and make a huge difference to a large number of people, without fanfare and without the need for validation.
But here's the rub
'In My Opinion"
They use their skills to benefit others ... Rebecca has no skills
They have worked hard and use that work ethic to continue to help others ... Rebecca has no work ethic
They have compassion for others ... Rebecca has no thought for others
They will contact their large circle of friends to work with them on a project or initiative ... Rebecca has one friend
As Audrey Hepburn said ' You will discover that you have two hands, one to help yourself and one to help others'
Rebecca has used both hands solely for herself and displays an avarice incomprehensible to any decent human being.