Yeah I knew someone like this, tried to give her a chance to become independent but I think she will just start popping out kids now she finally has someone just as useless in the work department so they will live off the state popping out kids
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What young lad would want a gf with 2 very young kids and WHAT the hec & WHY are his parents encouraging?. Considering, generally. Males mature much later than females.
My observations, girls like Minnie love having babies, once the kids get to an age they switch off from them and do the very bare minimum. Off to school, free school.meals, free what they can get for trips ect. No after school/w/e activities. Kids raise themselves whilst mother is into latest baby. Seen this time and time again.
Yes and often I think that behaviour comes from unresolved adversities from their own childhood. They just want to feel loved and needed, and nobody makes you feel more loved and needed than a baby, you’re their whole world. But like you say, babies grow up and they don’t fill that hole forever. Onto the next!
I wonder if that’s what her own mother did? Looks like it.
This is also mega red flags for me.
There is this and having babies for some including me is just wonderful. The newness -pram/s, every few weeks new clothes, people cooing over the baby, the cuddles. I bloody adore babies. ! But, I didn't carry on because I know in a nano they grow up, the toddler stage is bloody hard and I've invested in my children every stage they've developednand given them time, culture and education.
In her latest reel where she is cleaning her sofa I feel like she is pregnant. She looks chubbier in the face and why do I feel like I can see a bump. Obviously we shouldn’t be speculating on her body but given everything she has hinted at recently and saying she lost a baby in 2025 and is wanting a 3 bed house, I don’t think it’s a stretch.
I also felt like her saying that she couldn’t get the paint out her sofa was begging for a new one.
I also felt like her saying that she couldn’t get the paint out her sofa was begging for a new one.
And why the hec has she got the most ridiculous shade of sofa with kids that age. And no Minnie, my sofas have never looked like yours even with very young children. My sofas were and are still covered with throws!
Yes she's on the beg, get sick of seeing the begging.She's about the 4th woman begging I've seen today on IG.
Saying the sofa looks like that because she hasn’t cleaned it in ‘about a month’ 
My kids haven’t ever made that kind of mess of a sofa in all their lives, let alone a month. That’s just pure laziness and poor boundary setting. Her kids always seem to be spilling stuff on the sofa or drawing on the walls, which I know is typical child behaviour, but it seems more than the average child I feel. It just screams neglect to me, like she’s not keeping an eye on them and isn’t in the same room. Probably her and her boyfriend watching TV on her bedroom projector screen and making the next baby for the state to support while she leaves her existing toddlers to their own devices.
My kids haven’t ever made that kind of mess of a sofa in all their lives, let alone a month. That’s just pure laziness and poor boundary setting. Her kids always seem to be spilling stuff on the sofa or drawing on the walls, which I know is typical child behaviour, but it seems more than the average child I feel. It just screams neglect to me, like she’s not keeping an eye on them and isn’t in the same room. Probably her and her boyfriend watching TV on her bedroom projector screen and making the next baby for the state to support while she leaves her existing toddlers to their own devices.I never had writing on walls and major stuff. A few small incidents. Mine were taught from an early age to look after their belongings & the home ect..we look after our things. don't keep buying and buying. Sofas & big ticket items I expect to last years.Saying the sofa looks like that because she hasn’t cleaned it in ‘about a month’
I always keep my mouth shut whenever this topic comes up in person because previously I'vebeen told I'm judgemental about it but it's something that annoys me lol... drawing on walls and likewise destructive behaviour just never happened when mine were small, the single incident we had that come remotely close to this was when my eldest was about 3, they used a bath crayon on my bathroom floor to draw a "worm" (it was an apprx. 5cm wobbly line) while I was running a bath. It came right off but I still explained to them that that's not what they were for and it never happened again after. Tbf, bath crayons didn't happen again either because they proved a nightmare to get off the textured tiles that we had lol, but I digress... it honestly baffles me when people act like kids drawing all over huge spaces of wall or furniture, and like ripping big chunks of wallpaper off or whatever else, is just something that happens and is normal. It's not!
