Liam Payne

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The daily mail article said he was supposed to check out of the hotel on the Wednesday morning.
 
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That DM article… dropped by his label, girlfriend left him behind, ex fiancee lawsuit against him, desperate for any attention. He was obviously so far sunken into a pit of despair. It’s a shame there was no intervention from family/friends, though I know I can’t say I don’t know that there were any attempts. I just know if it were me, my family would have flown out and forcing me onto a plane/get help.
He's a grown man, his family and friends can't spend their life flying around the world to make sure he gets help. He needs to make that decicion himself. If they had of flown out this time, it would have probably delayed the inevitable for a short time.
 
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People who take those sly photos are honestly shameful tbh. Claiming “nobody was bothered” about him being there but you’ve taken sly photos of him??? I really do think he struggled with the amount of fame he had in 1D to then having a lot more free time and feeling lonely 🙁
Yes her whole article gave off an air of ‘oh I wasn’t bothered about who he was because I’m above that but at the same time have a really detailed in depth article about his last couple of hours and sneaky pictures I took’. Shameful.
 
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I’ve just looked at his girlfriend’s TikTok and my god…she’s so vapid it’s unbelievable. But what struck me was how out of it/unhappy Liam seemed in so many of her videos- this could be me watching them with bias but he really didn’t look good. Like he was just along for the ride. I didn’t get good vibes from the gf.
I saw a video of her doing her OOTD & Liam is just looking into the mirror at himself. When she stops talking I think he says something along the lines of 'I didn't hear a word of what you said' - just all very awkward 😬
 
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Rita’s slept her way round most of the music industry, there are many, many more partners alive than dead. 🤭
Yes I thought she for sure had a very high number, but 3 dead already isn't that low.

I think Calvin Harris is OK thankfully and I don't think she ever slept with Ed Sheran. Not sure if she did fatboyslim when she made a song with him.
 
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He's a grown man, his family and friends can't spend their life flying around the world to make sure he gets help. He needs to make that decicion himself. If they had of flown out this time, it would have probably delayed the inevitable for a short time.
Exactly and all the money, help and support in the world mean nothing, if that person doesn’t want it. Unfortunately that’s the way of life for some people.
 
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That DM article… dropped by his label, girlfriend left him behind, ex fiancee lawsuit against him, desperate for any attention. He was obviously so far sunken into a pit of despair. It’s a shame there was no intervention from family/friends, though I know I can’t say I don’t know that there were any attempts. I just know if it were me, my family would have flown out and forcing me onto a plane/get help.
you can only help people who want to be helped, as hard as it is
 
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you can only help people who want to be helped, as hard as it is
Especially with all the money and resources Liam had, his family couldn’t make him do anything if he didn’t want to. I also think he was bi-polar, and it’s such a sad, difficult illness when it gets a grip of somebody.
 
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That DM article… dropped by his label, girlfriend left him behind, ex fiancee lawsuit against him, desperate for any attention. He was obviously so far sunken into a pit of despair. It’s a shame there was no intervention from family/friends, though I know I can’t say I don’t know that there were any attempts. I just know if it were me, my family would have flown out and forcing me onto a plane/get help.
I wonder who the British people weee that were with him?

I can only assume you’ve never had the awful experience of dealing with an addict at some point you can’t keep running to them if they won’t accept they have a problem and get help there is literally nothing you can do for them. Sure you can sit with them while they shout abuse at you and sometime assault you. Clean them up when they piss/puke on themselves and apologise when you end up in the ER with them again due to a drunken injury but at some point everyone will reach a limit
 
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Yes it all seems to have spiralled really quickly from laying on the sofa reading emails to being dead within 30 minutes

But he had people with him?
The pictures seem kind of at odds with how “out of it” he was meant to be to end up dead less than 30 mins later. They just seem like normal shaky sneaky pictures of him just meeting people and reading emails 🤷‍♀️. With 5 people but then definitely alone when it happened but supposedly carried back to his room by staff… I can’t see how any of it fits in the time frame given. all very weird and tragic 😢
 
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Having grown up around addicts, I can safely say that there’s only so much you can do. You can’t tie them down and force them to do anything. I have empathy for anyone going through addiction and mental illness, but you can’t blame their family for not doing enough. I’m sure they tried and tried
 
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I don’t really like the tone of that woman reporting to be one of the last to see him. She isn’t bothered who he is but is taking photos? He also doesn’t look completely out of it and off his head. When you’re off your head you don’t check emails 😂
 
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If that lady’s timings are correct, it’s crazy how he looked “normal” like half an hour before he died. How quickly things escalate ☹
 
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That DM article… dropped by his label, girlfriend left him behind, ex fiancee lawsuit against him, desperate for any attention. He was obviously so far sunken into a pit of despair. It’s a shame there was no intervention from family/friends, though I know I can’t say I don’t know that there were any attempts. I just know if it were me, my family would have flown out and forcing me onto a plane/get help.
All that and being ridiculed by the world for years now for doing totally harmless tit. He was the low hanging fruit and the punching bag for so many to mock when it was clear he was worn down to the bone with mental health issues
 
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Especially with all the money and resources Liam had, his family couldn’t make him do anything if he didn’t want to. I also think he was bi-polar, and it’s such a sad, difficult illness when it gets a grip of somebody.
Exactly. It's easy to say oh why didn't his family get him help but he was a 30 year old very mentally unwell drug addicted multimillionaire. Maybe they tried for a long time.
 
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Exactly. It's easy to say oh why didn't his family get him help but he was a 30 year old very mentally unwell drug addicted multimillionaire. Maybe they tried for a long time.
You’re right, his family couldn’t force him into rehab. He had the capacity to refuse and he may have reassured them that he was clean and sober and doing well. Addiction is a disease where lying is part of it.
 
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You can have the most loving, supportive family and friends round you trying to help you but at the end of the day you can only help people that want to be helped. I think it’s wrong to criticise his family and friends for not doing enough, we have no idea what they have done. The end of the day he was obviously a very mentally unwell men whose life has come to a tragic end. I honestly feel sorry for his family having to lose a son/brother/dad etc and then having some of the blame put on them.
 
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