I've been following Hinch threads on here for a while, but never actually commented. I don't believe for a moment those were R's 4 actual first steps... everything she does is posed beyond belief, she doesn't show anything develop organically. I don't think R is treated any differently, he's going to have his life aired and manipulated for the gram until he's old enough to tell her to pack it in!!
Also, maybe it's just me, but what the fuck is the point in the pergola?? I'm up north and I just feel like 90% of the time, the weather is shite and it would just be a major waste of time? As everyone else said, maybe a lovely play space for R or even a cosy outhouse seeing as money is no issue. But no, a fucking pergola... What's next? Her own vineyard? She bores me