Maeve Madden #2

[SozBbz]

One thing I will say is that I am in awe that someone whose family is so involved with Irish republicanism is so hung up on the Queen. My Father would slap the head off me if I was getting on like that and my mother would be turning in her grave.

Really? I think it’s great to see that she’s not limited by her background and seems to have affection for the Queen. Im no monarchist but I think generally most people liked Queen Elizabeth II, appreciated her trip to Ireland and held her in high regard for how seriously she took her role for an exceptional reign.
Honestly I think inheriting your parents prejudices is weird and backwards.

 

[Snowjoke]

You can be considered terminal for months and in some cases years. What Daddy would want his whole family putting their lives on hold feeling like they couldn’t do anything or go anywhere, constantly living in that fear. Yes it is awful timing, but you could also say he was happy to see Maeve have her big day and was happy to let go and be in peace

 

[Duchesspink]

I like her. Of all the influencers I follow she is at least one of the more open ones. Liked her rant about the guy in the gym this morning.

I like her too. You aren't in the wrong thread it's not an echo chamber in here.
It's possible to like someone but dislike some things they do.

 

[pumpkinspice7]

But it was the legal bit to say she was actually married, not the pretentious party is Adare that backfired badly when her Daddys passing took priority and she couldn't brag the way she wanted. One thing that will always stand out about her was when they picked up the hired "Range Rover" to go down to Adare and she said " Oh, I do love a Range Rover". I mean seriously, a dearly loved family member coming near the end of life and your on insta telling all your fans you do love a Range Rover. All just to brag!

Yes and her post was about her husband and their first dance on the actual day. How do you know her daddy didn’t want the wedding to go ahead? I think it’s unfair to comment on someone’s behaviour when going through something like that. When my own daddy was dying I did some questionable things but I was in denial and already dealing with grief so to me if I acted like normal then things would go back to normal. What do you want her to do? Never talk about her wedding because her daddy passed? It won’t bring him back and she can’t go back and undo the wedding. Maeve has done some things I don’t agree with but I wouldn’t begrudge the girl the wedding she wanted because of the circumstances

 

[EllsBellsWells]

Omg would you get over yourself. I've merely stated that everyone on here is entitled to an opinion. My opinion is that for someone who's father was terminally ill would I have made the decision to stay away from him any longer then needed no... in my eyes she's made some decisions I personally would not do. That does not mean we are evil tatters who lack any empathy for her situation. Nobody but her knows what's really going on but I'm merely commenting on how it's being portrayed on instagram which is her own doing!!

And that’s your opinion- but the rest of us can have ours without you telling us we must know her or be related to her? You can’t say ‘we’re all allowed an opinion’ and then as soon as people have different ones to yours accuse them of ‘coming from her camp’. Bit of a weird thing to say just because you have a different opinion to someone.

 

[Tiktoklurker]

I just hope she is OK. She hasn't posted anything since. From someone who posted several stories a day to just disappear is very unusual, even after a bereavement. I have to say I think of her often.

I’d say she’s probably doing the traditional, no outings, socialising or leaving the house for a month after a bereavement and so nothing to post. It is very sad, there’s no denying she was so close and fond of her father. Just so tough for all of them.

Sadly even if she had been in Newry Maeve and the rest of her family (apart from her mum) wouldn’t have been able to spend time with her dad, daisy hill is very strict and only 1 person is currently allowed to visit even when it’s getting close to the end. Am only assuming but would say that was a factor in him leaving hospital when he did so he could spend his final hours with his family which wouldn’t have been an option if he’d stay in the hospital.

This is exactly it, I and other have been saying it for weeks. Daisy hill only allows one person in and that was her mother. She came on her stories to say that they granted her a visit because of her circumstances.
It’s horrific that people are still going on that she “stole precious time” away from her family and are acting like she left her dad alone to die so she could party. The black and white of it is, that her and her family being at home, alone would have done nothing for them at all.
There Truly is evil in some people.

 

[Lucozadelover]

Welllll, she seems OK…..i have been so emphatic towards her, but now I feel like she’s not posting for attention…. She commented 5 hours ago… I
Mean really…. Beneath KK’s pic

No I think she’s being respectful and she doesn’t have it in her to come on right now. It’s one thing to leave a comment but quite another to come on talking or posting to thousands of people watching her give the girl a break

 

[EllsBellsWells]

Some of her connections are defending her on here?????!!!!!!!