An old neighbour of mine had felt scribbled from their landing, down the length of the stairs and around the hallway walls, like multiple continuous lines. Apparently done by their at the time 6(!) year old - they just shrugged about it and left it like that for the best part of a year.
Admittedly we made a point to never leave pens and other art equipment readily available when mine were small, it was always treated like an activity only available when an adult was able to supervise - maybe that was our saving grace? I know that kids sometimes get into things they shouldn't and while small or one off incidents are understandable - I'm sorry but something like my old neighbours incident or even small ones but it repeatedly happening is only possible if you're leaving your kid(s) unsupervised for far longer than you should be and making no effort to teach them to respect and care for things.
When one of mine went for pre school induction at 3yo, he said to a teacher in a very proud manner 'and we don't write on walls' .
Her youngest is 2 today. A baby could be on the horizon because, I'm pretty sure the single claiming mothers until the youngest is 3yo get full benefits. 3yo onwards they have to start working and benefits are reduced.
I wouldn’t be surprised if benefits tell her soon that her self-employment is not gainful and she needs to get a proper job. That’s why she’s desperately clutching at straws and posting so haphazardly lately, her “content creator career” isn’t paying.
I think it’s likely that her time as an influencer is drying up fast. Followers are dropping like flies, she’s lost her novelty, and her content is too inconsistent. She’s looking desperate now.
She’s started asking people what content they want, which is never a good sign is it? Good content creators find a niche and run with it, they don’t need handholding through what to talk about. If you’re asking what your audience want to see, chances are they’ve already got access to seeing that type of content from the millions of competitors who know what they’re doing and are good at it.
It made me laugh that she’s started posting her meals! Sorry but why? There are millions of accounts offering recipe ideas that actually look nice, are actually informative about nutritional content, actually offer instructions, are actually low budget, are actually made by good cooks, and actually offer their audience something they’ve not seen before or didn’t already know. Everyone knows how to put a jar of sauce over some mince and pasta Minnie, it’s nothing new nor inspiring.
Her niche used to be being a young mum moving into a council house and doing it up, but that content was only going to last as long as it took to decorate her house once. Nobody then wants to nor needs to see her decorating and redecorating at their expense, it’s boring and offensive now. It might have been different if she was genuinely showing starting from scratch on a budget: second hand furniture, cheap DIY hacks, mending things she’s found for free, etc. But nope, she was going for finance on top of the range and brand new items to be like every other influencer who has a Ruggable rug and a DUSK sofa and VAX SpotWash. You’ve got to pick a lane. Are you on a low income or aren’t you? Who is your target audience? It massively turns off an audience to see someone on benefits in social housing spending so much on luxuries that the average working person can’t afford or knows better than to waste money on. (Tallow + Ash laundry detergent in a council house? Come on now.)
Popping out babies, claiming benefits, playing houses and dollies and spending, spending, spending isn’t content that will wash forever for that reason. Before long, people with actual jobs start to get hacked off with funding frivolity for scroungers like Minnie. You don’t get to be on benefits in taxpayer subsidised housing and boast about all the nice things you get to have without it rubbing hardworking, struggling souls up the wrong way.
Content I would be impressed by:
• Getting a job as a young single mum (and navigating drop offs, pick ups, routines, applying for childcare funding etc)
• Going to uni or doing an apprenticeship as a young single mum (and what financial aid you’re entitled to and how to mange study and raising kids)
• Getting back into writing music as a young single mum
• Giving something back to society as a young single mum
• Actually living on a budget and within your means, and breaking down what that looks like as a young single mum
People want aspirational content, that’s why picking herself up as a single mum, decorating her council house, and learning to drive worked. She was bettering herself and her kids! But there’s just no aspiration about breeding endlessly for freebies, showing off what luxury items you’ve bought with your benefits money, and robbing your children of all dignity and privacy.
I think it’s likely that her time as an influencer is drying up fast. Followers are dropping like flies, she’s lost her novelty, and her content is too inconsistent. She’s looking desperate now.
