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Corn litter by Amazon is what we use. Game changer! Clumps well, and no smell. The worst one I’ve used was the Morrisons own clumping one. Grabbed it from the Morrisons daily down the road from us when we ran out. Absolutely awful. The stench was unreal 🤮
 
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She really is a sucker for a social media advert, isn’t she? That’s so so so much money and a complete gimmick. It’s just silica litter.

You can get near identical stuff, 200g more of it, for £3.49.


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What happened to money savvy Minnie who was showing us how she saved 80p in Aldi (and then spent that saving on plastic bags to bring her shopping home in). I’m dying to know where all her money comes from, it’s not like she’s got much engagement or lucrative brand deals. She’s always spending, just blew hundreds in Ikea, was wearing Ugg shoes, Lucy & Yak trousers and dungarees, has a £10k car on finance, pricey designer car seats, and is now flaunting twenty quid bags of cat litter?

All whilst claiming to still need “benefits” and a “council house”. Such a shameful grifter. A thick one too.
but this one doesn’t detect heath problems in your cat 🙄🙄🙄
Popped up this morning advertising katkin ffs, she’s SOOOO out of touch, I don’t even dislike her but am heading in that direction
 

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I just don’t understand why anyone who has recently had a healthy kitten checked over and vaccinated at the vets would need to pay a premium to so closely monitor their cat’s pee for illness?

She really does just jump on every fad she sees. It’s like when she spent all that money on a Ruggable rug because all the influencers had them, a car on finance she can’t surely actually afford, car seats that weren’t actually suitable but had a label all the flashy influencers promoted, etc. No sense that kid.
 
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Still sharing photos of her kids, despite news reports that AI child abuse imagery is on the rise, and Sarah Ockwell-Smith is petitioning for children not to be used for content. The evidence is staring us all in the face and still influencers use their kids for likes. Are they dense? Or do they just not care?

Everything she’s posting now should be private, and for her close friends and family’s eyes only. Strangers don’t need to see her family album. Thing is, I think she’s so desperate to still be relevant but her DIY content has dried up so the only thing she’s got left to give is her kids.


 
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Still sharing photos of her kids, despite news reports that AI child abuse imagery is on the rise, and Sarah Ockwell-Smith is petitioning for children not to be used for content. The evidence is staring us all in the face and still influencers use their kids for likes. Are they dense? Or do they just not care?

Everything she’s posting now should be private, and for her close friends and family’s eyes only. Strangers don’t need to see her family album. Thing is, I think she’s so desperate to still be relevant but her DIY content has dried up so the only thing she’s got left to give is her kids.



There was a cringe segment on This Morning yesterday about this. Nick Ferrari, Cat, Ben,bAshley James, Martin Lewis . Talking about this topic. Ashley pimps her kids to the enth degree. Shares the most inappropriate photos, post photos of them in school uniform. Everyone bar Ashley, with some stupid justification was against sharing children online. Cat and Martin with young children don't share their kids

It isn't just this risk. Many safeguarding risks.

Years ago it was said for safeguarding reasons dont dress children in public with their names on clothing, hats, headbands, ect with their names on. The wrongens can get too familiar v quickly knowing a name and coax a child off saying xyz your Mummy knows me and wants me to take you blah blah.

Not only are named personal items the thing!, these little children are shown online. Showing their home, schools, nurserys, where parents shop. It is madness.

Also. Why has Minnie bought school shoes this early?! They could be outgrown by Sept, kids that age grow in Spurts so quick
 
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School shoes now is a bit daft.

It also seems this is the kids’ first time going to nursery/pre-school? She’s been eligible for funding since they turned 2 but seems to have chosen not to send them until now? Especially the eldest. She will be very close to 4 when she starts preschool, I thought they started the term after their 3rd birthday?

Each to their own but I can’t help but think this was less about wanting to keep them home (she gets babysitters as often as she can) and more that she just didn’t get around to applying because she’s completely and utterly useless and out of her depth.

I bet those kids have never seen a dentist either. Her own mother hardly set the example there.

