Minniharrisuk #1

[Iamintherealworld]

Jesus bloody christ
Where to start
My two penith.

Brand new drivers need a lot of experience on the road, a lot of experience. It is totally different from lessons. I passed years ago, with less traffic on the roads. The first drive off and thereafter with no one beside you is daunting and a bit scary. Absolutely no way should a newly passed driver be driving two fucking babies for starters. Anyone driven with babies and youngsters in the back,? I have with many years driving under my belt, they can be very offputting, distracting, and always at the most inconvenient times. You really need some driving experience under your belt.

Nowadays, insurance companies put restrictions on newly passed YOUNG drivers. I.e not driving late at night, not to drive passengers of young ages, slightly lower premiums for having a dash cam. All of this is common sense and a saftey exercise preventing serious crashes and RTA deaths. Absolutely NO WAY would I let a child of mine her age, drive newly passed with those 2 young kids in with her. So, even if she did pass she should not be driving the babies.

WtF is all this money coming from? Hope she'll send the car seats back for a full refund. By the time she passes they coukd be out of the car seats.

The money she's spent, wasted, thrown down the drain. classic example of someone easy come, easy go not working for it. It utterly disgusts me. One thing everyone in life should do is respect the £1 coin. Anyone self made, says this. It is the best saying I ever heard, many years ago and I heard the very successful founder of SKIMS , Emma Gede say it not long ago. She's a multimillionaire. These people would not waste 1p because they know the value of money and what it takes to get what they have achieved.

I am not a hater, Minnie needs educating on financial health, adulting, common sense, children's saftey and to stop knee jerking responses - all good things come to those who wait.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

I’ve lived under 3 different councils and I’ve never heard of a £1000 decorating grant. I think it must vary area to area depending on the council’s budget and priorities, but I certainly wasn’t offered any assistance when I moved into my bare-floored, undecorated council house.

She had lino or laminate down under the carpet already so she’s obviously already paid for flooring once. I just looked back and the carpet was 25% gifted by a brand, so she paid 75% of it + underlay + fitting. Two lots of flooring in one room in under a year, only to rip the second one up shortly after, sounds like a lot of disposable income for a single parent to two under 3s. She’s fiddling something isn’t she!

I've been told you don't get offered anything by the state. If you know what 'you are entitled to' they'll pay it. So these families that are generation after generation claiming benefits know how to play it to get what they can.

 

[Lizzie Mintdrop]

Wondering if she got Post Natal Depression

Possibly, she mentioned professionals being involved. I hope she's ok and, I think completely stepping back from social media shows she's got some sense. I hope she stops showing the children's faces when she comes back, especially if she shares what's happened

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Minnie certainly shows how great and lucrative it can be for some single mothers on benefits !!!!

 

[byefeliciax]

Firstly, she’s like 22, why is she promoting fillers?!

Secondly, anyone notice how she said about our photoshoot but can’t wait to hang them in my house? Not our house. Either it’s a slip because babbydaddy hasn’t moved in yet, or it’s calculated because she’s not declared him at that address so she can cash in. Grifter.

 

[aec87]

Says she’s a single parent in one story then has a partner in another. I’m so confused.

Thank you for answering Minnie

 

[byefeliciax]

I think she’s daft for not persevering with a manual, particularly because she already has a manual car sitting in her driveway. Like, I really struggled with gears and it took a lot more lessons, practice, and tests to pass than anyone else I know, but I cracked it eventually and I’m glad I did.

She’s doing this all in such an expensive and rushed way so that she can get a test in before her theory expires. I’d just have rebooked the theory. If she fails this test, after blowing all her savings on intensive lessons and multiple expensive car seats, will she be able to afford to keep up the practice with an instructor before the next test which could be months away? Especially if she has to resit her theory before she rebooks.

I think there’s a few of these young mums in a WhatsApp group, Minnie, Molly, Alex & co, and I think Minnie is just desperate to outdo Alex and pass first instead of going at her own pace.

 

[byefeliciax]

My observations, girls like Minnie love having babies, once the kids get to an age they switch off from them and do the very bare minimum. Off to school, free school.meals, free what they can get for trips ect. No after school/w/e activities. Kids raise themselves whilst mother is into latest baby. Seen this time and time again.

Yes and often I think that behaviour comes from unresolved adversities from their own childhood. They just want to feel loved and needed, and nobody makes you feel more loved and needed than a baby, you’re their whole world. But like you say, babies grow up and they don’t fill that hole forever. Onto the next!

