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Dwight

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Although I think they are really foolish to be sprogging up together so soon into a relationship I do have to say that no contraception is fool proof IF they were using something.
I really feel like women do get the 'blame' when these things happen. Yes she could possibly have misled on contraception but ultimately they are both 'adults' and if he didn't want to run the risk he should of put something on it 🤷🏼‍♀️

He's probably already living with her but for the purpose of UC and the internet he's not yet!
Totally agree. Not a chance that he hasn't moved in already, they obviously can't admit that publicly until they figure out the path of least benefit deduction though
 
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invisiblelady

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I actually feel a bit for Kyle, he has dipped his wick, yes. Should have been careful. What is the bet Minnie said she is covered on the pill. This fella, no more than a boy has fallen into a trap.! Lured in. Anyone with any sense would not start a relationship intense full on like this. Unless their is a motive - que Minnie. What fella wants to take on and financially take on a ready made family and kids SO young ? And would his parents want him to, doubtful.

These plans and everything she says is her saying/doing. He is probably shittting himself quietly in the distance.

Whats if she led him along , said she is an 'influencer' bet his parents early on didnt know her background and taxpayer sponging to the extent either.

Seeing the comment yesterday from the woman who knows of the whole family has made it as clear as anything about her Mother & Minnie is going the same way.

Although I think they are really foolish to be sprogging up together so soon into a relationship I do have to say that no contraception is fool proof IF they were using something.
I really feel like women do get the 'blame' when these things happen. Yes she could possibly have misled on contraception but ultimately they are both 'adults' and if he didn't want to run the risk he should of put something on it 🤷🏼‍♀️

He's probably already living with her but for the purpose of UC and the internet he's not yet!
 
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byefeliciax

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Oh dear, she’s posted a picture from her bed with her baby (underneath a duvet 🚩🚩🚩 😡🚨) and her cat being all affectionate.

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So is it not all lovehearts and rainbows having a third baby in as many years, by a second father, whilst on benefits, and up to your eyeballs in debt from trying to impress people (who don’t actually give a shit about you) online, as a 21 year old who hasn’t grown up and addressed their own childhood adversities? Well colour me shook!

This was always destined to be a tale of woe. I feel sad for her having no guidance from any kind of sensible adults, and winging it as a naive young woman influenced by fairytales and the internet.
 
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byefeliciax

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Im a single mother to a 3 year old, the result of a long term relationship which broke down when she was 1. I haven’t even considered another relationship and we’ve been split up for nearly two years. I just cant imagine bringing someone in to her life and I definitely can’t imagine trusting someone with her. It’s crazy to me much Minnie has changed in the short time I’ve been aware of her, it’s really sad. But I think she wants to be loved and to have a stable home and in her head she thinks this new man and his family are providing that - and on paper they are. But it’s too much, too soon, and if it doesn’t work out the kids will be the ones who suffer.
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I separated from my husband when my youngest was a toddler, and didn’t introduce my kids to anyone I dated until they were teenagers. It did mean a lot of my “relationships” were short lived because my time with them was so limited, but my time with my kids (and their security) was my ultimate priority. Predator risks aside, I didn’t want to put my kids through getting attached to someone for a couple of months only for them to disappear. I needed to know it would be secure and long-term before my kids were involved or anyone came into our home.

It was only a year ago that Minnie was still on-off with her kids’ biological father. She didn’t give herself, or her children, chance to heal before leaping straight at the first thing that came along.

I sincerely hope it all works out just the way she wants it to, but it’s rare this kind of situation doesn’t end in tears or trauma. I think it’s irresponsible for an “influencer” with such a large following to normalise jumping in hard and fast to new relationships with toddlers in tow, and to paint it as picture perfect.
 
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Iamintherealworld

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She had £2,000 worth of lessons in a manual car, bought a manual car, then switched and had £1500 worth of lessons in an automatic car, then had to finance an automatic car. You literally couldn’t make it up!

I’m convinced if she’d just persevered with the manual it wouldn’t have cost anywhere near another £1500 in lessons, and then she would have already owned a car outright to use.

It’s hugely concerning that she is responsible for small children. She’s so so so so lacking in common sense and lacks guidance in life. I wonder if she’s addressed the noise her car was making yet, or if she’s just still taking her kids for a jolly on the motorway with a car that clearly needs a repair?
Saw all this. Why is she posting this?! and so much posted she is pointing out her own blatant stupidity.

in all serious ness, she needs a support worker. Is not capable of being responsible for her children. The basics fir the kids are not in place.

