LilandLife

[contrarymary]

It’s a bit harsh to say you dislike a child. She’s only 3, she seems very bright but I’d say it’s Lil‘s fault for not watching her and leaving her with access to scissors rather than Isla’s fault

It’s not harsh to say you dislike a child imo. There seems to be some general rule in society that just because it’s a child they have to be adored regardless, and it’s just accepted that that’s the way children are, but that’s simply not true.
Here’s a question, at what point between child and adult are we allowed to dislike someone? From what we’re shown of Isla (and I’m emphasising that we’re only shown snippets, she could be an angel off screen) she comes across as a rude, aggressive and manipulative child and that’s very unlikeable. You are correct in saying that overall this is Lily’s responsibility as she’s an unlikeable child and will more than likely grow up into an unlikeable woman.
From what we’re shown of Abbie (and even when she was Isla’s age), she’s completely the opposite.

 

[InstaFamousDoesntCount]

She said before about the veins. Combination of weight, pregnancy and being on her feet a lot for work. Don't worry though, if she uploads enough posts with them on show she will get some #gifted treatment.

She certainly knows how to rest those legs!

 

[Basicbasic]

No time for home schooling but plenty of time to get the kids earning money by doing unboxing videos and showcasing them in your business Insta account. Bravo! And we all know you're fed up of the dog, do the right thing and give it away. You only enjoyed having him when it was just you and him on the sofa all day and everyone else was at school/ work. Mopey and miserable. Stop reading here if it bothers you so much.

 

[Notinstafamous]

Why shouldn’t she worry about it?? It’s her job, she’s self employed. Doesn’t matter what you or I or anyone else thinks about what she actually does, this is a really tough time for EVERYONE especially the self employed. Self employment is always risky no matter what the job is. Doesn’t mean she should just suck it up, she has a family to look after. She also mentioned she’s worried about the health of her parents, grandparents etc and of Keiran’s recovery. Left that bit out though didn’t you.

Then she shouldn’t have left her actual paid job to become an ‘ influencer’ also she was so dishonest about it from the start

 

[whiterabbit]

Don’t normally comment but she has me raging at the moment! In her stories she’s thanking everyone, including some teachers, for their nice messages about her being a lazy ass parent! I mean!! We are all trying our best and no-one should put too much pressure on themselves but, as others have said, you are doing a disservice to your kids by not even trying! Can’t remember the last time I had a luxurious bath let alone in the middle of the day. No idea how she will cope with a baby in the mix. Madness.

 

[Fanaff]

True to form, Lil is hiding from her kids upstairs. 9am must be a record even for her!

 

[TheWitchIsBack]

i don’t actually understand how she is allowed to NOT homeschool? Our school said they will be chasing up parents with phone calls as to why they aren’t logging in to the homework system.

both Lil and K are at home, they have absolutely no excuse or good reason to not get one or two pieces done a week at least. We have so far managed to get 2-3 pieces a day done, but luckily my daughter is keen and we can devote an hour or two a day to helping her.

i mean, no one wants to homeschool - it’s a pain in the arse and I would rather be watching Disney + all day too. Last night after putting both kids to bed, me and my husband spent a good hour sorting out work for the next day and uploading the days work for the teachers to mark. It’s a ballache, but it’s for my daughters own good. And I can’t believe she is intentionally stopping her child’s learning because ultimately, she can’t be bothered.

This is it!!! Not one person is saying she needs to have a strict 9am-3pm routine of lessons, just do a couple of bits a day for fucks sake. You can clearly see the outcome of lazy parenting in one kid, don’t spoil the well behaved one as well. Abbie seems like she’d love doing some school work as well, it would probably be a welcome change from watching her mum cuddle the spawn of Satan to sleep on the couch every day.

 

[TJ90]

No it’s deffo 2 bed. She’s alluded to moving soon before. Remember her saying before they plan to ‘flip’ the houses to eventually be mortgage free.

Ahh, so a nice child, a feral one, a new born, a new house, a dog and her poor partner trying to recover. Is she mental?

 

[Aussie girl]

I don’t understand why people find it crazy that she’s quit her job to make money from insta. I have a 4 month old and will be going back to work in the summer, if I had the opportunity to stay at home with him and make money from Instagram or something, then I 100% would! If she’s making enough money from it to not work, then good for her. I don’t particularly like tonnes of ads on Instagram either, but get that it’s their jobs and it’s just the way it is now.

I personally think it’s ridiculous to have a business that is showing the interaction of your family on a platform you don’t control. Insta could go tomorrow, or a new algorithm , that could terminate your income stream. I think that’s a stupid risk.
But more so where you be a bricks and mortar profession or a trade. Having gone through an apprenticeship and having lifted your skills whythrow that away or let your skills go.
Plus, she’s not confident. She hates selling stuff and it’s clearly added to pressure on her partner when she’s caught up at events, and she gets short with her kids. She’s unsuited for the job and it has a negative impact so why do it.
I may be old, but I have a young family and honestly money isn’t everything. I don’t think she’s happier than when she was a slimming world account, I think she’s lost the plot.

 

[Fanaff]

“This is why I’m not homeschooling” says lil as her Well behaved school age child teaches her badly behaved, non school age child. Also, says lil as she’s sat on her arse editing yet another cooking video!

 

[Fmf17]

I am usually a lil fan ... but today has shocked me. What on Earth is she doing let alone telling the gram all about it

 

[michelle1990]

I haven’t been following her that long so don’t know what the story is with her but does she ever stop fucking whining I felt like getting the violins out.
Why is she having another kid if she can’t deal with the two she already has?!

 

[Getagripppppy]

Jesus Christ the amount of gifted shit she’s got for the baby that is barely 20 weeks. Not like she’s had two before...

 

[Aussie girl]

Kieran has a lot of pressure on him, he must be a strong man

 

[Rosie1111]

Hi Lil, have you been reading here?

 

[Stress Ball]

She doesn't deserve that dog I wish she'd give it to a family that would love and spoil him.

 

[Basicbasic]

Really sad for abi, but it's ok folks don't worry about lil she's still having her morning baths and doing her nails/ exercise class. What a tool. How happy was she when k took the kids out for a walk, why bother having more if you hate being around them.

 

[Greys1324]

I actually take my hat off to her (to a degree!!) if she can be earning over £1k per ad she does and that means she can do a few a month and that’s a tidy wage. Meaning no childcare issues and unlimited time with the kids. Great. And I honestly believe that many many people would do this if they could earn that amount of money from home and have all that extra time with their kids. Except to lil it isn’t great. I don’t know when she got so whingey and ungrateful.
If she’s making money for her family, fair enough. I don’t watch the ads, just skip past, but I understand why she does them. However, I think it’s really shitty and completely fake and loses all credibility when she does ads for Asda, Tesco & Lidl. if she was completely loyal to one supermarket and just advertised one then fair enough, but to flit between them all depending on who’s paying is ridiculous.

I agree, the ads don’t bother me that much as I’d love to be in that position. It just annoys me how much she moans and how she hard she seems to think her life is! She never seems happy unless she’s out on her own/with friends, I don’t think she likes being a mum.

 

[Lollyjane25]

Would anyone else here be able to relax in the bath if your 3 year old was alone with 7 year old downstairs?

 

[PandaPop20]

No worries guys, she'll get some #gifted #therapy for her time in lockdown. She will get PTSD from having 3 kids. 100% having a 3rd baby.for 1. The freebies and 2. To try and keep Kieron in the straight and narrow. I think she should be renamed "Waynetta".