Minniharrisuk #1

New to Tattle Life? Click "Order Thread by Most Liked Posts" button below to get an idea of what the site is about:
A lot of us have hideous back stories from childhood. Exactly byefeliciax. We build our lives, don't look back and focus on changing ways.

The cocktail sausages got sliced lengthways, did she get messages or read🤔. Makes herself look so silly when she says things like I had no idea, I knew about grapes..honestly, use your nodle, have a bit of common sense. We do not need telling every minute detail. Hard /ish firm food a certain shape will get stuck in the young if not chewed properly.
 
  • Like
  • Heart
Reactions: 2
A lot of us have hideous back stories from childhood. Exactly byefeliciax. We build our lives, don't look back and focus on changing ways.

The cocktail sausages got sliced lengthways, did she get messages or read🤔. Makes herself look so silly when she says things like I had no idea, I knew about grapes..honestly, use your nodle, have a bit of common sense. We do not need telling every minute detail. Hard /ish firm food a certain shape will get stuck in the young if not chewed properly.
Tbf I’ve got 3 kids and never knew this until reading here!
 
  • Like
Reactions: 2
A lot of us have hideous back stories from childhood. Exactly byefeliciax. We build our lives, don't look back and focus on changing ways.

The cocktail sausages got sliced lengthways, did she get messages or read🤔. Makes herself look so silly when she says things like I had no idea, I knew about grapes..honestly, use your nodle, have a bit of common sense. We do not need telling every minute detail. Hard /ish firm food a certain shape will get stuck in the young if not chewed properly.
Still has cheese strings whole on the same plate though...can't teach stupid!
 
  • Wow
Reactions: 1
I don't mind Minnie, to me she's one of the least offensive single mum council house influencers but it did make me snigger when she said she had to start again from nothing, at 17. Who's got anything built up by the age of 17?

When I moved out of home at 20, I took my wardrobe and chest of drawers from home because I had nothing. I had to move out, I couldn't remain at home and I had nothing because I hadn't planned to moved out until I had no choice but I didn't think of myself as starting again, I was just starting out, the same as anyone.
 
  • Like
  • Heart
Reactions: 2
When my eldest was a toddler, I attended a local community infant first aid session. (I was terrified of choking). The handouts I were given are stick up in our kitchen still..this choking one may be of benefit.
 

Attachments

  • Heart
Reactions: 1
I don't mind Minnie, to me she's one of the least offensive single mum council house influencers but it did make me snigger when she said she had to start again from nothing, at 17. Who's got anything built up by the age of 17?
EXACTLY! She’s not re-building anything because she’d not even built anything yet. She was a kid!

In a similar vein, when she posted that her daughter was born she said that she was finally a mummy, something she always dreamed of. FINALLY?! ALWAYS?! She was 18! It was clearly on her radar for a really long time before she even got pregnant which is just plain sad. And even sadder that nobody was there to guide her into making better choices for herself.

I worry for Minnie. I don’t know if she had more of a caregiving role for her younger siblings than was age appropriate (quite common in large families I’ve found, the older ones looking after the younger ones) but she seems to feel she’s 20 years ahead of where she actually is. She just reminds me of a little girl playing a game of ‘grown ups’ a lot of the time, her naivety shows through so much more than she realises.

I honestly wish her well in life but I’d rather she’d pack it in with the grifting and putting her kids on the internet. My respect for her is getting less and less.
 
  • Like
Reactions: 6
View attachment 3852245

Hi Minnie 👋🏻 you clearly read
The thickos messaging her..it is frightening the lack of sense !

'Has anyone said cocktail sausages are a choke hazard'..most things are a choke hazard for little ones and kids deary . Little ones moving, talking , coughing = easy to choke. There's foods which are easier to stop the air in the airway depending on their shape, size, consistent ect

The one said my kids choke on air 👏 exactly this..I had a choke incident with one of mine aged about 7yo - 9yo can't remember exactl age. I had bought thick sausages when I usually bought chipolatas. Didn't cut a piece small enough.....
 
  • Like
Reactions: 2
Frightening how many people don’t think about this stuff. It’s common sense, isn’t it? She shouldn’t need someone to give her a chart of what to chop and how. You just have to look at food and think, ‘Could this get lodged in a baby’s throat?’

Generally if it’s squishy and breaks down with minimal chewing you’re all good, if it’s harder or more chewy and approximately the diameter of a small child’s throat (like a cocktail sausage) it’s probably not.
 
  • Like
Reactions: 2
Minnie (who drove her new car with a new licence whilst wearing flip flops, leaves pens and paint out around toddlers to plaster on her new sofa without covers on, had a new boyfriend practically move in with her vulnerable self and kids within days of knowing him) probably can’t be trusted in the common sense department.
 