She’s started asking people what content they want, which is never a good sign is it? Good content creators find a niche and run with it, they don’t need handholding through what to talk about. If you’re asking what your audience want to see, chances are they’ve already got access to seeing that type of content from the millions of competitors who know what they’re doing and are good at it.
It made me laugh that she’s started posting her meals! Sorry but why? There are millions of accounts offering recipe ideas that actually look nice, are actually informative about nutritional content, actually offer instructions, are actually low budget, are actually made by good cooks, and actually offer their audience something they’ve not seen before or didn’t already know. Everyone knows how to put a jar of sauce over some mince and pasta Minnie, it’s nothing new nor inspiring.
Her niche used to be being a young mum moving into a council house and doing it up, but that content was only going to last as long as it took to decorate her house once. Nobody then wants to nor needs to see her decorating and redecorating at their expense, it’s boring and offensive now. It might have been different if she was genuinely showing starting from scratch on a budget: second hand furniture, cheap DIY hacks, mending things she’s found for free, etc. But nope, she was going for finance on top of the range and brand new items to be like every other influencer who has a Ruggable rug and a DUSK sofa and VAX SpotWash. You’ve got to pick a lane. Are you on a low income or aren’t you? Who is your target audience? It massively turns off an audience to see someone on benefits in social housing spending so much on luxuries that the average working person can’t afford or knows better than to waste money on. (Tallow + Ash laundry detergent in a council house? Come on now.)
Popping out babies, claiming benefits, playing houses and dollies and spending, spending, spending isn’t content that will wash forever for that reason. Before long, people with actual jobs start to get hacked off with funding frivolity for scroungers like Minnie. You don’t get to be on benefits in taxpayer subsidised housing and boast about all the nice things you get to have without it rubbing hardworking, struggling souls up the wrong way.
Content I would be impressed by:
• Getting a job as a young single mum (and navigating drop offs, pick ups, routines, applying for childcare funding etc)
• Going to uni or doing an apprenticeship as a young single mum (and what financial aid you’re entitled to and how to mange study and raising kids)
• Getting back into writing music as a young single mum
• Giving something back to society as a young single mum
• Actually living on a budget and within your means, and breaking down what that looks like as a young single mum
People want aspirational content, that’s why picking herself up as a single mum, decorating her council house, and learning to drive worked. She was bettering herself and her kids! But there’s just no aspiration about breeding endlessly for freebies, showing off what luxury items you’ve bought with your benefits money, and robbing your children of all dignity and privacy.
I never watch the full video or reel of any of her stuff. I start, eye roll then move on. I have re watched the sofa cleaning vid just now, In the comments I think a kids table and chairs was suggested , she replied they had a set it broke..how does a tots table and chairs break? Replace it, buying other tat is not a priority.
This is what is wrong with the likes of Minnie. A kids table and chairs is a priority. So the kids have their area to eat their meals and draw/craft, to develop boundaries. Get on marketplace and look for a pre loved IKEA, they last forever. And the kids should not be eating on the sofa maki
ing that mess, cover the sofas with throws.. movie time as a TREAT some sweeties (not chocolate), OR popcorn in bowls and encourage them to sit watch and eat nicely or else no eating and drinking on sofas.
As been mentioned, they're probably left while she's wIth bf.
She showed off the kids Xmas gifts, yes it was not an obscene amount. Very young their tastes change so quickly, also, they only play with a few things.i found mine wanted, got - never touched some things. Age one from us ours had minimal toys because we bought as needed (0 -1) is a lot of learning and development, they had what was required. I knew they'd get gifts from family and friends so main gift age 1 and first Xmases was money in saving which they still have.
An observation. Those with mortgages/rent and doing right in life. WORKING..it used to be the way once, starting in life working your way up, lots second hand which is now classed as pre loved. Start off small and work up, no debt or minimal..eventually you get to where you want to go.
