Lucy Carter has a thread on here that I comment on all the time, please don’t be too influenced by her she isn’t a great parent, she’s denied help for her son who has a speech delay, she doesn’t own coats for her 7/8 month old twins, when her babies were a few months old she used to leave them in bouncers for hours on end and now does the same with jumperoos (even though neither her or her husband work and are home all day), she also has clear favourite children, there are so many other things I could say, look at her thread and you’ll see!