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Tbh this was my thoughts too... it reads that she's being purposely vague about whatever bad thing happened because it's a half truth. The comments aboout weight, skin etc, I suppose are people talking here about noticing the differences in her appearance and that has only happened because she's tried to pass off a selfie from months ago as recent... pure observations about that were all i remember seeing here, no fun being made of it. Plus, she's kinda contradicting herself by implying her and her partner are being harassed in public to saying then its a "small handful" of people. Maybe I've become biased but nothing seems authentic fr here to me. Even her "origin" story provokes zero sympathy tbh. Maybe that's harsh to some but her story is far from unique... is relatively tame compared to a lot of care leavers tbh and aside from all of that she's still very young and in a much better place to start pursuing the life she wants for herself and all she's positioning herself to do is post poorly thoughtout videos online for money. Minnie, with all due respect - get yourself back to education, give yourself and those kids a better chance of breaking the clear cycle of trauma and poverty you have experienced.
And get the children off her socials with all the pervy men followers. No one knows the affects of young kids being exploited online, and shown to strangers atvall sorts of stages of their life. These kids are going to grow up, messed up, angry and God knows what.
 
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And get the children off her socials with all the pervy men followers. No one knows the affects of young kids being exploited online, and shown to strangers atvall sorts of stages of their life. These kids are going to grow up, messed up, angry and God knows what.
This is true. Some of the children of the earliest adapters of using social media for income and involving their children are now reaching young adulthood and starting to speak out. We still don't know all of the long term psychology affects but nothing positive is coming from those once exploited children! Many are becoming advocates for better regulation and laws around it all for children, in fact many seem to have chosen to cut ties with their parents for exploiting and in some cases abusing them for content and financial gain. Just look at the 8 passengers saga, for example. Long before that all went down the road of outright abuse, those parents were thought of as just running a "family" YouTube channel. Minnie would do well to take heed from the voices of these now adults that come from all sides of spectrum of "content" and think of the long term effect for her kids instead of thinking about the short term financial gain. If you're feeling sensitive about strangers online having access to you that you're provide just imagine how sensitive a literal child who cannot even consent to that would feel having all angles of their daily lives platformed for god knows who!
 
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Tbh this was my thoughts too... it reads that she's being purposely vague about whatever bad thing happened because it's a half truth. The comments aboout weight, skin etc, I suppose are people talking here about noticing the differences in her appearance and that has only happened because she's tried to pass off a selfie from months ago as recent... pure observations about that were all i remember seeing here, no fun being made of it. Plus, she's kinda contradicting herself by implying her and her partner are being harassed in public to saying then its a "small handful" of people. Maybe I've become biased but nothing seems authentic from her to me. Even her "origin" story provokes zero sympathy from me tbh. Maybe that's harsh to some but her story is far from unique... and hoenstly is relatively tame compared to a lot of care leavers tbh. Aside from all of that she's still very young and in a much better place now to start pursuing the life she wants for herself and her kids, yet all she's positioning herself to do is post poorly thoughtout videos online for money. Minnie, with all due respect - get yourself back to education, give yourself and those kids a better chance of breaking the clear cycle of trauma and poverty you have experienced.
It’s all just so manipulative, isn’t it? She puts on this cute little butter-wouldn’t-melt persona but I actually think she’s got quite a calculating side to her. She knows how to twist a narrative to come off as a victim to get what she wants, that’s clear from the half-truths and twisted tones in what she posted today. I think she’s got a lot of growing up and healing to do, and she really doesn’t need to be doing that on a public stage.

Agreed about getting back into education and breaking the clear cycle. I do think she would be good doing something media focussed, she’s very creative. If it weren’t for the plastering her kids all over social media for attention for herself, I’d say I think she’s a lovely mum. She needs to go focus on those littlens, in private.
 
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It’s all just so manipulative, isn’t it? She puts on this cute little butter-wouldn’t-melt persona but I actually think she’s got quite a calculating side to her. She knows how to twist a narrative to come off as a victim to get what she wants, that’s clear from the half-truths and twisted tones in what she posted today. I think she’s got a lot of growing up and healing to do, and she really doesn’t need to be doing that on a public stage.

Agreed about getting back into education and breaking the clear cycle. I do think she would be good doing something media focussed, she’s very creative. If it weren’t for the plastering her kids all over social media for attention for herself, I’d say I think she’s a lovely mum. She needs to go focus on those littlens, in private.
She reminds me of an angry immature teenager. Which she pretty much is. She needs to look around her and make different choices to keep up the momentum to change things.

She has twisted observations about the fibby photo to say it was people making fun of her weight and her skin. Honestly, that’s something a 14 year old would do. The truth is she felt uncomfortable at some well observed truths, and decided to reposition it for public sympathy.

