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Fair play to them, massive respect for someone standing up and doing that for their kids.

Also - REAL. Most real/realistic/raw post I’ve seen from an influencer in ages
 
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Totally agree. Ive been through something similar (not that we know the circumstances) and its incredibly tough for everyone involved.

Wishing their family all the best.
 
She’s still drinking like a fish though eh? Great supportive wife. Good to know where her priorities are 🙄
 
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Supportive doesnt mean having to give it up herself.
Exactly, I’m sure they would have spoken about her having a drink around him etc, plus she said something about mental health so maybe he has decided to give up the drink to help with that not because he has a full on drinking problem. We are all just assuming from a tiny bit of info, which is normal but I don’t think we should be throwing negative comments towards her! But that’s just my opinion and I like Lillie so maybe that’s why I feel that way 😂
 
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Her post doesn’t give much away - it just gives the impression that he is an alcoholic. That might be the case but he could also have given it up for mental health reasons, or other health reasons. We don’t know from her post.
She doesn’t have to give up alcohol to support him no, but it might make him feel less isolated on a holiday surrounded by everyone drinking. But again, she hasn't said the facts so we don’t know
 
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All those days away as a johnsons ambassador is just an excuse for a bleepin piss up. I mean, wtf do they actually do apart from pimp their kids out to get freebies and take endless boring selfies whilst guzzling gin and god knows what else. Bunch of mats. Go and get a proper bleepin job, earn money and pay for your own stuff. Greedy bleeps🤬
 
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Her post doesn’t give much away - it just gives the impression that he is an alcoholic. That might be the case but he could also have given it up for mental health reasons, or other health reasons. We don’t know from her post.
She doesn’t have to give up alcohol to support him no, but it might make him feel less isolated on a holiday surrounded by everyone drinking. But again, she hasn't said the facts so we don’t know
Just to add to the whole speculation thing ☺...

I think if he did have a problem with drinking, being exposed and surrounded by it in a safe way is a kind of treatment in itself, it builds up his resilience and confidence around it.. because let’s face it it’s pretty hard to avoid and he will come up against this for the rest of his life.
 
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Totally agree.

My dad is 35 years sober, my mum drinks in front of him.

I’m 6 years sober personally, my husband drinks in front of me and has done since I stopped. I wouldnt ask him not to as he enjoys it and doesnt have a problem. I stopped due to my mental health rather than an addiction.
 
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if it is addiction then fair play to him because a holiday with other people is pretty intense at the best of times. My father is a recovering alcoholic but can’t be around people drinking. Maybe one day
 
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She doesn’t have to stop drinking but it would have been nice to support him. But then she loves a ‘pizz up’ doesn’t she? Maybe she could take some of the strain off of him in other ways by working more than one shift a week?
 
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Awh I like Lillie and think some of these comments are bit unfair. She hasn’t confirmed it’s for drinking?
 
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Lil loves to tell us we only see what she wants us to see, we don't know her real life ect etc blah blah blah how dare we Judge . BUTTTTTT- OHHHHH when she wants sympathy we're meant to take her at face value, and accept what she shares is 100% the truth.

No way. she can't have it both ways - that she curates her life for her "brands", but also 100% super honest when she wants to be.

So my view is it's all manipulated, and everything she posts is deliberate, none of its natural and spontaneous. She was very selective in what she posted of her holiday, just the kids being cute and happy family shots. Very few of herself, as it's slowly dawning on her that no matter the body positivity she believes the weight is slowly creeping on with the eating and drinking out, and she bought an all new wardrobe of clothes in the last twelve months (she said this on stories herself). I only followed her for SW, right when I was losing heaps of weight, and she was so refreshing, helpful, down to earth, how times have changed

So I have to question why she chose to share this about Kieran, and I think less of her for sharing it. She's hinted and vague posted about how hard life is for a year, all making her so relatable but when people ask about it she acts like it's too private to share and how dare people ask. But suddenly she wants to crow about how proud she is and how wonderful life is. This shows she is only in this for all the attention. It's nobody's business what Kieran's issues are, fair enough, and a great personal achievement is suitable for her close family and friends, not the internet. So I have to be cynical and wonder what she is going to get out of this.

there are a lot of views how best to help someone in recovery, but I can bet one thing- disappearing to blogger and influencer events and leaving him with the kids when he has substance issues, and potentially mental health issues, is incredibly stupid. Kids are a handful in general, I don't know about her kids, but if he was working though a lot then her disappearing to go out and get drunk is not right by her girls or him. And if it was her way of coping then she should look at her own issues and address them, step away from the "gram" and put her energy into her family.

Also, Abbie's school friends mums- are they following Lil's public account. I know I follow the mum's of my daughter's friends. So do they know this about her dad. Will someone mention it to this poor kid- I really hope not, but you put something out into the world and you're foolish if you think in real life people will never see it. Let's see if she removes the post...................
 
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Please tell me she didn’t let her kids sell those cupcakes on the #AD egg story to the public. Isla was licking her spoon and putting it back in the bowl before pouring it into the cupcake liner 🤮 how grim is that?! I’m sure Lidl are chuffed their ad is showing how little regard she has for hygiene 😱
 
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Please tell me she didn’t let her kids sell those cupcakes on the #AD egg story to the public. Isla was licking her spoon and putting it back in the bowl before pouring it into the cupcake liner 🤮 how grim is that?! I’m sure Lidl are chuffed their ad is showing how little regard she has for hygiene 😱
I thought exactly the same! 🤢
 
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Anyone ever get messages back from Lil? Ive sent a few and she doesnt bother to even read them...
 
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