Minniharrisuk #1

[DeloresBawbag]

How can you be the parent of two toddlers and NOT know that cocktail sausages have to be sliced lengthways cos they’re a choking hazard?

When mine were that age there was loads of stuff telling parents this about grapes and sausages and mini eggs, complete with a helpful visual of a small child’s gullet and the explanation of how smooth sided things of that diameter can get stuck easily.

Gives me the heebie jeebies just thinking about it. Why would you take the risk?

 

[byefeliciax]

I reckon Minnie is on full benefits plus disability benefits for her “mental health”, and then she’ll be allowed to earn about £500 a month on top from TikTok without losing benefits. She’s probably the exact sort of blagger the government want to take off PIP, and is doing a disservice to the genuine claimants.

She clearly comes from a multi-generational family of council house living and benefits claiming, so they’ll all know exactly how to play it and what they’re entitled to. She’s a grifter from a line of grifters. Nothing wrong with short term dependence on the state, but the welfare net is supposed to be there to catch people in times of need, not to be a permanent lifestyle.

 

[lexilouise]

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Secondly, anyone notice how she said about our photoshoot but can’t wait to hang them in my house? Not our house. Either it’s a slip because babbydaddy hasn’t moved in yet, or it’s calculated because she’s not declared him at that address so she can cash in. Grifter.

I wouldn’t read too much in to that, I’ve been with my OH for over 10 yrs (fully legit, kid, joint mortgage and everything) and still say my house, my bed etc
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I’m the same as you, my bed, my house, my room ect so I do agree but I feel like Minnie would’ve put some thought into that just given her personal situation

 

[Iamintherealworld]

On the note of safeguarding her children, I’ve a mind to contact social services after seeing this! This is just plain irresponsible!

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There’s a very good reason you’re not meant to give sparklers to children under 5 and why you should be instructing them to hold them at arms’ length, wearing gloves, and with strict supervision.

Her boy isn’t even 2 yet and nobody was even holding it with him?! And the way that little girl was waving the damn thing so close to her face! It’s a wonder her hair didn’t catch light or she didn’t end up with serious burns and scarred for life while her mum just looked on, phone in hand, getting “content”. Those things burn at temperatures 10x that of boiling water, they’re not toys! AND SHE GAVE THEM TO BARE HANDED TODDLERS! Absolute imbecile!

Oh my goddddd.
Jesus Christ, what an utter fool.

Far too young for sparklers, even wearing gloves and holding at distance and with the sparkler stuck in a carrot for extra saftey.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

I imagine she’s having to filter out a lot of negative comments and that’s going to continue for a long time yet. She’s such a grifter.

She had the prime opportunity to focus on her kids, a career, her home, her relationship, and plan on expanding her family when she had the space and resources a couple of years down the line. But no, she’s entitled, and she thinks the rest of the country should support her little game of mummies and daddies and dollies and houses. The inability to plan and think it through is testament to her immaturity. The fact she’s rushed into family trapping the first boy who would date her again just shows how badly she needs therapy, not more kids.

I dont believe she needs therapy, I dont believe everything she has said about the abuse from her step father - because. If she was abused by a atep father she would be OTT cautious about BFs, and potential step father around her own children.

I do believe she was dragged up by a benefits scrounging mother. Minnie is repeating the cycle and no doubt got and getting all the information she needs to play the system from her Mother.

Apart from pissing around 'influencing' which takes not much skill, much effort..regular hours. This girl wont ever support herself with her own income

Going back to her Mother. She clearly did not raise her well because if she had of. Minnie would not have the teeth she does. She has severe overcrowding, a dentist would have extracted 4 teeth when she was an early teen. Had it myself! Then braces and one of my children have had the same. Her mouth must be quite sore and uncomfortable because it looks like she has trouble closing her mouth due to overcrowding, I am not body shaming. Pointing out that these types do not do the basics requirements for their children.

 

[byefeliciax]

She’s fiddled the system good and proper, and now she’s fiddling her followers. Shame they can’t see through her like we can, she’s a total fraud.

 

[byefeliciax]

There's something I can't put my finger on in her latest story about 'not posting/being ill/driving' about her just looking different......

