I’ve been with Mr Stardust for 8 years and he has poor ability to say these sorts of things. Apparently he thinks them he’s an absolute melon though and it’s the one thing I’d change about him if I could.Re Jake. When Lib pulled him for a chat he said " that's a nice bikini" knowing she was looking for reassurance.
Would have killed him to say " you look stunning in that bikini".
I just thought it was a really odd thing to say. Like a husband of 30 years might say.
If I tell him I need reassurance though he does actually reassure me, unlike Jake.