Lil loves to tell us we only see what she wants us to see, we don't know her real life ect etc blah blah blah how dare we Judge . BUTTTTTT- OHHHHH when she wants sympathy we're meant to take her at face value, and accept what she shares is 100% the truth.
No way. she can't have it both ways - that she curates her life for her "brands", but also 100% super honest when she wants to be.
So my view is it's all manipulated, and everything she posts is deliberate, none of its natural and spontaneous. She was very selective in what she posted of her holiday, just the kids being cute and happy family shots. Very few of herself, as it's slowly dawning on her that no matter the body positivity she believes the weight is slowly creeping on with the eating and drinking out, and she bought an all new wardrobe of clothes in the last twelve months (she said this on stories herself). I only followed her for SW, right when I was losing heaps of weight, and she was so refreshing, helpful, down to earth, how times have changed
So I have to question why she chose to share this about Kieran, and I think less of her for sharing it. She's hinted and vague posted about how hard life is for a year, all making her so relatable but when people ask about it she acts like it's too private to share and how dare people ask. But suddenly she wants to crow about how proud she is and how wonderful life is. This shows she is only in this for all the attention. It's nobody's business what Kieran's issues are, fair enough, and a great personal achievement is suitable for her close family and friends, not the internet. So I have to be cynical and wonder what she is going to get out of this.
there are a lot of views how best to help someone in recovery, but I can bet one thing- disappearing to blogger and influencer events and leaving him with the kids when he has substance issues, and potentially mental health issues, is incredibly stupid. Kids are a handful in general, I don't know about her kids, but if he was working though a lot then her disappearing to go out and get drunk is not right by her girls or him. And if it was her way of coping then she should look at her own issues and address them, step away from the "gram" and put her energy into her family.
Also, Abbie's school friends mums- are they following Lil's public account. I know I follow the mum's of my daughter's friends. So do they know this about her dad. Will someone mention it to this poor kid- I really hope not, but you put something out into the world and you're foolish if you think in real life people will never see it. Let's see if she removes the post...................