This has never been the case for single mums on benefits. So many big ticket items frequently, New sofas, carpets, beds, prams. House swop start again on the consumerables ! I know folk in different demographics . One a millionaire that has had a sofa 30 plus years. That's how they accumulate finances, by not wasting money..she did start life with benefits claiming parents, from v young wanted to cycle break.
She's got a dining set in the kitchen so even if she didn't get another kids table and chairs there's no reason to be letting them eat on the sofa and make that mess instead of teaching them to eat properly, though I do agree that with kids their ages she absolutely should prioritise an adequate table set for them to learn good habits
Good parenting is not easy! I was full time at home, when I was in full time stressful paid employment before kids, with wonderful perks and travel it was easy compared to stay at home Mummy. Which is sometimes 24 hrs a day. However, the hard work & persistence when they are very young pays off.
I think one of the most telling things in her recent content was when she she was posting about what she wanted for the year ahead.
In that context of how she wanted the year to go, she said ‘I’m not putting any pressure on myself.’
I like Minnie, but she’s fallen victim to social media and the close influences in her personal life. It seems nobody has modelled for her the effort it takes to be a good parent with firm boundaries; rather than a fun parent with pastel walls and regular treats. Or to work hard and consistently towards bigger goals that will benefit your family for years to come, and really raise them out of the situation she said she wanted to avoid for them.
Her kids are so young. She’s made a lovely home and learned to drive, which was an amazing start - but this new relationship seems to have diverted her into having no focus or ambition, being happy to shop, laze about, live in a midden, and keep having babies she doesn’t have space for, a relationship that’s dripping in red flags.
Why not put pressure on yourself Minnie? You’re young and healthy, and on the bottom rung of society’s ladder - why not follow through on what you said you wanted? Work hard, in a job or by reliably developing useful content, keep your kids lives and faces private, put them in nursery so you can focus, use contraception so you don’t end up like your mum, maybe take a parenting course or read some books; and see where ‘pressure on yourself’ takes you over the next year. It’s bound to be better than waiting for freebies and posting reels of your creepy bloke talking about what he’s shoved up his a.
In that context of how she wanted the year to go, she said ‘I’m not putting any pressure on myself.’
I like Minnie, but she’s fallen victim to social media and the close influences in her personal life. It seems nobody has modelled for her the effort it takes to be a good parent with firm boundaries; rather than a fun parent with pastel walls and regular treats. Or to work hard and consistently towards bigger goals that will benefit your family for years to come, and really raise them out of the situation she said she wanted to avoid for them.
Her kids are so young. She’s made a lovely home and learned to drive, which was an amazing start - but this new relationship seems to have diverted her into having no focus or ambition, being happy to shop, laze about, live in a midden, and keep having babies she doesn’t have space for, a relationship that’s dripping in red flags.
Why not put pressure on yourself Minnie? You’re young and healthy, and on the bottom rung of society’s ladder - why not follow through on what you said you wanted? Work hard, in a job or by reliably developing useful content, keep your kids lives and faces private, put them in nursery so you can focus, use contraception so you don’t end up like your mum, maybe take a parenting course or read some books; and see where ‘pressure on yourself’ takes you over the next year. It’s bound to be better than waiting for freebies and posting reels of your creepy bloke talking about what he’s shoved up his a.
Says it!!!!! Not putting pressure on herself!!!
The video competition of Marley she posted yesterday for his 2nd birthday. Didn't see the children's father in it ? The current boyfriend is. So wrong when they have a relationship with him.
She posted a life update yesterday coming across quite smug. Whilst being given a brand new, blank canvas lovely accommodation and living on benefits. Women like Minnie have no desire to fully fend from themselves.
She's not the brightest. Today posted that a spider has given birth on her bathroom ceiling whilst she was in there. Spiders are insects & lay eggs, they don't give birth like mammals.!
She's not the brightest. Today posted that a spider has given birth on her bathroom ceiling whilst she was in there. Spiders are insects & lay eggs, they don't give birth like mammals.!
I notice she was covering up the necklace in her story. I'm so invested after seeing the blurred out name on it previously!