I’m reading between the lines here and speculating, but I honestly don’t think her and that lad are going steady at all. When was it she commented on someone’s TikTok to say they were talking about moving in together, not that long ago? Is it that she wants him to come and play happy families and pay all the bills and he’s hesitant?
I think the main reason she’s not posted much these past few months (and he’s barely ever in her posts) is because he’s not around much. I reckon he’s a young lad doing what young lads do, working hard and playing harder, living his life and not ready to fully settle and commit to what it takes to be a family. I bet he’s only rocking up every now and then to get his oats, and she’s taking the opportunity to make him pose for happy family photos. I highly doubt he’s the supportive partner she wants him to be, and she’s said as much in previous stories about how her friends and family are her rock, it’s never him.
After all the dirty laundry she aired with the last one that was on and off more than a public toilet tap, I think she’s keeping her cards closer to her chest this time. I bet they’ve been just as on and off, but she knows she’ll get stick for getting knocked up so quickly and not learning her lesson the last time, so instead she’s taking cutesie family photos for the gram and pretending like it’s bliss. It evidently isn’t, or she’d be boasting about all the lovely things he’s doing for her like she was in the beginning: dates, gifts, a helping hand.
Let’s face it, just as we all suspected, he love bombed her in the beginning and none of it was real, and she was thick and desperate enough to call it true love and want to bring a baby into the mix immediately for a happily-every-after. It will never be a happily-ever-after while she’s using babies as a means to patch up her unresolved childhood adversity.
She’s trying so hard to live a mature life with an immature brain, I’ve never seen someone so fucking naive.