Mere Soeur

[tawelwch]

I can’t imagine her buying a house as she moves too often. Unless she is waiting to buy a house out right she is going to have some sort of huge mortgage even with a big deposit. Doesn’t make sense to rent forever though, just paying someone else’s mortgage!!

There is zero shame in renting and if she decides to do that forever then good for her - it gives her the kind of freedom that a homeowner wouldn’t have. She could move wherever and whenever she wants.

This idea of having a mortgage ‘on her own terms’ is ridiculous, though. Unless she can save up hundreds of thousands of pounds, any house purchase is going to come with a hefty & lengthy mortgage.

And this insistence on never buying with a bloke - get over yrself hun. Stubbornness will only get you so far. Buying with a bloke is great, bigger mortgage & half the bills!

 

[oczymlody]

Her attitude is disgusting. She’s the epitome of this entitled attitude on Instagram. ‘If you don’t like an ad then flick past’ With an outraged look on her face. People don’t like having ads shoved down their throats by these people because most people have to WORK for their money. And by that I don’t mean sit on your gifted sofa and take pics of your kids in colourful leggings.

Actually, loads of people do this and don’t declare ads. Taking us for fools.

That over filled top lip

 

[MustardCactus]

Funny that she was so cagey about their relationship and now they are married

 

[Violetpickles]

‘Yeah I just told him he weren’t real heheheh’
What a fun vaccum she is. She didn’t give the boy a chance to even have a choice to believe or not.
I liked her comment at the weekend about being child free. ‘Well, Sams daughters here but y’know’.
I honestly feel sorry for her new husband and the ex.

 

[Violetpickles]

It’s the ‘didn't write vows cos I didn’t have time... but Sam did’ for me. Awkward.

 

[Squirrelfriends]

I’m really happy for her, falling in love so much you want to marry someone is such a lovely feeling. Plus I like how low key it was. I mean....I’ve seen other influencers begging for free shit for their wedding. This was in private and totally in their own style which I give her massive credit for.

Agree. I like a no fuss wedding, glad they're happy and did it in thier own way.
I have to say I loathe what her Mr is wearing though... My god

 

[onmyway]

Howling that Carrie closed her shop in JULY and is still shooting the day before "launch".

So far we have:
Ali Express slippers
A ring/mugs/plates/coffee/cards/fizzy pop - all bought or commissioned from someone else
Reorder of her scarves and tees - tie dye by someone else, seemingly no new design work

Girlie what have you been doing in all that time?!

 

[Saps]

I like her but this chat about fabric conditioners is dull

 

[Cops&robbers]

She is going to be ‘THAT parent’.
The one that every teacher dreads because she’ll come storming in with every excuse for her child (whilst he looks smugly on behind her) and make the teacher accountable for everything.
Not done his homework? Teachers fault.
Got a D in his exam? Teachers fault.
Missed loads of lessons because his mum thought it best to move house 10 times in a year and ‘teach him about life’? Teachers fault.

honestly, I feel for his future teachers

 

[Firecrotch69]

I have to say found those stories really shitty too, she definitely had her own narrative of wanting people to congratulate her for getting free things despite struggling in their own lives.
Basically if you aren’t happy for influencers getting everything for free you are bitter, need to work on yourself, and somehow it’s YOUR fault.

one response in particular when someone said ‘it’s nice to see people who deserve it do well’ which clearly meant they thought that about her, she basically had a go saying why do they get to decide who ‘deserves’ it.

well it’s quite simple Carrie - rich, middle class influencers who can afford the things- DONT DESERVE MORE FREE SHIT

 

[Spoonfulofjam]

I’m pretty certain they share a house but have separate finances which I know friends who have children from previous relationships have often done because of childcare costs etc. I’m not a huge believer in a joint bank account and have known that since I was a teenager (my parents had separate finances and thank god they did when he finally left) and so I appreciate the idea that you can be financially independent and furiously in love with your other half. She is, however, being an absolute queen bitch about it all and is obviously desperate to engage with anyone - whether a fight or validation. She’s clearly an extrovert and lockdown is not suited to her need to be around others telling each other they’re bad bs etc. I do think (and I hate psychoanalysing strangers) that this is all boils down to her separation anxiety and the subconscious idea that she doesn’t deserve the same happy ending as everyone else and that it could all be ripped away at any moment. Super sad. And you wonder what the long term effect of that is on her relationship. He seems like a sweet and patient guy, and perhaps his love and commitment will show her that she doesn’t need to put up barriers in advance. I hope so. She does need to stop being such a c*** to other people though.