She really grates on me.
 
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School shoes now is a bit daft.

It also seems this is the kids’ first time going to nursery/pre-school? She’s been eligible for funding since they turned 2 but seems to have chosen not to send them until now? Especially the eldest. She will be very close to 4 when she starts preschool, I thought they started the term after their 3rd birthday?

Each to their own but I can’t help but think this was less about wanting to keep them home (she gets babysitters as often as she can) and more that she just didn’t get around to applying because she’s completely and utterly useless and out of her depth.

I bet those kids have never seen a dentist either. Her own mother hardly set the example there.

She really grates on me.
She is clueless and has her IG page!!! It is ridiculous.

And priorities all wrong
 
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School shoes now is a bit daft.

It also seems this is the kids’ first time going to nursery/pre-school? She’s been eligible for funding since they turned 2 but seems to have chosen not to send them until now? Especially the eldest. She will be very close to 4 when she starts preschool, I thought they started the term after their 3rd birthday?

Each to their own but I can’t help but think this was less about wanting to keep them home (she gets babysitters as often as she can) and more that she just didn’t get around to applying because she’s completely and utterly useless and out of her depth.

I bet those kids have never seen a dentist either. Her own mother hardly set the example there.

She really grates on me.
This is a bit harsh. Just because the kids are eligible for nursery doesn't mean that they have to go. Lots of people keep their children at home and there is nothing wrong with children and their caregiver staying together.
Now she's had a third she probably does need some extra help and there is nothing wrong with that either.
But buying the school shoes now is silly.
 
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This is a bit harsh. Just because the kids are eligible for nursery doesn't mean that they have to go. Lots of people keep their children at home and there is nothing wrong with children and their caregiver staying together.
Now she's had a third she probably does need some extra help and there is nothing wrong with that either.
But buying the school shoes now is silly.
I don't think it is harsh. Unfortunately Minnie is not a cycle breaker of the dysfunctional life she was raised in. Dysfunctional and not working, sponging off the state. There's no work ethic, no get up and go to learn or achieve..only ponce ponce ponce from getting pregnant. She is not a good mother..buying pretty clothes and taking kids to farms does not constitute a good Mother.

Her eldest, the daughter what she sees and how she is raised will end up another Minnie.
 
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I don't think it is harsh. Unfortunately Minnie is not a cycle breaker of the dysfunctional life she was raised in. Dysfunctional and not working, sponging off the state. There's no work ethic, no get up and go to learn or achieve..only ponce ponce ponce from getting pregnant. She is not a good mother..buying pretty clothes and taking kids to farms does not constitute a good Mother.

Her eldest, the daughter what she sees and how she is raised will end up another Minnie.
All of that is true but it's literally got nothing to do with whether her children attend nursery or not.
 
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This is a bit harsh. Just because the kids are eligible for nursery doesn't mean that they have to go. Lots of people keep their children at home and there is nothing wrong with children and their caregiver staying together.
Now she's had a third she probably does need some extra help and there is nothing wrong with that either.
But buying the school shoes now is silly.
That’s why I’ve said “each to their own”, there are lots of reasons people keep their kids home longer. I just find it odd that as someone who was always so quick to boast her child free days, left them gladly with her mum (who not so long ago she was portraying on social media as an irresponsible parent who abandoned her for a bloke), was happy to leave them with her new boyfriend’s family quickly, etc. that she didn’t take advantage of the free preschool places at the earliest opportunity. Children don’t have to go to nursery but I’m saying Minnie strikes me as the sort of person who can do all of the fluffy and performative parenting, the nice clothes and activities and days out, but the actual life admin and nitty gritty of raising kids escapes her. It wouldn’t shock me if she just didn’t get around to applying or finding out how to.

She hasn’t, however, hung about in putting her name down for a bigger council house. Funny that.
 
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All of that is true but it's literally got nothing to do with whether her children attend nursery or not.
It is. They were offered an education setting and she hasnt taken it. Minnie isn't educated herself and lacking sense. The children would benefit the pre school places. Starting Reception at 4 full time is going to be a real shock for the eldest and may take her ages to settle.
 