As you have said - she's playing dollies in a real life dolls house.

I can also see her being very easy to manipulate, coherserd. Because of the lack of any sense and any kind of savvy.
 
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IllBredHen

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Does Minnie know you can drink raspberry leaf tea anytime and she doesn't have to be pregnant to do so?
 
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byefeliciax

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This is probably a bit weird for me to say but I'm actually so disappointed that she's gotten pregnant again in such circumstances... don't get me wrong, I'm not naive enough to believe the poorly curated persona of a young doting mother that she tries to display online, or that her "origin" story isn't heavily embellished. It's just always sad to see anybody come from poverty and council roots repeating the cycles, especially so when it's clear they are very aware of said cycles existing. This just really cements that she is a very selfish person with zero consideration or ambitions to provide a decent life for herself or her children.

I feel for those two kids - it's pretty clear they already don't get enough focused attention from her, now that's about to reduce even more. On another note (kind of) she's a first class twat for getting a kitten whilst pregnant, obviously without any intention to actually care for it. How long until that gets rehomed or lashed outside do we think??
I’m disappointed in her too. She had a rough start to adult life and had two very young kids all on her own, but was then given the perfect foundation to propel from with a brand new council house and some proper roots. She passed her driving test, she was finding her feet, she had promise of breaking cycles and being more than her scumbag, scrounging mother raising brood of maladjusted kids by different fathers at the taxpayers expense. But no, she’s gone and made the very same mistake, rushing into parenthood with an immature lad she doesn’t even live with*, and then already wanting a bigger council house and being reliant on benefits to provide for the next child. The council have already upgraded her twice since she moved out of her mum’s, she’s already cost the public purse more than she’ll ever pay back in tax.

*She’s either not moved him in because she knows his income will affect her benefits and he’ll have to provide for everyone, or, she has moved him in but she’s kept it very quiet because she doesn’t want to lose her benefits. I hope she gets caught out for fraud.
 
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byefeliciax

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Can guarantee he isn't living full time with her to affect her benefits.
Of course not! At least not on paper. She’s looking at taking out £1000s in finance for her teeth now, on top of her financed car, financed sofa, financed rug, everything on Klarna and credit. Her monthly outgoings must be massive just in clearing debt, I doubt very much Kyle’s taking on paying for it all.
 
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byefeliciax

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She’s definitely hoping she’ll be gifted a freebie.

What does she mean that she’s saving for a bigger car and helping Kyle to fund something exciting? She’s not creating content so she isn’t making money online, so she’s on benefits still? Why is he taking her (fraudulently claimed) benefits money?

What a pair of grifting rotters!
 
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rosieflowers

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Nice of Rachel reeves to lift the two child benefit cap so Minnie can carry on popping them out and buying crap without having to worry about getting a job 🤧
 
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byefeliciax

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Well done to you. Could not have been essy

I have not experienced benefits. I get upset because of being taxed to buggery my husband and i's entite life. The child benefit reform 2013 was it? affected us. I was a SAHM. Life was a struggle for us with young kids. Yes he was a good earner but just over the threshold.if we had a joint income of about 90k i think it was, paying less tax each not higher rate. We'd have still got the child benefit

And it makes me really sad. My grandmother (before benefits) REALLY had it hard. My grandad was a sick man from childhood illnesses and was in out work. When he was post op for months they had nothing. Nothing!!! Not saying it should be like this again.it certainly shoukld be only a help up for a short time.no way a career
Our system is currently geared to support the wealthiest and support the poorest, but it completely misses out the ones in the middle who earn marginally over thresholds for financial support (and in principle should be comfortable on their income) and yet they’re the ones who take the full brunt of the cost of living with hikes in mortgage rates and council tax and utility bills and food shopping etc.

It’s obviously not always the fault of the poorest in society that they end up needing a bit of help, though little twats like this do actively make the choice to game the system at everyone else’s expense because they’re comfortable being waited on. It’s no wonder hardworking taxpayers feel like the Minnies of the world are a burden. It’s tone deaf, to be gloating about their spending and ability to afford to grow their family and their entitlement to a bigger house when actually… they’re not the ones really paying.

