These recaps are brilliant for someone like me who doesn’t know the history of our dear lie-la, yes they are a hard read but also it’s her reality and people should know her truth so Thankyou
These recaps are brilliant for someone like me who doesn’t know the history of our dear lie-la, yes they are a hard read but also it’s her reality and people should know her truth so ThankyouIt was so sad to read, I feel for her so much. Hoping with all the backlash she received that 2019 was a calmer year for Ever? Her sister sounds like the saving grace this year as frequent comments mentioned how happy Ever looked when she was with her.
I wasn't sure whether to post it all to be honest as it is so very disturbing to read when made into shorter notes, over 200 pages it was a lot more spread out. If I carry on into 2019 I'm more than happy to keep it light with just the funnier bits if everyone would prefer as I 100% agree it is depressing and really don't want to upset anyone. It's been a big enough two years without adding anymore sadness from the past to the mix!
You can go that far back but the ol liela has an over 600 page thread there's a lot to go throughWas this on GOMI. How did you find content from so far back? I could only go back to 2021
We need all the goss!!!!Lie def had the miscarriage with Hayden (?) the guy she had known for ages - who was also the guy with a girlfriend (think he was a PT)
I see Craig the MLM type guy around some of my local haunts - I think he’s a mens coach - so pumped full of juice it looks like his eyes could explode at any second.
Once saw our girl in the wild at the local wanker spot Burleigh Pav (no judgement to anyone who likes it, great view, sh*t service, nice pizza - I was there not by choice but because it was a friends choice for lunch) with Kelle Howard and some other local “influenzas” (the tattoo mermaid yoga girl, MLM Ange Simson and it was also when Tarah (her real first name!) was with Brad (who looks like a brunette thunderbird had a baby with a Michael Finch and I’m not sure but he probably had more tox than the lot of them combined - lovely teeth and smile though)
She’s bigger than her photos and girl can work the angles to make herself look good. She was dressed in beige (what a surprise) I swear they all spent more time with their phones in their hands rather than interacting with each other.
Argh I feel so c*nty writing all these things but her constant eye rolling and contradictory life is really bothering me. I have followed her since the beginning of being left pregnant as originally it was visually appealing and I was pregnant at the same time (not single so couldn’t relate there) and throw the occasional like (rare) so I don’t get blocked! A friend knows Scott socially and I so want to ask questions when I see hjust for my own satisfaction and to share with the group here) but that would be so weird to even approach.
I still think back to the pain stop incident and wonder how is Ever even in her custody?
will have to go have my daily stalk now.
thanks for the recaps!
Yes all Gomi recaps, there's over 600 pages. Quite excited for 2020 as I feel like it'll be more entertaining batsh*t behaviour than just feeling so very sorry for that beautiful child.Was this on GOMI. How did you find content from so far back? I could only go back to 2021
Does anyone remember when she posted about Ever finding her dream man and someone asked what if Ever maybe wouldn’t grow up and be straight eg and she fkn lost it with some homophobic nonsense? Am I imagining that one? She’s so toxic. I know discussion regarding sexuality, gender for kids can be super loaded but I find it even more problematic that Leila is barely a functioning human herself and has a very big stake in having a wedding and a partner but has zero success in her relationships… and wants to project it onto her daughter. Hopefully Evers dad will be a better role model in demonstrating respectful relationships.What is with the obsession over finding a man? Seriously, it’s so pathetic.
Yes! That was in 2019, the post included a photo of herself wearing an engagement ring and wedding band. She made the post straight after saying in a live that co-parenting wasn't going so well so appeared to be a deliberate dig at Ever's father.Does anyone remember when she posted about Ever finding her dream man and someone asked what if Ever maybe wouldn’t grow up and be straight eg and she fkn lost it with some homophobic nonsense? Am I imagining that one? She’s so toxic. I know discussion regarding sexuality, gender for kids can be super loaded but I find it even more problematic that Leila is barely a functioning human herself and has a very big stake in having a wedding and a partner but has zero success in her relationships… and wants to project it onto her daughter. Hopefully Evers dad will be a better role model in demonstrating respectful relationships.
LOVE your name & avatar!!Holding hands with her child on the beach was so scripted. That child’s life will be exploited for leilas performative parenting for her entire life. Sad.
The ‘letters to my daughter’ series were cringe. ‘Find a man who this….. Find a man who that… Gross.Does anyone remember when she posted about Ever finding her dream man and someone asked what if Ever maybe wouldn’t grow up and be straight eg and she fkn lost it with some homophobic nonsense? Am I imagining that one? She’s so toxic. I know discussion regarding sexuality, gender for kids can be super loaded but I find it even more problematic that Leila is barely a functioning human herself and has a very big stake in having a wedding and a partner but has zero success in her relationships… and wants to project it onto her daughter. Hopefully Evers dad will be a better role model in demonstrating respectful relationships.
