LilandLife

[TJ90]

I know we’re all struggling at the moment but my god she seems like a proper lazy bitch doesn’t she. Abbie seems lovely but Isla is feral.

 

[Basicbasic]

Plus her whole life is spent trying to get away from her kids, hiding in the box room, Lying in the bath, doing underwear try ons in the hall, filming them outdoors whilst sat indoors ..... of course she's going to shop. The only time she's been actively mothering them is when they have to perform for her numerous ads.

 

[TheWitchIsBack]

Ok so reading between the lines, she is not attempting to home school because she knows her kids, or more specifically Isla will not listen to her and just run riot and take the piss. It would actually involve enforcing some kind of rule and that's far too much like hard work. She said she'd print out some sheets for Abbie though, she knows Abbie can be trusted. She's in for a life of hell throwing a newborn into this mess. I do hope she keeps filming it all

Me too, it’s like some sort of social experiment watching these morons.

 

[JoeBloggs]

The thing with Lil is the reason she didn’t home school is because she is lazy. It wasn’t because she thought it was best for the kids it was for her.

She doesn’t work, she has a nice home with space and a garden. She makes out her life if so hard. I get that having a partner with dependancy issues is hard (my husband has issues with alcohol) but why have another baby if things are so bad. He seems to be doing so well especially as he’s doing all the work at home and brining in all the money while she spends most of the day on the bath.

Those kids need routine and discipline, even if it’s not school work. Their world is about to change, I’m not sure how Isla is going to cope.

 

[TheWitchIsBack]

Also I do not mean to derail this thread with politics, I just feel that influencers are pretty useless and add So little to society. To actually see them raise political opinions and potentially bring awareness to a subject then I’m all for it. If it makes one person more aware of our incompetent government I’m all for it.

I’m more concerned about the fact her kids don’t wear helmets when they’re bombing it on their scooters.

When did you meet him? Do you know him well?

I don’t need to meet him to know that he needs to be held to account for his behaviour.

Caroline Flack was called an abuser and degraded publicly by the media.

Dominic Cummings has been questioned as to why he’s broken his own rules and has gotten away with it, publicly supported by the Prime Minister... it’s a bit different. If you can’t see that there’s no point in event continuing the conversation.

 

[Cjh78]

The ‘mean girls’ crew are all on the beg for freebies today. Diaryofahullmum is looking for a bedside crib ‘oh I’ll just tag a couple of companies in this story, can anyone recommend any others?’
Oh please, go out and buy your own like any other normal person!!
Edit: and now a baby changing bag! Continently tagging Tiba & marl!

 

[JayS]

Saying that giving up two evening shifts a week makes SUCH a big difference makes me feel really shit about working full time - my kids must hate me by that logic, surely?

 

[Basicbasic]

What a selfish shallow woman she is. She's storying about not being bothered about getting ill or the impact of covid on health, but more about work. She must be fuming that all those awful events they attend and all that money she made selling herself, get kids, to the highest bidder is coming to a standstill. The best thing about covid for me is how it's putting a stop to these awful grabby greedy people in Instagram. And as for those still posting ads for pointless goods they've been gifted, they need to get a grip.

 

[Snoop D O Double G]

I see so many people IRL who do this, never works.

I did this after my partner cheated it worked for us, well it’s now 5 years down the line and we’re still together. I do think a puppy would break us though

 

[Aussie girl]

I’m not a fan, but she’s sunk to a new low.

She might work from home, but she is home all the time. She’s got no bloody excuse not to realise she has a serious problem. She doesn’t even seem phased, and thinks it’s funny looking through the dogs fur to see where it’s been cut.

Jesus Christ woman, what the hell do you think she’ll do to a baby? Will it be funny to you if she kicks the baby, pushes the baby, or chops it’s hair with scissors. In order to take the scissors to the dogs fur, Isla is showing a real disregard and lack of empathy for the dogs comfort and safety. A kid cutting their own hair for attention is still relatively safe, but they have the risk of cutting themselves, and Isla would know that scissors are sharp and can cut. But Its disturbing that isla thinks it’s ok to invade the animals personal space and do something to alter its physical appearance.

I’m not one to be over dramatic, little kids are kids after all, but there’s something very wrong. She didn’t even hesitate to think that the dog might bite her if she cut it accidentally, so I wonder did she plan it when the dog was asleep. Did she have to hold it down to cut it.

I hope the dog learns to fight back.

Lil better wake up, because the baby can’t bite back and run away like a dog can.

And when she’s busy protecting the baby from Isla and the scissors, that poor dogs going to be on its own.