 

[Sharkbait]

I always got the vibe that she just kind of tolerated him? Like she always made out they were so casual and chill. It all felt very very planned and precise more than the cool, thrown together vibe she was going for.
Also, I couldn’t believe she’s still banging on about buying a house by herself as a cool, single mama. Will her husband get to live in the house?

 

[SansaStark]

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So many things making me - she’s deluded, right?

She knows how much houses cost, right? Can’t beg for one of those.

Maybe not, but I think she’ll give it a go she’s shameless with her constant begs. Remember when she said they had no furniture in the London flat for 6 months until Made came to the rescue? Why the fuck would you let your kid live somewhere without a table and chairs to eat at for that long? And I’m not talking about families who are genuinely hard up. They do not get Ubers and delivered regularly, nor do they regularly acquire new clothes and beauty treatments or aveda hair products.

@SansaStark she did an ask me anything but then screenshot and slagged folk who were being nosey. Which, don't get me wrong, they were being nosey. But she's shared so much with people they think she's their cool pal and she'll answer. So maybe just say you're not sharing that sort of stuff any more rather than making fun of them? Or maybe make fun of yourself for oversharing in the past? It seems totally snide and bully cool girl from school.

Thanks for the recap. Sounds like her I think there’s nothing wrong with her wanting to buy a place on her own. But surely her #ad money pays well and she’d have been sensible and saved some. Property in Margate isn’t always expensive and she wouldn’t need to buy a 6 bed house like the SODs did. Also she’s young enough she could buy a cheaper place then upgrade in 5-10 years? I find the way she overshares stuff then berates people for being curious really annoying. She invites her followers to be nosey about her life

 

[MustardCactus]

Why does it matter what day someone emailed her? It’s 99% likely that they weren’t expecting a reply straight away over Christmas. God I cannot stand her.

 

[Laceandhearts]

Probably wanting us to think she is pregs then...

 

[Chinwag]

I didn’t know anything about this. What’s the story with red temple and temple coffee?

An ex employee of theirs suffered racist abuse at the hands of a guy who works there, he called her a slave etc. He told her he could send her back to where she came from, used to intimidatingly corner her and racially abuse her.

Instead of dealing with it in the right way and firing him, the owners decided promote him to a manager because he’s their mate!!!

It gets worse, they had photos of nazi symbols on their actual Facebook page!!! co-owner tattoos on people and has tattoos of nazi symbols himself, posted artwork of gollywogs and posts of a nazi book that was quickly taken of the market and now very hard to get hold of unless you really want it i guess or are in with the people who have the same interests and beliefs i expect.

the co-owner happens to be the owners husband which not many people seem to realise.

They have taken their Facebook page down, her co-owner husband has deleted his Instagram and the racist employees ex-girlfriend has called him out on Instagram for being a massive piece of shit.

 

[Rois]

I don’t think they do. She put up a story about nothing changing if they got divorced and how separate homes/bank accounts are the way for her. Thing is though, if they do divorce, the law doesn’t see it that way, does it? Or if god forbid something happened to her, her husband has rights to her bank account and property, right? Why bother getting married if all you’re going to do is go on about how it’s meaningless?

 

[Influenced]

So the kid who doesn't believe in Santa cause Mommy cool decided she couldn't be arsed. All well and good but does he go into school then telling all his friends there is no santa? She is so desperate to be non conformist its kind of sad

 

[SansaStark]

Ok. So she’s living with a partner but he pays nothing towards the rent or bills? What is that about? Is he taking her for a ride or is she full of it? Strange setup. Why you’d admit to that is just absurd. Obviously people who are invested in her as a single mum will be concerned. Most people are decent and want her to be ok, hence the ‘nosey’ questions. She’s become a caricature of herself

 

[tawelwch]

Lololol I see she’s back on her ‘I never take time off’ bullshit