Brunette thunderbird had a baby with Michael finch the accuracy right thereLie def had the miscarriage with Hayden (?) the guy she had known for ages - who was also the guy with a girlfriend (think he was a PT)
I see Craig the MLM type guy around some of my local haunts - I think he’s a mens coach - so pumped full of juice it looks like his eyes could explode at any second.
Once saw our girl in the wild at the local wanker spot Burleigh Pav (no judgement to anyone who likes it, great view, sh*t service, nice pizza - I was there not by choice but because it was a friends choice for lunch) with Kelle Howard and some other local “influenzas” (the tattoo mermaid yoga girl, MLM Ange Simson and it was also when Tarah (her real first name!) was with Brad (who looks like a brunette thunderbird had a baby with a Michael Finch and I’m not sure but he probably had more tox than the lot of them combined - lovely teeth and smile though)
She’s bigger than her photos and girl can work the angles to make herself look good. She was dressed in beige (what a surprise) I swear they all spent more time with their phones in their hands rather than interacting with each other.
Argh I feel so c*nty writing all these things but her constant eye rolling and contradictory life is really bothering me. I have followed her since the beginning of being left pregnant as originally it was visually appealing and I was pregnant at the same time (not single so couldn’t relate there) and throw the occasional like (rare) so I don’t get blocked! A friend knows Scott socially and I so want to ask questions when I see hjust for my own satisfaction and to share with the group here) but that would be so weird to even approach.
I still think back to the pain stop incident and wonder how is Ever even in her custody?
will have to go have my daily stalk now.
thanks for the recaps!
I feel like she’s now gearing up to be (self) diagnosed with endometriosis, she can be an endo-warrior like her sister and it’s also a hot topic at the moment with much overdue. government funding and well known personalities now sharing their endo experiences. She loves to jump on a trending topicThat photo ever took of lei lei passed out in bed is seriously concerning. Bad period pain yet was wearing almost white really tight pants this morning? How many Valium did she pop prior to that shot being taken…
I don’t think Scott’s useless and for all we know he could of previously tried or be in the process of gaining a more balanced custody order, it could of been a factor in Liela moving interstate. No one knows because the man has the good sense to keep his life private. Ever is $$ to Liela and as much as she hates being a Mother there’s no way she could give up control, especially when being a poor victimised single mother is one of her favourite many identitiesI don’t think it is fair to call Scott useless. He didn’t choose Ever or the psychotic ex. It’s fair to say he was heavily manipulated into the situation. It’s also a lot to assume that it’s easy for him to get custody and why hasn’t he “just done it”
LOL wow I remember it all just like it was yesterday. thanks for the memmssssssHave decided to finish off 2017 as I'm home with Covid. Anti vax rhetoric has begun! Again, apologies for grammar etc as used phone app which didn't copy over well.
TW - DV and child abuse.
August 2017
Liela is a single mum and hasn’t had time to cook dinner despite Ever being at daycare for the full day. Uber eats is late so Ever is off to bed without eating. She did have time to post fifteen stories ranting about late ubereats however.
Lawyers have advised her to stay off social media during custody battle however she will not listen to stupid lawyers, what do they know?
Many posts regarding the mark up on her vintage aka op shop finds.
Sad to see many mentions of Ever crying in the background of Liela’s lives and being ignored.
Liela is continuing to give Ever Pain Stop frequently because ‘it’s dangerous if I don't get proper sleep’. When followers mention phenergan she says ‘I would NEVER give her that’ clearly unaware that phenergan is in pain stop. Ignoring questions from followers asking about the SIDs concern.
Admits she told the second chemist Ever was two (she is one) so she could buy Pain Stop as first chemist refused.
Liela is losing friends fast. Currently complaining about someone called These Sonny Days.
August 4th 2017 - taking soul weekend off social media. Held two heavy breathing lives. No social media break to note.
Follower asks what Liela did for work before becoming a Mum and she replies with interior designer.
Liela was on Farmer Wants a Wife but apparently didn’t make it past first meet with the farmer.
Someone is DM-img her customers to let them know they are being ripped off by her $2 Op Shop baskets being on sold for $25 and she’s going to the police! Implying it is her exes new GF who is currently in Vegas at a conference so that seems unlikely.
Leila and another mother friend leaves little Ever and another child on the path while they go for an ocean swim. WTF?! Apparently some ‘old nosey b*tches’ kept an eye on them while giving Liela sour looks however she’s grateful to the surfers who hung about to make sure the babies were okay. She admits that they were too far away that if someone stole their children they wouldn’t have been able to catch up and she didn’t know it was a bad thing to do. She’s a new Mum guys! How would she know that?
Why on earth didn’t one mind the kids while they other swam?
Another close friend TraceyPorter has dropped Liela.
Liela is busy blocking anyone who questions anything she does. Goes on live ranting about comments. One follower unpacks her groceries, picks up children from school and drove back home only to find Liela still going on about how busy she is.
Talks about falling out with Carly in another live as she wasn’t there for a difficult stage of her life.
One of her vintage finds (a $5 rabbit lamp) is currently in stock at Kmart. Follower who mentions this is blocked quickly.
New live, she no longer speaks to her girl gang as they’re all jealous of her! They are not authentic like she is apparently.