I actually laughed at her saying she’s posting content to ‘help us all.’ God love her! Her budgeting makes no savings, her cooking is atrocious, her shopping is endless and debt inducing, and her decor is a never ending cycle of disposable trends that she can only indulge because she doesn’t work or study.

She’s got so much potential and she started strong. I wish she could find that again, instead of getting knocked up and becoming a second generation baby factory. Go to college Minnie. Do social content on the side for local businesses. Be somebody your kids can be proud of. Work hard and build the home you dream of, not the one the council gives you.
 
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It’s not the first time she’s twisted things for public sympathy.

She shared some videos a while ago that were secret recordings of her “abusive” step dad. In the recordings she framed as devastating abuse and him kicking her out of her home, it was basically him saying something along the lines of, ‘Don’t come back to this house if you think it’s ok to speak to your mother like that!’. It just sounded like anyone trying to set boundaries with a salty teenager.

I’ve raised teenagers. I know all too well how they’ll take anything you say and spin it into, ‘It’s so unfair!’ - think Kevin and Perry. It’s an important evolutionary phenomenon: teenagers push parents away (and make themselves harder to be around) so they can fly the nest (and parents can let them go) to diversify the gene pool. These days they just don’t tend to diversify the gene pool straight away, multiple times in quick succession, with different fathers, and demand bigger council housing and more benefits with every baby...

I honestly don’t think I know anyone who has endured abuse and thought to whip out their phone to record it, and then captured something like that and thought, ‘Yup. That’s strong evidence to support my abuse claims, now I’m going to turn this into inspirational social media content so people can blow smoke up my a’. As an outsider, it really didn’t translate the way her self-indulgent teenage brain heard it, and the way she’s spun this latest tragic tale makes it harder to believe that “abuse” wasn’t all completely exaggerated for effect.

She’s looking at the world through the lens of a child who only got their needs met when something dramatic happened. I imagine she was pretty much ignored and left to her own devices growing up because her parents were spread so thin between the what, 7 siblings? The squeakiest wheel got the oil I bet, and so I think she’s learned to weave drama out of scraps of negativity so that someone will pay her attention. It’s all a bit Boy who cried wolf now, and she’s playing a dangerous game to make claims that can be debunked in black and white. Nobody made fun of her weight or acne. She doesn’t even have acne, she gets some hormonal chin spots like we all do, that in itself proves how dishonest she’s being!
 
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It’s not the first time she’s twisted things for public sympathy.

She shared some videos a while ago that were secret recordings of her “abusive” step dad. In the recordings she framed as devastating abuse and him kicking her out of her home, it was basically him saying something along the lines of, ‘Don’t come back to this house if you think it’s ok to speak to your mother like that!’. It just sounded like anyone trying to set boundaries with a salty teenager.

I’ve raised teenagers. I know all too well how they’ll take anything you say and spin it into, ‘It’s so unfair!’ - think Kevin and Perry. It’s an important evolutionary phenomenon: teenagers push parents away (and make themselves harder to be around) so they can fly the nest (and parents can let them go) to diversify the gene pool. These days they just don’t tend to diversify the gene pool straight away, multiple times in quick succession, with different fathers, and demand bigger council housing and more benefits with every baby...

I honestly don’t think I know anyone who has endured abuse and thought to whip out their phone to record it, and then captured something like that and thought, ‘Yup. That’s strong evidence to support my abuse claims, now I’m going to turn this into inspirational social media content so people can blow smoke up my a’. As an outsider, it really didn’t translate the way her self-indulgent teenage brain heard it, and the way she’s spun this latest tragic tale makes it harder to believe that “abuse” wasn’t all completely exaggerated for effect.

She’s looking at the world through the lens of a child who only got their needs met when something dramatic happened. I imagine she was pretty much ignored and left to her own devices growing up because her parents were spread so thin between the what, 7 siblings? The squeakiest wheel got the oil I bet, and so I think she’s learned to weave drama out of scraps of negativity so that someone will pay her attention. It’s all a bit Boy who cried wolf now, and she’s playing a dangerous game to make claims that can be debunked in black and white. Nobody made fun of her weight or acne. She doesn’t even have acne, she gets some hormonal chin spots like we all do, that in itself proves how dishonest she’s
There's people following these accounts that do not see the bigger picture..will reach out feeling for them.

Look at the amount thinking she so wonderful turning her life around..18yo pregnant to get a council place. She said herself finally a mum aged 18.
 
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A video from another “influencer” just came up on my fyp from December, Minnie commented on it….. MONTHS?! Have you even been together for that many months?!
 
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A video from another “influencer” just came up on my fyp from December, Minnie commented on it….. MONTHS?! Have you even been together for that many months?!
Months 🤣 Tell us how young you are without telling us how young you are! This time last year she was only just coming out of her on-off relationship with her last babydaddy.