That’s really weird to suggest that just because we have sympathy for her we must be her friends and family. Some of us are just displaying our decency- how on earth does that mean we must know her There’s clearly a few people on here that do know their family, knowing the funeral details etc. But it’s a bit of a stretch to say that people showing sympathy must be ‘coming from her camp’. You don’t need to know a person to be able to feel sorry for them when someone they love dies.

 

[Cutthebull]

I genuinely wonder how Maeve will feel looking at her wedding photos? As an outsider looking at them now after the loss of her Dad, I just think what an absolute load of nonsense and a waste of money. All the flowers, the dress, the thing on her head, flying in her hairdresser, all the planning, the stress, it just means nothing. All that matters is that you are marrying the person that you love and you have your nearest and dearest around you. All the other nonsense is just bollocks. I’m sure she will treasure the photos and memories from her London wedding when her Dad was there. I honestly think that looked like THE most special, relaxed and enjoyable day. That other charade was just nonsense. I know it’s her choice to do what she wants but those are my thoughts.

 

[Tiktoklurker]

To remind you tattle is a chat forum where all different opinions and views are given whether that be positive or negative

also “unrelated” to her life is a massive reach.. the girl documented EVERY detail of her two weddings , every meltdown / mini drama in her life even personal things like when she had doctors appointments etc never mind her multiple “moves”to and from Dubai

if tattlers know a bit about her personal life and speculate and share opinions on that too they can

if you don’t like seeing some negative opinions on influencers then tattle is probably not the place for you

And yes, to answer your previous post.
People were giving her “shit” implying that she was pulling everyone away from her dying father for her wedding. When the fact is, he was stuck in Daisy hill and would not have been able to see anyone apart from his one visitor, who went straight back to see him again. She came home when he was let out for palliative as her per stories.

There are negative opinions then there’s people ignoring facts to suit their sick narratives.

I don’t really care for influencers, I’d be the first to write on any thread when necessary and as a matter of fact, I’ve spoken about Maeve too but people are ripping apart a girl who’s father has died, acting as though she’s some sadistically evil person.

If you knew the Madden&Murphy families and specifically Paul, you’d know exactly how this time would be for them and how the decision for the wedding came about.
As other posters on here have mentioned, those children were obsessed with their parents.
Even as much of a dose Jacqui is, their parents lived for those kids and wanted the best for them which is showing of how their kids returned the favour to their parents as adults.

 

[Glittery1]

Don’t shoot me but one thing I really like about her is how she does stories, etc with not a scrap of makeup or filter on! We need more of that on Instagram!!!!

And she is stunning too.

Okay that’s my one nice comment for the day…..

 

[Tiktoklurker]

If you put every detail of your life on social media and have a considerable following then you are open for criticism.. it’s pretty simple.. otherwise make your accounts private it’s pretty simples

Did she though? Most of the stuff she posted was unrelated to her life. Mainly business and her talking shite about pop culture.

Sure she’s only shown her husband lately, none of ye knew how many siblings she actually had or who her family are (as evident in this thread)
She put very little detail of her life online.
No one should really be giving someone shit for how they are dealing with a loss

 

[candyfloss99]

I think it's good she calls it out though because the amount of people who don't know it's a rude question to ask is astonishing.

 

[Theviper86]

Yes and her post was about her husband and their first dance on the actual day. How do you know her daddy didn’t want the wedding to go ahead? I think it’s unfair to comment on someone’s behaviour when going through something like that. When my own daddy was dying I did some questionable things but I was in denial and already dealing with grief so to me if I acted like normal then things would go back to normal. What do you want her to do? Never talk about her wedding because her daddy passed? It won’t bring him back and she can’t go back and undo the wedding. Maeve has done some things I don’t agree with but I wouldn’t begrudge the girl the wedding she wanted because of the circumstances

I know everyone is entitled to their opinion but the last few pages of this thread have been awful and very sad to read. I’m sure I’ll get a bashing for saying this too and no I don’t know Maeve or her family.
I mean if I had the money I’d go all out and get married in Adare Manor. Does everyone with a following get this if they get married there? Nobody only Maeve & her family know the circumstances but it’s fairly clear that her dad, whilst he was sick, his passing was sudden and unexpected.

 

[Indiepop]

Or maybe she’s fed up with social media given people were criticising how she grieved for her late father…. I don’t blame the girl!