Probably pregnant again already, she’ll have an applied to the council for a third bedroom the moment she peed on a stick.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

It’s funny you should raise this. I was being nosey before, not going to put screenshots or name names here, but she has previously tagged Kyle’s family in posts and I went snooping.

His mum’s Facebook is wide open. In (I think) around May time last year, when she’d known the family 3 months, they went out on a boat trip with the kids and then had a family barbecue. Minnie posted about that. Kyle’s mum also posted it, but in his mum’s photos little E was sitting on Kyle’s dad’s lap steering the boat with him. And then the kids were in swimsuits in a paddling pool in their garden, and Kyle’s mum also posted a photo of just E on her public profile, completely topless with her little chest and nipples out. You just don’t know who is doing what with that photo do you!

I’m sorry, they might be the nicest family in the world, but she had no way of knowing that that early on. Look how many public figures (even some who have been considered national treasures) have turned out to be n0nces and grapists! You just can’t know!

I think not only is it wildly inappropriate to have a family you barely know that intimately close to your young children (and encouraging your tiny daughter that it’s ok to sit on a strange man’s lap), but to allow them to share public photos of your half nude child? And then to allow them be so careless with sparklers with her toddlers? It screams safeguarding at me, and that Minnie isn’t mature enough to set or enforce boundaries to protect her kids.

Being a good parent is more than keeping their clothes clean, serving up 3 meals a day, and decorating their bedrooms. It’s being smart enough to keep them safe from harm, and that she is clearly not.

I have looked on Facebook. Seen the bfs mothers garden pics. I would be SO pissed my daughter shown like this, then again she was never half naked in public.

Are his family not UK decent? The demographic difference of his and her family. Wondering if they would know about spongy benefit claiming single Mums if maybe not long been here?. This shit is unique to the UK. They look pretty normal everday folk. Working, nicely kept, go on holidays ect. Why on earth would their son get stuck and saddled with a ready made family and add to the family at such a young age so soon.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Absolutely agree with being proactive not reactive with a car! She hasn’t mentioned getting that noise looked at or how much it cost to repair, you’d think that would be a good reel to make while she was breaking down costs of driving to inspire people to start. I reckon she’s just ignoring it.

She doesn’t know the value of anything because she’s never had to earn any of it, and so she never looks after her stuff. It’s all so throwaway to her because it’s fully funded for free. She got rid of a perfectly good £1.2k buggy on a whim, doesn’t bother taking carrier bags with her to the shop, tossed out the kids’ perfectly fine beds... and then look at that brand new DFS sofa she got! Covered in food and crayon and she’s had it 5 minutes (and will be paying it off over 4 years).

I really wouldn’t be surprised if that car is on the scrap heap by the end of the year because she didn’t value it enough to care and then she’s left paying extortionate finance on a car she no longer has.

Another baby is coming soon shes a career benefit claimer. Youngest hits 3 and single benefit mums have to work a minimum of 16 or 20 hours a week or benefits deducted. This is why Forevergrowingnest sponger is on her 6th.

Diary of A Cheapskate is a different kettle if fish. Working family living modestly, mortgage free at 32.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Yeah and that’s what I said and got blocked for it. She’s not a nice person, plays the system and should have a platform on social media. Nasty girl and an absolute tramp

Agree. Shes a sheep in a wolfs clothes.

 

[byefeliciax]

She’s been very quiet about this theory test.

 

[mindlesswaffle]

Something tells me she may have read the thread but atleast she is somewhat honest compared to Alex.

 

[dumdums83]

She is such a twat! I really liked her in the beginning but she’s lost touch with her audience

 

[byefeliciax]

I get it, she was excited to test out her new car, but this just shows immaturity and impulsivity we shouldn’t have on the roads. She should have paused to do safety checks, like are her shoes appropriate being the first. I’ve a mind to report it as a safeguarding concern tbh, it’s just downright dumb.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

I always keep my mouth shut whenever this topic comes up in person because previously I'vebeen told I'm judgemental about it but it's something that annoys me lol... drawing on walls and likewise destructive behaviour just never happened when mine were small, the single incident we had that come remotely close to this was when my eldest was about 3, they used a bath crayon on my bathroom floor to draw a "worm" (it was an apprx. 5cm wobbly line) while I was running a bath. It came right off but I still explained to them that that's not what they were for and it never happened again after. Tbf, bath crayons didn't happen again either because they proved a nightmare to get off the textured tiles that we had lol, but I digress... it honestly baffles me when people act like kids drawing all over huge spaces of wall or furniture, and like ripping big chunks of wallpaper off or whatever else, is just something that happens and is normal. It's not!