I know exactly what’s holding them back really, and it’s not routine, it’s money. She’ll lose her benefits and he’ll become financially responsible for supporting her and her children and paying their rent. I wouldn’t be surprised if the person “antagonising” him was actually just warning him about girls like her and not to get himself honey trapped.
 
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Months 🤣 Tell us how young you are without telling us how young you are! This time last year she was only just coming out of her on-off relationship with her last babydaddy.

I know exactly what’s holding them back really, and it’s not routine, it’s money. She’ll lose her benefits and he’ll become financially responsible for supporting her and her children and paying their rent. I wouldn’t be surprised if the person “antagonising” him was actually just warning him about girls like her and not to get himself honey trapped.

Single mums on full benefit cant have the dads or bf move in full time for this reason..alway been the case.

This bf should not even be staying, full stop. Not when there's little ones in the house. And what if this relationship doesn't work out, then another bf comes into their life.
 
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More vague “U ok hun”/“I’ll PM you hun” typed posts. Such a massive attention seeker, it’s tragic.
 
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More vague “U ok hun”/“I’ll PM you hun” typed posts. Such a massive attention seeker, it’s tragic.
It's like the the Facebook Hospital check-in posts..Here Again 😢.all for attention and the you OK HUN. PM me or I'll PM you.dont mention the struggles, simple. Life is busy with 2 very young children. Learn the art of demplomacy.

But, this is life! Life is defo not easy, anyone who says it is, is a fool..we all have to take the crap, move on, build resilience, learn and use coping strategies for the next lot of rit. People that know me and my life well. say I could write a book. What I endured as a child, teen, young adult, adult. When you have zero good parental foundations and home is as dysfunctional as can be, no siblings (well you do but they have inherited the Narc and Physc gene) (your solid rock family members have passed on 😢) going through life is incredibly difficult. I have cycle broken 🙏. I have not come from the stereotypical lower class dysfunction, we had money, parents spent mainly on themselves and used money as a dangling carrot. The dysfunction went on around the world, everywhere we went. Parents were very well connected.

Minnie has started off very young with huge responsibility having kids so young. My children's NHS red books from birth are 0 to age 25. Research has shown children are children for much younger than previously thought (the brain)

If she was hospitalised for any length of time or treated for cancer she'd be in a children's ward herself.
 
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Disclosing or alluding to life drama on the public internet is so embarrassing. I think she thinks she’s unique but in reality everyone is facing hardships, they’ve just got more sense than to tell every stranger on social media about them. It’s just a symptom of being a chronic attention seeker and is so desperately immature.

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No mention of ‘amazing partner’ being a great support… I don’t think he’s got the maturity or life experience to be a solid long term partner to a very young mum with a complex past, and yet she’s ready to repeat history with him and have his children already.

It’s all so very sad, if only she had some good role models who would advise her not to play out this mess in public.
 
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Disclosing or alluding to life drama on the public internet is so embarrassing. I think she thinks she’s unique but in reality everyone is facing hardships, they’ve just got more sense than to tell every stranger on social media about them. It’s just a symptom of being a chronic attention seeker and is so desperately immature.

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No mention of ‘amazing partner’ being a great support… I don’t think he’s got the maturity or life experience to be a solid long term partner to a very young mum with a complex past, and yet she’s ready to repeat history with him and have his children already.

It’s all so very sad, if only she had some good role models who would advise her not to play out this mess in public.

Even one role model is such a big thing.
I did have positive role models in my wider family thank the Lord.

My daughter has a p/t job. She came home the other day saying a girl she works with Mother told her to quit the job and get claiming. This was during a conversation my daughter asking the girls future job/career plans. It happens unfortunately, benefits is a life style and choice for some girls.
 
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For someone who wants to make social media their main income, she’s not exactly putting in the effort is she 🤣 Content’s dried up, followers dropping like flies, I hope this is the end of it and a symptom of her finally going off to live a normal life in the real world.
 
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It’s either a baby or an engagement as it says our little secret. I still think baby because of all the pram talk previously and the three hearts
 
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I think she's already pregnant tbo
Benefit Street is her career
She'll still have followers. They'll be thick as 💩, happy to clap it all on

Forevergrowingnest..she's a career sponger. Has done everything possible to get out of WORKING, even has an Amazon Wish List some stupid followers buy her from.!!!! (Amazon stuff comes and goes as no one looks after anything) Started a course with aims to become a midwife, was doing very well on it- she's definitely not thick , just lazy AF and wants to be kept. Course has gone after a year of doing well.. met a fella last year and was pregnant with baby No6 after a few weeks. So babe in arms again..several men fathered her children.
I wish someone would start a thread on FGN! Non-stop moaning, she goes on and on and on, I don't think her accent helps mind 🙈
'I've got no money, this needs doing in the house, I've got no free time, the house is cluttered', on repeat. So much of it is for attention from her fella. And before he was on the scene it was attention from the most used baby daddy.
 
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