My friend is currently facing near poverty trying to get by on maternity pay. She’s paid into the system all her adult life, dedicated her career to public service, then decided to have a baby before it was “too late”, and now can barely afford to fuel her car. She would have loved a second baby but is seriously reconsidering whether that’s even financially viable. Meanwhile, Minnie’s never contributed to society and is like…


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She’s in for some serious backlash. Never paid a penny in tax, 3 kids under 4, all provided for by the people who are having to sell the cars they worked for to pay their mortgage, and giving up on dreams of having a family of their own. I think silly little Minnie has a wake up call coming her way. Now would be a good time to walk away from having a public persona.
 
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dumdums83

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I do like Minnie and she does deserve the help and gifts, Alexandra wren deserves the bin, she is such a bitch and mean girl. Minnie stay away from Alex cause cause she will just exploit you and leave you on the gutter if it means she’s will get higher up the ladder!
 
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Iamintherealworld

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Minnie playing Mummies, Babies and Dollies again!

Worried how she'd love another as much, worried how the kids would take to baby..the kids are clueless at this age..clueless that they were born to ger a council house. And their child Mum is so needy wants to play babies and feel wanted.


Said everything happens for a reason, the baby is so loved already
Wait till all 3 kids are fighting and screaming and arguing.

Wait til they are in school and school work/homework needs doing.pressure will be on when in school, deadlines to meet. Trips need paying for and residential trips .

Swimmig lessons which are vital. And an utter chore to me when i went through it especially in winter !

These cute babies are not cute babies 5 minutes. There are childens lives ahead for years which need a stable environment if she wants kids to do better than herself.

And she will need to engage her bloody brain when they are a littke older. Not good for kids being raised knee jerk and chaotic .
 
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byefeliciax

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Having a planned newborn with a boy you met 12 months ago is such weird behaviour too. Doubly good luck to her.
 
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Iamintherealworld

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No intention to wash anything, despite midwife advice and cautionary tales. She’s just fucking clueless.
Laziness and then the way she speaks. So exited - it is like waiting for a new toy. And naming an unborn baby SO early on and having its name on a chain is tasteless, ridiculous and tempting fate. We all know the stare of NHS midwifery. Even before the state of it, women were cautious for a valid good reason. Very few know of my losses. The ones who don’t, do not need to know. It is not a taboo subject, it is a private subject. I could not imagine anything worse than some nosey, meddling old C I barely know asking me personal Qs pretending to care. Lets face it, grief tourists & unhappy folk exist andc they thrive on others sadness.

Now these insta women are sharing too much of their medical online, whenever something goes wrong its a public spectacle.

It is a new Dolly for this adult child, it is to get a bigger council home and it will be used for monetary gain.
 
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byefeliciax

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She posted a life update yesterday coming across quite smug. Whilst being given a brand new, blank canvas lovely accommodation and living on benefits. Women like Minnie have no desire to fully fend from themselves.
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Council house, benefits, and owner of a £700 camera that she rarely even uses.

I’m really struggling to like her or see her as anything other than an insult to the system and an entitled little brat of a grifter.
 
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byefeliciax

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I wouldn’t be surprised if benefits tell her soon that her self-employment is not gainful and she needs to get a proper job. That’s why she’s desperately clutching at straws and posting so haphazardly lately, her “content creator career” isn’t paying.

I think it’s likely that her time as an influencer is drying up fast. Followers are dropping like flies, she’s lost her novelty, and her content is too inconsistent. She’s looking desperate now.

She’s started asking people what content they want, which is never a good sign is it? Good content creators find a niche and run with it, they don’t need handholding through what to talk about. If you’re asking what your audience want to see, chances are they’ve already got access to seeing that type of content from the millions of competitors who know what they’re doing and are good at it.

It made me laugh that she’s started posting her meals! Sorry but why? There are millions of accounts offering recipe ideas that actually look nice, are actually informative about nutritional content, actually offer instructions, are actually low budget, are actually made by good cooks, and actually offer their audience something they’ve not seen before or didn’t already know. Everyone knows how to put a jar of sauce over some mince and pasta Minnie, it’s nothing new nor inspiring.

Her niche used to be being a young mum moving into a council house and doing it up, but that content was only going to last as long as it took to decorate her house once. Nobody then wants to nor needs to see her decorating and redecorating at their expense, it’s boring and offensive now. It might have been different if she was genuinely showing starting from scratch on a budget: second hand furniture, cheap DIY hacks, mending things she’s found for free, etc. But nope, she was going for finance on top of the range and brand new items to be like every other influencer who has a Ruggable rug and a DUSK sofa and VAX SpotWash. You’ve got to pick a lane. Are you on a low income or aren’t you? Who is your target audience? It massively turns off an audience to see someone on benefits in social housing spending so much on luxuries that the average working person can’t afford or knows better than to waste money on. (Tallow + Ash laundry detergent in a council house? Come on now.)