  • Like
  • Haha
Reactions: 5
Minnie (who drove her new car with a new licence whilst wearing flip flops, leaves pens and paint out around toddlers to plaster on her new sofa without covers on, had a new boyfriend practically move in with her vulnerable self and kids within days of knowing him) probably can’t be trusted in the common sense department.

Right! And this girl is Influencing !!!😁 what a messed up society! The loonatics are running the show nowadays.
 
  • Like
Reactions: 1
She had £2,000 worth of lessons in a manual car, bought a manual car, then switched and had £1500 worth of lessons in an automatic car, then had to finance an automatic car. You literally couldn’t make it up!

I’m convinced if she’d just persevered with the manual it wouldn’t have cost anywhere near another £1500 in lessons, and then she would have already owned a car outright to use.

It’s hugely concerning that she is responsible for small children. She’s so so so so lacking in common sense and lacks guidance in life. I wonder if she’s addressed the noise her car was making yet, or if she’s just still taking her kids for a jolly on the motorway with a car that clearly needs a repair?
 
  • Like
  • Wow
Reactions: 4
She had £2,000 worth of lessons in a manual car, bought a manual car, then switched and had £1500 worth of lessons in an automatic car, then had to finance an automatic car. You literally couldn’t make it up!

I’m convinced if she’d just persevered with the manual it wouldn’t have cost anywhere near another £1500 in lessons, and then she would have already owned a car outright to use.

It’s hugely concerning that she is responsible for small children. She’s so so so so lacking in common sense and lacks guidance in life. I wonder if she’s addressed the noise her car was making yet, or if she’s just still taking her kids for a jolly on the motorway with a car that clearly needs a repair?
Saw all this. Why is she posting this?! and so much posted she is pointing out her own blatant stupidity.

in all serious ness, she needs a support worker. Is not capable of being responsible for her children. The basics fir the kids are not in place.

As you have said - she's playing dollies in a real life dolls house.

I can also see her being very easy to manipulate, coherserd. Because of the lack of any sense and any kind of savvy.
 
  • Like
Reactions: 5
She had £2,000 worth of lessons in a manual car, bought a manual car, then switched and had £1500 worth of lessons in an automatic car, then had to finance an automatic car. You literally couldn’t make it up!

I’m convinced if she’d just persevered with the manual it wouldn’t have cost anywhere near another £1500 in lessons, and then she would have already owned a car outright to use.

It’s hugely concerning that she is responsible for small children. She’s so so so so lacking in common sense and lacks guidance in life. I wonder if she’s addressed the noise her car was making yet, or if she’s just still taking her kids for a jolly on the motorway with a car that clearly needs a repair?
Left 2k from a Grandparent. Should have tucked that away for a rainy day or saved 2 big chunks for her kids.

Always the way with easy come easy go.!!!

Honestly, at 22 my life was far from Minnie's!!!. Despite growing up in a violent very unhappy family. Very nasty violent and emotional abuse from my own father and mother. I was in a career working at Director level and dare not make any mistakes, and no option being asked twice. I hated feeling stupid and making mistakes. I had places to go and ambitions to achieve to show the 2 Bs of parents life dealt me I was not useless and more than capable.
 
  • Like
Reactions: 3
Her sister in law is a professional freezer defroster?!
Her freezer! Jesus christ. Why is she so clueless and damn right stupid

Freezer should have been defrosted ages ago before that state.

If seal has gone you replace the seal not the freezer

Put a washing up bowl or any bowl of hot water in the freezer turned OFF the warm hot water helps ice melt so it comes off quicker and use a kitchen item like wooden spoon, fish slice to help shift the bloody ice !!!

Place towels around the bottom of the freezer Minnie so as not to flood your floor.do you have old towels for these kind of events and when washing machines/hot water tanks leak.

I watched my mother and grandparents do this to the fridge freezer

AND ! Not having a brand new council house when I was 26.bought an old victorian house that had been cobbled over the years, the rit I dealt with, floods, radiator leaks, you name it. You just get on with it!!

Bloody frightening how clueless people are

Where is the bf to help her? He is eating his meals there - feet under table.
 
  • Like
Reactions: 2
That freezer was ridiculous. I haven't seen anything like that in years. I thought most freezers were frost free nowadays. She hasn't shut the door properly for it to get like that. If the sister in law knew anything about freezers she'd know that you can replace the seal. However, in this case, you just need to ensure the door is shut properly and if you have children you check it to make sure they've not opened it
 
  • Like
Reactions: 3