An old neighbour of mine had felt scribbled from their landing, down the length of the stairs and around the hallway walls, like multiple continuous lines. Apparently done by their at the time 6(!) year old - they just shrugged about it and left it like that for the best part of a year.

Admittedly we made a point to never leave pens and other art equipment readily available when mine were small, it was always treated like an activity only available when an adult was able to supervise - maybe that was our saving grace? I know that kids sometimes get into things they shouldn't and while small or one off incidents are understandable - I'm sorry but something like my old neighbours incident or even small ones but it repeatedly happening is only possible if you're leaving your kid(s) unsupervised for far longer than you should be and making no effort to teach them to respect and care for things.

I always keep my mouth shut whenever this topic comes up in person because previously I'vebeen told I'm judgemental about it but it's something that annoys me lol... drawing on walls and likewise destructive behaviour just never happened when mine were small, the single incident we had that come remotely close to this was when my eldest was about 3, they used a bath crayon on my bathroom floor to draw a "worm" (it was an apprx. 5cm wobbly line) while I was running a bath. It came right off but I still explained to them that that's not what they were for and it never happened again after. Tbf, bath crayons didn't happen again either because they proved a nightmare to get off the textured tiles that we had lol, but I digress... it honestly baffles me when people act like kids drawing all over huge spaces of wall or furniture, and like ripping big chunks of wallpaper off or whatever else, is just something that happens and is normal. It's not!

An old neighbour of mine had felt scribbled from their landing, down the length of the stairs and around the hallway walls, like multiple continuous lines. Apparently done by their at the time 6(!) year old - they just shrugged about it and left it like that for the best part of a year.

Admittedly we made a point to never leave pens and other art equipment readily available when mine were small, it was always treated like an activity only available when an adult was able to supervise - maybe that was our saving grace? I know that kids sometimes get into things they shouldn't and while small or one off incidents are understandable - I'm sorry but something like my old neighbours incident or even small ones but it repeatedly happening is only possible if you're leaving your kid(s) unsupervised for far longer than you should be and making no effort to teach them to respect and care for things.

When one of mine went for pre school induction at 3yo, he said to a teacher in a very proud manner 'and we don't write on walls' .

Her youngest is 2 today. A baby could be on the horizon because, I'm pretty sure the single claiming mothers until the youngest is 3yo get full benefits. 3yo onwards they have to start working and benefits are reduced.

 

[aec87]

How has she got 126k followers?

Quite a lot of men follow her… I’m presuming it’s the boobs.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Me too. It makes me so angry, but if you try to call it out you get blocked or branded judgemental and jumped on by a suckup army of followers in parasocial relationships with utter narcissists.

It’s refreshing to interact with people who share my views on it all. Thank Tattle

Oh yes, give an opinion they dont like youre blocked.

Another topic that raises my hackles is posting full on photos of deceased babies.

 

[byefeliciax]

So still with him or back with him? Because she’s made “single mum” her whole online personality and I’m confused.

I’m going to give her the benefit of the doubt that she’s just in one of those very young and immature on-off relationships and they’ve rekindled romance once again very recently, but I think she needs to be careful with an audience that large that she’s not coming across like she’s appropriating the hardships of actual single parenting for monetary gain.

 

[blahblahblah29]

Is she trying to say the driving instructor was shouting at her and now she wants a female driving instructor as she has been triggered. I wonder if it was a way for a driving school to contact her to give her free lessons.

Exactly this

 

[Lizzie Mintdrop]

My first thought, reading that was Kyle had done something to her but I looked at her fb and there's still a family photo of them all on there and I think she'd have removed if that was the case