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My first thought, reading that was Kyle had done something to her but I looked at her fb and there's still a family photo of them all on there and I think she'd have removed if that was the case
 
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Wondering if she got Post Natal Depression
Possibly, she mentioned professionals being involved. I hope she's ok and, I think completely stepping back from social media shows she's got some sense. I hope she stops showing the children's faces when she comes back, especially if she shares what's happened
 
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Possibly, she mentioned professionals being involved. I hope she's ok and, I think completely stepping back from social media shows she's got some sense. I hope she stops showing the children's faces when she comes back, especially if she shares what's happened
After re reading the post, she mentions grieving. So it sounds like someone close passed suddenly?
 
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My first thought, reading that was Kyle had done something to her but I looked at her fb and there's still a family photo of them all on there and I think she'd have removed if that was the case
I noticed that and he’s liked her profile photo as recently as the middle of October. He also has all 3 kids on his profile as well. The DV stuff she’s resharing & also some single parent stuff she’s reshared is odd though unless it’s hinting to the time she was seperated from the older children’s Dad? Maybe they aren’t together anymore either way. Postnatal depression is another plausible reason especially if she’s experienced a loss around the same time.

Whatever has happened I’m sure breadcrumbs will be dropping now she’s shared what she has. I hope the children are ok & if she’s had some difficulties that she’s getting better through it all.
 
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I take it the influx of messages she refers to were not spontaneous, they were incited by her ambiguous insinuations of DV? I really hope Kyle (or someone in his family) hasn’t turned out to be some kind of monster, but it wouldn’t come as a shock. He love bombed her and was way too interested in being involved with her kids from the get go. We all had our worries. They rushed at a million miles an hour into starting a family, something never sat right. I’m praying she didn’t learn the hard way and her kids haven’t been harmed in her naivety.

I mean this in the kindest of ways, but she really needs to not come ‘back’. She needs to keep her (and by association her children’s) life confidential, no matter what’s happened. If she’s got the support of family and professionals like she says then that’s reassuring. What good will come of publicising their private life again now? She doesn’t need to air her dirty laundry.
 
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Here are just a few examples of how it was so abundantly clear to everyone on the outside that this would all end in tears. Why oh why was nobody in Minnie’s inner circle looking out for her, protecting her, highlighting the red flags we all saw? The only person ever to blame for abuse is the abuser, but Christ the signs were there and nobody stepped in. They all just watched naive Minnie drag her kids through turbulence. Even if it wasn’t DV, it looks and sounds like the whirlwind romance has come to an end (surprise, surprise) and now there’s another child in the mix.

If she doesn’t find better friends, within the next year she’ll be repeating history, loved up with someone new without a single thought about what appeal a 22 year old with 3 kids by 2 dads and no job would truly have to any sane, safe man.

She let this stranger into her children’s home, and without knowing a damn thing about the guy’s suitability as a father or a partner, she opened her legs without protection.

Stupid, stupid girl.
Lurker here but started watching the thread after that announcement she made. What a foolish girl she is - she’s let that young man into her children’s lives pretty quickly and then got herself knocked up equally as quick. She won’t have known if he was a good person or not when she allowed those things to happen but her job was to protect her young children until she could be confident this man she has brought into their lives was an ok guy.
Not to mention her little children were introduced to his parents and family early on too. We know of at least one time they have spent away with his family at Christmas time in a caravan. Doesn't know these people from Adam! The family would not be responsible enough to be around my children, letting them use sparklers with bare
ungloved hands and stood there beside the kids watching them flicking sparklers up close to their faces.
 
Here are just a few examples of how it was so abundantly clear to everyone on the outside that this would all end in tears. Why oh why was nobody in Minnie’s inner circle looking out for her, protecting her, highlighting the red flags we all saw? The only person ever to blame for abuse is the abuser, but Christ the signs were there and nobody stepped in. They all just watched naive Minnie drag her kids through turbulence. Even if it wasn’t DV, it looks and sounds like the whirlwind romance has come to an end (surprise, surprise) and now there’s another child in the mix.

If she doesn’t find better friends, within the next year she’ll be repeating history, loved up with someone new without a single thought about what appeal a 22 year old with 3 kids by 2 dads and no job would truly have to any sane, safe man.
Do we know yet what has happened?
 
Do we know yet what has happened?
Not yet but he’s not in her Facebook pictures anymore, just her and the kids. He either simply scarpered when he realised he was out of his depth supporting a partner postpartum and providing for a ready-made family on one young man’s wage, or like her hints suggest, he turned nasty. He certainly liked a drink, judging by all the pints of Guinness and bottles of JD.
 
What’s sad is people like that don’t really break the routine, it’ll be another man next year, with another baby on the way
 
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After the way she exaggerated her teenage hissy fit as being made homeless through abuse, I wouldn’t be at all surprised if she decides to frame a young, immature man dumping her when the going got tough as DV because she’d have to swallow her pride to admit everyone was right about her being a fool for rushing in.

I really think it’s in Minnie’s best interests not to disclose what happened and just get on with raising her kids in private. I don’t think she’s a bad person, she’s just naive and vulnerable, which is all the more reason not to publicly broadcast her personal problems.