Minniharrisuk #1

[byefeliciax]

She's not going to fit 3 appropriate car seats in a Juke! How does that work if it's on finance and she needs to 'upgrade'?

Good luck to her upgrading a car she hasn’t looked after! It was rattling for ages and she drove all the way to Birmingham with it making a noise she hadn’t thought to have diagnosed.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

What a bloody long drawn out way to cook jacket potatoes!!!!!

 

[FeelingPrawny]

She’ll probably go and get something like that on finance just for the gram. It’s like the Mini, it was just for show/for the look but in no way a practical or affordable car for a young mum. She spent nearly £2k on a car to just let it rust and depreciate on her ex’s driveway. She’s got no sense.

Why on earth would she need sense though.... Don't you know you can just get through life with sharing all your info and kids lives, along with the odd cleavage shot and benefits?

 

[Emsie]

I'm an austistic adult who is hyperlexic so I just want to chime in here to say that hyperlexic kids very commonly turn into quite academically burnout and exhausted adults. Please look out for that if you suspect your kids fall into that category. Please be mindful of celebrating them without unintentionally pushing their special interests, intelligence or academic achievements as their personality wholly, or what makes them "them" if you will ...it's a hard identity shift to unravel in adulthood. Also it's quite often diagnosed alongside autism, it was a major part of my autism being diagnosed as a child. I flew under the radar a lot due to being academically focused and articulate from a very young age. While some of this may sound positive please just be aware that it can actually be quite an all encompassing hyperfixation that distracts from other developmental or social milestones, that inherently internalises a connect between self esteem and productivity.

Other than that, any specifically themed encyclopedia, interesting looking thesaurus' or games centred around words have always been a favorite item of mine to be gifted, and very much still are. Do with that whatever you will lol.

Thank you for flagging this 🩷

 

[Lucyxxxx]

All of her air-headed followers bleating about how “inspirational” she is to have pulled herself out of the gutter after being in a hostel like she’s done something truly incredibly astounding and not like she’s simply just got herself knocked up and been given a free house on the council and benefits to boot. I’ve done more inspirational turds.

ETA: Yeah I know it takes two to tango. That lad looks like a right drip though, bet he couldn’t even put a condom on a carrot.

All her income is from benefits, gifts from losers on the internet, and the odd few quid from TikTok ads that she adds monthly to her benefits calculation. She’s living the life of Riley. What isn’t free is “earned” (I use the term loosely) through every 20 year old narcissist's hobby of dancing around on a camera for cotton-brained strangers who lick their arse.

She’s selling her kids’ private lives for a fraction of a penny per view, and leaving them wide open to later-life identity theft, AI manipulation of their pictures for paedos, and public ridicule. That’s not inspirational, that’s abusive. The culture of ‘oversharenting’ makes me sick. “Good mums” don’t need to seek validation from TikTok about what a good mum they are, they just crack on and raise their kids.

Exactly. 2 of my kids have SEN (1 severely autistic the other has mild CP) and I don't even mention it on my SM to people I know. Rarely post pics of em and when I do I make sure my settings are private and the people I have on SM are people I actually know.(I do post first day of school and Xmas day photos that sort of thing). Just couldn't imagine selling my kids out or breaching their privacy like that.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

What’s her due date? Who was it that spotted her blurring out a third name on her necklace? She was obviously pregnant already then!

She is quite far gone. Couple of months to go I reckon

 

[Emsie]

Never heard of this! I think one of mine had it. He was reading at 2yo. Self tought. Car/supermarket /shops branding he woud find it and say thats TESCOS for example. He was in daycare a couple of days a week, never napped with the others, mooched about at nap time looking for labels and branding to point out and tell the staff ! And the many many questions constantly!!

Oh my, sounds just like my son!! It's the self taught reading that defines hyperlexia so I think you're right.
Logos, flags and the solar system tend to fascinate them too 🩷

 

[da_foooke?!]