Popping out babies, claiming benefits, playing houses and dollies and spending, spending, spending isn’t content that will wash forever for that reason. Before long, people with actual jobs start to get hacked off with funding frivolity for scroungers like Minnie. You don’t get to be on benefits in taxpayer subsidised housing and boast about all the nice things you get to have without it rubbing hardworking, struggling souls up the wrong way.

Content I would be impressed by:

• Getting a job as a young single mum (and navigating drop offs, pick ups, routines, applying for childcare funding etc)
• Going to uni or doing an apprenticeship as a young single mum (and what financial aid you’re entitled to and how to mange study and raising kids)
• Getting back into writing music as a young single mum
• Giving something back to society as a young single mum
• Actually living on a budget and within your means, and breaking down what that looks like as a young single mum

People want aspirational content, that’s why picking herself up as a single mum, decorating her council house, and learning to drive worked. She was bettering herself and her kids! But there’s just no aspiration about breeding endlessly for freebies, showing off what luxury items you’ve bought with your benefits money, and robbing your children of all dignity and privacy.
 
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MissWinnie

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Surprise, surprise! Her £11,000 car on a 4 year finance plan was a stupid idea for a first car! Almost as stupid as having unprotected sex with a brand new boyfriend and creating a life she can’t safely fit into said vehicle!

Everyone told her to wait, but Minnie knew best 🙄

She also spent £700 last year on those car seats and everyone told her that was stupid, now her chunky daughter can’t fit them rear facing so she’s got a double whammy issue. She’s just so fucking entitled and impulsive, she needs to grow the hell up and think for the long term when she is making decisions, not for the moment.

It’s a bit like her smug “look at me coping with 3 babies at 22” reel like it’s a flex and women haven’t been doing it for thousands of years. However, she’s got a shock coming her way when she’s mid-thirties and expected to raise and provide for 3+ teenagers in this day and age. But who am I kidding, she won’t be providing, benefits will! Her daughters will likely be knocked up and in council houses of their own by age 18.
I hope she realises if her daughter has maxed out the car seat rear facing, then the harness needs tucking away completely already. I cannot believe she’s not read the manual correctly, if she did she’d know that in either direction the harness is maxed out to 18kg. She can’t just use until she gets a new seat either, she needs it converted before her next trip - one accident, even minor could see the harness fail and she’d be thrown from the seat worst case!

As for the car, she found out she was expecting 2 days after getting the car and still continued with the agreement? She has supposedly lost a baby before this point too so even before agreeing to the car she was aware there was a chance she’d be popping more kids out. I don’t believe for a second this baby was unplanned, in her eyes at least.

Am I right in thinking she jumped in and bought the car blind without so much as a test drive? When it was delivered to her home was it the first time she’d seen it? She clearly didn’t look into any consumer rights she had as she should have been able to terminate the sale and finance within 14 days if it was an online car purchase and not in dealership. It’s really common knowledge that the Nissan Juke is tiny inside and not ideal for more than one child. She only got it because it was the car her mother wanted. Now she’s stuck until at least 50% way through the finance agreement payments where she can do a voluntary termination and hand the car back but could be without a car at all if she can’t get finance again in the future. Absolutely ridiculous.

Why has it been left until her due date to realise the situation isn’t ideal? Should’ve visited a car seat stockist and had the configuration set up and ready to go for ages now - she’s not getting a car seat or a person inbetween those seats. They’ll be having family days out in two cars for the foreseeable future.Two sets of grandparents and none of them have had the sense to get him to sort out a more suitable family car either? Although she’s got what she wants now so perhaps they won’t last too much longer when the reality of it all sets in after their daughter is born.

It’s frightening how thick she is & she is bringing another child into the world! She needs to grow up and start taking responsibility and fast.
 
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DeloresBawbag

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I really quite like her, but I feel she’s got very limited capacity to understand what she’s doing. She doesn’t strike me as very bright, nor is she surrounded by smart people or good role models.

She’s repeating what she lived, with a big of ‘I’ll be better at this,’ mixed in, and simply doesn’t see the risks she’s taking or the poor choices she’s making.

The speed with which her bf and his family got their claws into her and her kids is a big red flag.

I think she’s a sweet girl and I really hope it all works out for her the way she hopes.
 
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