I wonder if that’s what her own mother did? Looks like it.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

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Course she wants a bigger house and for it to still be a taxpayer subsidised one.

Her kids aren’t even eligible for their own bedrooms until the eldest is 10 (16 if the kids were same sex). It’s unlikely she’d be granted an exchange if she was considered to be under occupied. In addition to that, she would be liable for the ‘bedroom tax’ because she won’t qualify for housing benefits to cover a third bedroom until she’s eligible for one.

Want a bigger house? Go out and earn it you absolute sponger. She’s got kids old enough to qualify for free childcare, is young and fit and healthy, and a boyfriend she could combine incomes with and save to buy in a few years.

She’s in the perfect position for council housing and benefits to be a stepping stone, not a lifestyle.

I think she is pregnant.
Maybe the plan is to swop to a 3 bed house. Kyle moves in, pays rent and eventually buys the place from the council..cheap way to get a property. I know they've only been together 5 mins, this is how some operate.

 

[invisiblelady]

I notice she was covering up the necklace in her story. I'm so invested after seeing the blurred out name on it previously!

 

[Emsie]

School shoes now is a bit daft.

It also seems this is the kids’ first time going to nursery/pre-school? She’s been eligible for funding since they turned 2 but seems to have chosen not to send them until now? Especially the eldest. She will be very close to 4 when she starts preschool, I thought they started the term after their 3rd birthday?

Each to their own but I can’t help but think this was less about wanting to keep them home (she gets babysitters as often as she can) and more that she just didn’t get around to applying because she’s completely and utterly useless and out of her depth.

I bet those kids have never seen a dentist either. Her own mother hardly set the example there.

She really grates on me.

This is a bit harsh. Just because the kids are eligible for nursery doesn't mean that they have to go. Lots of people keep their children at home and there is nothing wrong with children and their caregiver staying together.
Now she's had a third she probably does need some extra help and there is nothing wrong with that either.
But buying the school shoes now is silly.

 

[byefeliciax]

I really wouldn’t be surprised if she’s just having some kind of hissy fit because she’s only getting about 12 comments per post on Instagram. She’s still got all their faces on TikTok where she can monetise them.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

I wonder if she's going to use the winter months to "conceal" the pregnancy and the announcement will be the arrival?

Doubtful, because pregnancy is an earner on the gram!

 

[Colourfulmug]

I managed to screenshot the scan photo (accidentally - was just going to send the announcement in general to my friend who also isn't a fan)...anyone clever enough to work out a rough EDD? Also...before anyone says it's a breach of privacy to post medical info...she's the mug posting it online

 

[FeelingPrawny]

Oh wow, I did not even spot her footwear! How irresponsible of her! First thing she did was strap her kids in and drive a new car for the first time in fucking sandals! Idiot! And look at her steering! Jesus Christ! I know we’ve all got to start somewhere but use your fucking brain girl!

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Did you see the part where she hadn’t finished stopping the car before talking out the window. It's worrying for all their safety as its risks that are so easily sorted, but could be absolutely traumatic.

 

[FeelingPrawny]

I've been driving years and I still won't wear anything that isn't a proper shoe to drive. She's just so irresponsible. 200 a month for insurance with a black box is so much! After finance payments, tax and cost of running the car she's going to be paying about 500 per month for this car. How can she afford that?!

I would say it's likely more than that. Add in cost of fuel plus wear and tear that should be saved up for.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Possibly, she mentioned professionals being involved. I hope she's ok and, I think completely stepping back from social media shows she's got some sense. I hope she stops showing the children's faces when she comes back, especially if she shares what's happened

After re reading the post, she mentions grieving. So it sounds like someone close passed suddenly?

 

[byefeliciax]

I wonder why Minnie wasn’t invited on the Instamum huns Haven holiday last week?

 

[FeelingPrawny]

There you go, suddenly talking about baby clothes and things she wants to keep for baby 3.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

A lot of us have hideous back stories from childhood. Exactly byefeliciax. We build our lives, don't look back and focus on changing ways.

The cocktail sausages got sliced lengthways, did she get messages or read here. Makes herself look so silly when she says things like I had no idea, I knew about grapes..honestly, use your nodle, have a bit of common sense. We do not need telling every minute detail. Hard /ish firm food a certain shape will get stuck in the young if not chewed properly.