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I’m sure she’ll settle fine, she seems like a confident little character and kids are resilient and catch up. I do agree that she’s missed out on a big chunk of learning and socialising opportunities, but that’s not the end of the world. My main point was that this late application just appears symptomatic of Minnie’s parenting being “picture perfect” rather than actually child-focussed. If she were child-focussed, she wouldn’t be exposing those children online.
 
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I wonder if Kyle has 'moved in' and supporting his ready made family or are they doing the woman stays on government handouts and the BF stays the maximum number of days a week allowed before he has to contributefinancially!
 
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I wonder if Kyle has 'moved in' and supporting his ready made family or are they doing the woman stays on government handouts and the BF stays the maximum number of days a week allowed before he has to contributefinancially!
He's 100% moved in but not on paper 😶‍🌫 such gross leeching behaviour
 
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It is. They were offered an education setting and she hasnt taken it. Minnie isn't educated herself and lacking sense. The children would benefit the pre school places. Starting Reception at 4 full time is going to be a real shock for the eldest and may take her ages to settle.
This isn't true though is it. Children should be at home with their caregiver for as long as possible, like most other children in other countries do. Just in the UK we ship them off early and think anyone that doesn't is bizarre.
There is a lot to slaf Minnie off for, but keeping her children at home isn't one of them. Imo.
 
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This isn't true though is it. Children should be at home with their caregiver for as long as possible, like most other children in other countries do. Just in the UK we ship them off early and think anyone that doesn't is bizarre.
There is a lot to slaf Minnie off for, but keeping her children at home isn't one of them. Imo.
Fair enough..as I've stated. She isnt educated herself to help her children develop and learn.

Personally, my children were ready for a full time education or a structured learning setting at 3yo..i was a SAHM because that is what suited our family requirements. I gave up my career..I could not keep up with what they needed. They needed their minds stimulating with constant learning and a lot of physical burning off..Fast forward all through their school years were very academic and high achievers. So i would not understand this type of life.

I came from dysfunction myself- I want the very best and nothing but the best for mine..they have had lots of love and my time. My daughter was excited for full time school but equally new she'd miss Mummy. She wanted to be able to smell me so i slept with handkerchiefs and she took them in her pocket.
 
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Fair enough..as I've stated. She isnt educated herself to help her children develop and learn.

Personally, my children were ready for a full time education or a structured learning setting at 3yo..i was a SAHM because that is what suited our family requirements. I gave up my career..I could not keep up with what they needed. They needed their minds stimulating with constant learning and a lot of physical burning off..Fast forward all through their school years were very academic and high achievers. So i would not understand this type of life.

I came from dysfunction myself- I want the very best and nothing but the best for mine..they have had lots of love and my time. My daughter was excited for full time school but equally new she'd miss Mummy. She wanted to be able to smell me so i slept with handkerchiefs and she took them in her pocket.
I hear you! My middle is hyperlexic, he was ready for school at 2 and was sent right into nursery! Go ask your questions there hun, mommy doesn't know the answers 😂
 
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I hear you! My middle is hyperlexic, he was ready for school at 2 and was sent right into nursery! Go ask your questions there hun, mommy doesn't know the answers 😂
Never heard of this! I think one of mine had it. He was reading at 2yo. Self tought. Car/supermarket /shops branding he woud find it and say thats TESCOS for example. He was in daycare a couple of days a week, never napped with the others, mooched about at nap time looking for labels and branding to point out and tell the staff ! And the many many questions constantly!!
 
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What does her boyfriend
Never heard of this! I think one of mine had it. He was reading at 2yo. Self tought. Car/supermarket /shops branding he woud find it and say thats TESCOS for example. He was in daycare a couple of days a week, never napped with the others, mooched about at nap time looking for labels and branding to point out and tell the staff ! And the many many questions constantly!!
This is new to me, but I’m now convinced my almost 9 year old had it, he honestly blows me away everyday with his intelligence, and he’s always been that way, so advanced for his age
 
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