Grief is awful and I’ve lost a parent so I get it. But life does go on and most of us only get a couple of weeks off work at most so she’s been fortunate to be able to afford the time she needed. We all knew though that she’s been pandered to and treated like a little girl her whole life so she would never be robust enough to cope with a shock like this. This is going to rule her life now as everything she has happen she lets define her, from an autism diagnosis to her anxiety. The following of grief quotes is a prime example of this. Christ, that would’ve been the last thing on my mind, and I would never need someone else’s written words to explain my personal loss of a loved one. She is going to be unbearable with this and because she is going to let it define her, she will surround herself in her own grief and not allow herself to move forward, which is so unhealthy. She’s obsessed with falling down with grief or trauma, her legs always going from under her. Grief is heartachingly tragic and overwhelming but it doesn’t need any further drama attached to it. For the sake of those boys, she has to find a way to move forward.