She’s filtering her comments on TikTok

 

[byefeliciax]

Those types definitely exist and Minnie is a prime example; keeping up with the Joneses at the expense of the Joneses hard-earned taxes. She wants top of the range everything without ever having to contribute back to society in any meaningful way, even her “influencing” is self-indulgent. She says she “works” on social media but she doesn’t even treat influencing like a real job, she posts intermittently as and when it suits her and she’s got something to show off, and otherwise she uses it as a platform to therapise herself and cash in a bit of extra pocket money for more frivolity. She’s not even trying to be relatable.

But what I’m saying is it’s important to acknowledge that there are single mums on benefits who use it as a means to an end when they stumble upon temporary hardship, they don’t all exploit the system for a free luxury lifestyle. I resent people like Minnie for so publicly and brazenly being that exact stereotype and doing a disservice to all the single mums on benefits in council houses who have had to kit their homes out on Facebook Marketplace and Freecycle, have had to make kids’ bedroom makeovers birthday presents to justify the expense, haven’t afforded new clothes in half a decade, live years without carpets and decor and certainly wouldn’t ever spend £300 on a rug, meanwhile they’re borrowing tools from friends to hang basic curtain poles because there’s no way they could afford tools of their own.

Silly materialistic girls who have their lifestyles on tick aren’t an accurate representation of life on benefits at all, they’re a representation of entitlement, greed and debt.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

I wouldn’t be surprised if benefits tell her soon that her self-employment is not gainful and she needs to get a proper job. That’s why she’s desperately clutching at straws and posting so haphazardly lately, her “content creator career” isn’t paying.

I think it’s likely that her time as an influencer is drying up fast. Followers are dropping like flies, she’s lost her novelty, and her content is too inconsistent. She’s looking desperate now.

She’s started asking people what content they want, which is never a good sign is it? Good content creators find a niche and run with it, they don’t need handholding through what to talk about. If you’re asking what your audience want to see, chances are they’ve already got access to seeing that type of content from the millions of competitors who know what they’re doing and are good at it.

It made me laugh that she’s started posting her meals! Sorry but why? There are millions of accounts offering recipe ideas that actually look nice, are actually informative about nutritional content, actually offer instructions, are actually low budget, are actually made by good cooks, and actually offer their audience something they’ve not seen before or didn’t already know. Everyone knows how to put a jar of sauce over some mince and pasta Minnie, it’s nothing new nor inspiring.

Her niche used to be being a young mum moving into a council house and doing it up, but that content was only going to last as long as it took to decorate her house once. Nobody then wants to nor needs to see her decorating and redecorating at their expense, it’s boring and offensive now. It might have been different if she was genuinely showing starting from scratch on a budget: second hand furniture, cheap DIY hacks, mending things she’s found for free, etc. But nope, she was going for finance on top of the range and brand new items to be like every other influencer who has a Ruggable rug and a DUSK sofa and VAX SpotWash. You’ve got to pick a lane. Are you on a low income or aren’t you? Who is your target audience? It massively turns off an audience to see someone on benefits in social housing spending so much on luxuries that the average working person can’t afford or knows better than to waste money on. (Tallow + Ash laundry detergent in a council house? Come on now.)

Popping out babies, claiming benefits, playing houses and dollies and spending, spending, spending isn’t content that will wash forever for that reason. Before long, people with actual jobs start to get hacked off with funding frivolity for scroungers like Minnie. You don’t get to be on benefits in taxpayer subsidised housing and boast about all the nice things you get to have without it rubbing hardworking, struggling souls up the wrong way.

Content I would be impressed by:

• Getting a job as a young single mum (and navigating drop offs, pick ups, routines, applying for childcare funding etc)
• Going to uni or doing an apprenticeship as a young single mum (and what financial aid you’re entitled to and how to mange study and raising kids)
• Getting back into writing music as a young single mum
• Giving something back to society as a young single mum
• Actually living on a budget and within your means, and breaking down what that looks like as a young single mum

People want aspirational content, that’s why picking herself up as a single mum, decorating her council house, and learning to drive worked. She was bettering herself and her kids! But there’s just no aspiration about breeding endlessly for freebies, showing off what luxury items you’ve bought with your benefits money, and robbing your children of all dignity and privacy.