Former girl gang have a picnic and post about wonderful friends and lovely times. Lol.
Gomi goes down and within 30 minutes Liela is celebrating the end of the trolls
AM Live - Liela doesn’t read troll comments and is flattered by attention.
PM live - disturbed by troll comments and will never ignore them.
Goes on home tour thanking the ‘troll skanks’ because their engagement means she can live in this luxurious rental (with her Dad). Her trolls are all fat, old and poor apparently.
Yikes. Another live and Liela is laughing about SIDS risk. Still using pain stop. This is the same woman who was so worried about the vaccine adverse reactions?
Ever is eating SO MUCH and she cannot afford food. Has fresh nails and tattooed eyebrows.
Following Day - Bought herself a ring ($750 apparently) which she is wearing as though an engagement ring as a commitment to Ever. ‘A ring to remind myself that diamonds aren’t just lumps of coal that did particularly well under pressure, a diamond to signify that great things take time and sometimes the hardest processes have the most stunning results’.
New poster who knows Liela from the wild comments that she used to work at Jupiters Casino. Apparently she shagged a high roller who then bought her boobs? (This is from the thread so taking that with grain of salt).
Hosts ‘wine time’ gathering. No crowd shots but appears to be about five attending despite the event being free.
September 2017
Leila posts Ever naked including her private parts View attachment 1183120
Ever has been up all night with viral bug so Liela takes her to kindy at 6.40am as Liela needs a soul day.
Liela told a detailed story about how she explained life and death to her ex boyfriends Mum who had MND. The woman told her she was so wise. Shortly after a follower commented that this story was a lie as this persons Mum had passed away from MND and was incapable of speakingcomment was swiftly deleted.
Oooh much excitement! A man is on the scene. She will ‘introduce him later’.
Leila has announced an Australian wide tour! For what I’m not exactly sure.
Leilas father has gone into hospital but it’s date night so he better still babysit Ever!
Posts have been deleted and account set to private, no info on date night or mediation.
Posts about new man are deleted!
New live saying she’s too traumatised from mediation to talk about it.
September 16th 2017 - changed account name from Single Mum Diaries to Leila Stead. This is the day before mediation.
Evers Dad has specifically requested in mediation that nothing in regards to their co parenting is shared online.
Mentions in live that man cuddling Ever in Byron Bay is just a friend.
September 29th 2017 - Poor Ever is in hospital after not wanting to eat the night prior, was forced to eat and then taken around the shops while she was unwell. Liela mentions it’s a possible adverse reaction to a vaccine and that the doctor told her this.
Ever wakes up during the live and Liela ignores her for another five minutes while talks about how hard it is on her.
Much talk about anti vax. Curious if Liela mentioned Ever’s ‘adverse reaction’ throughout the last two years?
Liela has another live with Ever asleep in her arms however due to swearing and speaking loudly she wakes her up again. Poor Ever!
Liela is over being at home after two days so is out shopping. Ever apparently looks very unwell while she films them shopping. Confirms Ever was in hospital the night prior also!!
Day following Ever is back in daycare as Liela needs a soul day.
Liela gets called out in live, she was told she is a bad mother for sending Ever to daycare when she is clearly unwell, that she rips off charities (what did I miss there?) and someone called Joolz no longer wanted to work with her.
Liela is starting a safe space forum for mother’s to share their fears about vaccination.
Liela takes Ever to the beach and films an accidental poo.
Mid October and her account has been deactivated.
Two days later - she’s baaaaaaack!
Posted a RIP Gwendy/Hello Fresh mashup story. Loved Gwendy (Grandma?) but won’t go to cremation.
October 22nd 2017 - says she has been summons to domestic violence court.
Even in 2017 it’s questioned how 35k followers equals 200 likes on posts.
November 2017 - seems to get boring with many sponsored posts. Liela wants a man and suddenly ‘many of you are asking for relationship advice’.
Ever interrupts her live about fitness and she threatens her with big smacks View attachment 1183121
November 13th 2017 - Ever the After customers have been waiting months for packages which have not arrived. It’s the posties fault apparently. Sending the beginning of the end?
November 17th 2017 - someone has taken her to DV court over one of her blog posts. Unsure as to if it’s Scott, her Mum or one of her ex friends. It seems her mother and her previously had a physical fight over how Liela mothers Ever.
November 26th 2017 - has long rant about people copying her.
Appears the book is no longer happening along with the tour.
Has new vegan flatmate. Wants to buy a house and pay off her debt.
December 3rd 2017 - New venture! Photography!
Very dull month. Freebie $1200 Christmas tree with three decorations, won’t wrap Evers presents. Much photo shop on photos.
Announces a break between Christmas and NY which lasted two days. Has bought followers.
And that rounds out 2017!
Wow I remember this! It made me so upset watching the video!Do people remember when she would throw out Ever’s artwork and Ever would find it in the bin and then she would blame the dog?! She video’d Ever’s reaction while laughing and (fake) telling off the dog. It was very cruel.
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