Maybe the lil fans can advise her to get some extra help. She’s got a partner working through his own stuff, and add to that she’s
1. Thrown in her job
2. Having a baby
3. Bought a puppy
4. Got a child with behavioural issues who is struggling with wanting attention and will act out to get it

 

[Miamia1]

This depends with the psychologist.
I’m a social worker and 100% they need some early help intervention. A family support worker, parenting practitioner or the Health visitor assistants.
With K being an alcoholic this would count as a child trauma and in our locality Isla would meet the threshold for having a play therapist.
Lil need to start acting now, she will have her health visitor back soon and hopefully they will recommend both parents going on the family links parenting group as well as having some Early help 1:1 intervention.
It’s going to get a lot worse when number 3 comes along!

Blimey, I am a social worker too (child protection and court) and there’s no way this would meet threshold for play therapy in the area of the UK I work in. It would not even meet threshold for early help and would be an outreach worker providing support to a family from a community setting if anything at all. I definitely don’t think Isla needs a psychologist or the family would meet threshold for any other services.

 

[eye_rolling_always]

I think that's a violin lol. Either way. No one messaged her, she read here. Needed engagement and to feel better about her laziness. Used menace child as prop.

 

[Ifyouknowyouknow]

Moaning that “men fall asleep faster” She’d probably be tired too if she done a full days work for once in her life!

That poor guy has literally worked none stop either in their house or at a job... plus he no doubt has to care for the kids when he isn’t slaving away so lady muck can have her ‘me time’.... no wonder he’s exhausted!

 

[TheWitchIsBack]

The ads would bother me so much less if she actually utilised the free time it then gives her to do stuff with her kids. All she does is lie about the house moaning and tries her best to avoid them. Refuses to even attempt to home school which is fair enough for Isla but I feel like that’s really letting Abbie down. Even pre-lockdown she was a lazy, moaning faced arsehole who only took her kids out when it was gifted.

 

[Justchilling]

Wonder when Emma’s announcement will be

 

[Goldieoldie]

It makes me so sad that a little girl about to start school is saying she will try not to bully anyone. I would be heart broken if my kids spoke like that xx

 

[MrsB76]

I absolutely think sending Isla back to school is the right idea and I don’t think that should be equated with bad parenting. I think that keeping a child off school when there are no risks to your household is poor form. It’s important years and the disparity between wealthier families will become so obvious in the next few years. My other half is a private tutor to rich people - they’ve been ensuring full lessons constantly through this pandemic. It does make me worry.

from what I’ve inferred about K - I think he had a coke “problem” (ie he did it - not necessarily addicted) and also drank more when doing it so would cause issues in the family. It seems they went cold turkey to solve it and repair their family.

also I love setting plaster but I researched Middleton Pink and I’m in LOVE.

Calling people choosing not to send their kids back to school ‘poor form’ is uncalled for. I’m choosing not to send my 6 year old back because going back for 2 days a week, with 6 other kids in her class for 6 weeks would do more psychological damage - and that’s not even mentioning the risks of Covid. She doesn’t work, she has absolutely no reason to send her back. If myself or my husband had to leave the house for work, we would probably be forced to do the same. Lil has no excuse other than her being a lazy cow.

 

[aliceband]

Back to nursery for Isla in the midst of a pandemic so she can go to home bargains....??? I’d want a break from her too but.... really?

 

[Strawberry-pot]

I would love to message her and ask why she can’t do both drop offs?! She doesn’t work? My husband is In the army, his hours are hectic and he’s away a lot. I was a nurse before kids but couldn’t make the shifts work with kids/hubby’s job so I took a step down from nursing and now work in referrals in an office for nursing community social care (love it, but missing nursing especially now!) but we made sacrifices changing job meaning I could do school run and spend more time with my kids! . I only work 9.30-2.30 and some of my friends think I’m lazy for not doing it full time but because of hubby’s job it doesn’t work out, we have no family near us as have been posted and I can’t keep asking friends.
I have one at secondary (gets the bus as not walkable) and one at primary and one going into last year of nursery in sept so have multi drop off and make it work. Plus My kids do after school clubs here there and everywhere, but I make it work, even When my hubby went away with work for 14 weeks last year and I felt shit I had to remember he will come back and there’s people worse off!!!. lil is just Plain lazy!!!!!!
I know there’s others worse off than me and on their own but clearly lil doesn’t see how easy she has it..... no work, her parents helping her.. time for midday baths..

 

[ruruxx]

I have followed Lil since Abbie was a baby and genuinely used to really like her and relate to her but now she just comes across as a bit pathetic. She has a very privileged life, beautiful healthy (wild) kids and a lovely home but always seems to have the wind blowing in her face. Nothing ever seems good enough for her. I cant imagine living with someone who is/was alcohol dependent is easy but she belittles that poor man of hers so much when hes out working every hour under the sun to provide for them. Surely she must have known saying she couldnt be bothered to home school the kids would cause backlash, why broadcast that if you werent prepared for other people to disagree? She portrays herself as lazy, entitled and quite pathetic really which is a shame considering she used to be really genuine