 

[Duchesspink]

Shes doing what everyone else does and showing some wedding footage.
does losing her daddy mean she can't ever show her wedding video/pics? How absurd

 

[EllsBellsWells]

Feels inappropriate to do a recap etc. To those who might have missed the other thread, Maeve’s dad passed away this morning.

Heartbreaking seeing her stories a few hours before where she was walking her niece around her dads orchard, she’s too young to know what’s going on and Maeve was clearly just trying to hold it together, as I suspect she has constantly been doing for a while Her dad passing less than a week after her wedding is going to hit like a tonne of bricks. Feel really really sad for all of them, hoping they’re managing to find some peace.

 

[Duchesspink]

Then put up the wedding photos, ya know the wedding that her dad could actually attend, not putting up photos and videos of the princess party for the insta huns and VIP magazine

Her post isn't about her daddy. It's about valentines and being in love. Why wouldn't she be able to show photos of her big day? Seems such an odd thing to get worked up about.
This is one thing that I would have to be hard pressed to find fault in.

 

[coco22]

You can be considered terminal for months and in some cases years. What Daddy would want his whole family putting their lives on hold feeling like they couldn’t do anything or go anywhere, constantly living in that fear. Yes it is awful timing, but you could also say he was happy to see Maeve have her big day and was happy to let go and be in peace

@ellsbellswell what is your point with this thread? I don't think there is one person here who doesn't sympathise with the Madden family losing a loved one is horrific.
A palliative care nurse would have known that the poor man hadn't long in fact Maeve herself knew when she went to pick up her Range Rover that time was precious for her Dad, she said it. There was probably insurance for the party if she had to cancel and genuine friends would have understood if the party was cancelled, I mean she was already married. They would have understood the familys priority to spend whatever visiting time was allowed with him in his final days (I won't go in to it but i was in a similar situation). Everyone is different, I can't imagine the stress, pressure and sadness they felt in particular her Mum who has lost her life long partner.

In the grand scheme of things the party is now totally irrelevant, I'm sure it was a day immense sadness for some, not the joyful happy celebration it should have been.

My heartfelt sympathy to the family. Rest in Peace Mr Madden, sleep easy

A palliative care nurse can not tell you how long someone has left they re not clairvoyant and I have sat by the beds of 2 family members who were dying of cancer. They can tell you what they think they will also tell you they see people who last for weeks and people who they think will live for weeks and pass away within hours. Maeves dad must have went down hill very fast she was planning for him to walk her down the aisle the week before and when someone is that sick you don’t know your arse from your elbow and it’s very hard to believe it’s happening. When my Dad was dying we didn’t know maybe we were naive but when he went to sleep we didn’t know it was a coma and he would never speak to us again and the doctor or palliative care nurse didn’t know he wouldn’t wake up again or he would go down hill so fast. It’s not like it is in films with big goodbyes and everyone getting to say all the things they need to. My heart absolutely breaks for her it’s so sad

In honesty, they don’t know sometimes. My mother was sent home from hospital palliative but given months to live and died later on that week. A friend of mines father was given 6 months, was sent home and died hours later. It’s madness.

God help them at this time.

yes I agree with you we were told on a Friday by the doctor and palliative care nurse my Dad had months to live he went down hill by the Monday went into a coma and died on Tuesday no one knew it would be that fast. There were no last words no big goodbyes real life is not a film and honestly no one wants to believe someone they love that much is going to die even when it is happening before yo I wish people would stop judging her none of us know the full situation it is the worst place in the world to be i they must all be completely devestated. I like coming on tattle the odd time for a rant about stupid things influencers do and say but this is real life I have nothing but sympathy for the madden family

I was in Maeves year at School, I honestly think she thought she had more time with her daddy. She was devoted to her family. Even if she was a bit of a dose, she loved her parents.

she always came across as an it girl, and that still shows.

So sad her dad passed away, but my dad would want me to confine on with a wedding if he was on the same position. She will be get abuse regardless what she was going to do.

the bow didn’t surprise me, very maeve, and she looked beautiful

That’s very kind I think it’s important we are kind iv lost my dad to cancer I know how difficult it was especially at the end I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. I feel for Maeve the best and worst day of her life in one week

 

[Here for the gos!]

Poor Meave, she’s heartbroken! I’m happy she took time off social media! A few influencers could do the same sometimes!