I never watch the full video or reel of any of her stuff. I start, eye roll then move on. I have re watched the sofa cleaning vid just now, In the comments I think a kids table and chairs was suggested , she replied they had a set it broke..how does a tots table and chairs break? Replace it, buying other tat is not a priority.

This is what is wrong with the likes of Minnie. A kids table and chairs is a priority. So the kids have their area to eat their meals and draw/craft, to develop boundaries. Get on marketplace and look for a pre loved IKEA, they last forever. And the kids should not be eating on the sofa maki
ing that mess, cover the sofas with throws.. movie time as a TREAT some sweeties (not chocolate), OR popcorn in bowls and encourage them to sit watch and eat nicely or else no eating and drinking on sofas.

As been mentioned, they're probably left while she's wIth bf.

She showed off the kids Xmas gifts, yes it was not an obscene amount. Very young their tastes change so quickly, also, they only play with a few things.i found mine wanted, got - never touched some things. Age one from us ours had minimal toys because we bought as needed (0 -1) is a lot of learning and development, they had what was required. I knew they'd get gifts from family and friends so main gift age 1 and first Xmases was money in saving which they still have.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

I was thinking Molly, Dolly or Polly

Dolly/Dollie is a popular chavette name!

 

[Emsie]

What does her boyfriend

This is new to me, but I’m now convinced my almost 9 year old had it, he honestly blows me away everyday with his intelligence, and he’s always been that way, so advanced for his age

Minnie has united the hyperlexia mamas! X

 

[byefeliciax]

I think she’s absolutely stupid for spending any amount of money on doing her room up right now. She’s going to need to swap rooms with her kids at some point because she’s got two of them in the smaller room and the big one to herself, so it’s just wasteful to invest in major decorating right now. I don’t know why she didn’t give the kids the bigger space in the first instance. Probably thinks she’ll just blag a bigger house some day.

 

[dumdums83]

Does she ever stay for a whole holiday? Seems she always leaves early, what the point of going away?

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Spraying chemicals around a newborn with its head hanging loose.

Or spraying something!

Claiming her birth was ‘healing’ is a bit odd/concerning. I wonder if that’s in reference to having a present partner instead of doing it on her own this time? Either way, I’m always alarmed by the language she uses in relation to her kids fixing her or healing her. Children aren’t supposed to bear responsibility to repair their parents, she’s got it all backwards. She’s still so very young in her mind, too young, and with so much still yet to learn and overcome. I worry for those poor kids down the line.

From what I've seen thus far. She feel healed this birth because she had great support from Kyle. Her Mother was at the birth (i find this odd when she has a partner with her)..now home Kyle has been looking after her and his sister too...she is revelling in the attention.

Attention seekers will feel healed surrounded by a few days of massive attention.

 

[MissPrint]

She’s chucking out the toddler bed that she keeps banging her head on. Wasn’t she gifted it? Ungrateful brat.

I thought so too yet she claims she doesn’t even know where it is from, which is so ungrateful.

Am I alone in thinking her latest story is an undeclared ad for Habitat/Sainsburys?

 

[aec87]

Um Mins babe… you’re meant to pull and extend all the branches of the Christmas tree out and extend them. Not squash it all into a corner.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

I swear she claimed to be pregnant and cleaning Monday Tues yet baby is a week old tomorrow.
it’s all lies rather than just secrets

We know she is a big liar and manipulator.

 

[Iamintherealworld]

Minnie is really stupid, or does not give a shite because she has never and does not work for a thing - been handed a house..is on full benefits because she us a single mother. Or both !

Yep, photo posted today is for Tattle benefit, but, it is an old photo - not what she currently looks like.

 

[Leita]

How long before a freebie sofa.
This one is still new!