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Belulah

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Fab news! Let us know how it goes ☺ Can I ask how many lessons you had before you felt ‘test ready?
I couldn’t tell you @YorkshireFox - I’ve had lessons for three years for in an auto but have had breaks for long periods because of babies and pandemics! Wish I could give you more of an idea but I’ve lost counf
 

Rippedjeanmaybe

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Same! "When will I ever need a 3 point turn ffs" erm today 🤣 been lurking through this thread and it takes me back!
3 point turns are so pointless that they don’t even teach them anymore! They don’t do reverse around a corner either!

to be honest though, I’ve never parallel parked since passing!🤣
 

alwayslurkin

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I wore Vans yesterday and I couldn't feel them as well. On my previous lesson, I wore my gym trainers what are 'flatter' and I drove better than yesterday 🤣 So I think my gym trainers are going to be my lesson shoes!
Honestly anything to make you focus more on driving and less on things like pedal feel is ideal as a new driver

When I drive to running/hiking places I change my shoes when I arrive.. like my friends think it is odd but I don't care 😂😂
 

Rippedjeanmaybe

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Of course "once you've learnt" how to use gears, they're easy, like most things... but you know what's easier? Not having to learn them in the first place. ;)

Anyone who's learning - do you do anything outside your lessons? Obviously driving another car is helpful but honestly, watch YouTube videos of others lessons. Bonus if they're local to you. Hands down the best thing I did when learning tbh.
To be fair, I didn’t find it difficult learning how to use gears, that was my point, gears are the easy bit. ;) if anything the thing I would say most people struggle with in a manual is the clutch and the bite point. I have a work colleague who had a few lessons and could not get the car to move because she couldn’t handle the clutch, she’s got a motorbike now instead.
I really struggled with learning to drive, not because of the gears or clutch, it was more just that I’m a nervous person and I have a terrible sense of position and judgment!🤣
I didn’t have anyone else to help me either, I had my one lesson a week and that was that, which probably didn’t help.
 

under the ivy

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Well done @YorkshireFox ! Always nice to surprise yourself.
I tried to book my test last week but the system kept crashing. Hoping to book it when they reopen on Wednesday. I split the driving from Lowestoft to Swindon with my mum so drove 90 minutes ish! Did accidentally end up on the motorway at one point x
Hope you manage to get a test booked! X
 

Belulah

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I have three lessons next week before my test and my sister has taken me out twice. Still don’t even feel in the ball park of prepared.

If I don’t pass this time my theory expires- should I sell my car and give up or hope I can renew my theory at some point?
 

HoGi

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Oh my god same!! My friend who is a right know it all, told me autos are really hard to drive and she kept “stalling the car” every 5 minutes. How can you stall a car that doesn’t have a clutch?!?! 😂😂
On my first driving test I got a minor for stalling as the stop start kicked in but wouldn't restart the engine (the car later was later found to have a major electrical fault) my instructor spent about 15 minutes lecturing the examiner on how you can't stall automatics. Didn't change anything as I had a major so still failed but hopefully he won't do the same to anyone in the future
 

MarmiteExtract

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My first driving lesson after lockdown 2 is in 30 minutes. I’ve been avoiding driving my own car for weeks. I just don’t think I can do it. I have to drive the test route to get to work each day and even travelling along the road with someone else driving I have heart palpitations and shortness of breath.
Good luck @Belulah hope it all goes okay today
 

HoGi

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I find it easier to reverse in too, I know where cars end at the back , but I can't tell at the front.
I think that's my problem I can't see the front end haha.

Also I don't like reversing out if spaces as it isn't always easy to see if something is coming. Prefer to pull out front on
 

megsmagoo

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That is amazing!! I’m only doing an hour! I’m going to ask about maybe doing two lessons a week when I next see her. I’m a teacher so have six weeks off now!
Ah nice! My instructor only does 2 hour lessons, I find them quite good personally because I get a bit more driving time. I put the money I would have spent on lessons aside each month in lockdown so I’ve got plenty to work with if I do fail 😁
 

Belulah

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I have a lesson this afternoon, I haven’t slept well and feel so nervous. Wish I could get over it because when I get in the drivers seat I’m fine!
I always have mine first thing to avoid this. There’s nothing worse than dreading each hour passing as it creeps closer. Could you ask your instructor for earlier lessons?
Hope your lesson goes well x
 

judsmum

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I wonder if I’d be better off learning in a small town rather than London? I could do an intensive course in lowestoft as my mil lives there..

I’ve decided to do one more lesson manual then switch to auto depending on how I feel.

Right. I think we need to list our tips and suggestions through getting through the experience.

I’ve only got one: talking to myself whilst I drive and telling myself what I need to do next.
I always sing in my head. Usually it’s (don’t ask me why!) Chamillionaire - They see me rollin’
 

Rosie878

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I had my second lesson after five months off (lockdown/broken leg) yesterday and it went very badly. I kept stalling at roundabouts.

My instructor is great but I feel he is losing patience with me. He told me that it was the worst I’ve ever driven. I am a nervous driver but he goes on about me being nervous which is unhelpful and a bit gas lighty as I’m usually fine nerves wise after an hour. I felt really despondent yesterday. I’m reasonably intelligent but unable to do this thing that everyone else is able to do. I find it hard to multitask in a car but can manage multi tasking brilliantly ar work!

I’m sick of learning to drive... I’ve been doing it every week for over a year. I’d sack the whole thing off of my mil wasn’t paying but I feel trapped into having to see it through to the end.

I just don’t seem to be improving. I’ve been learning to parallel park for months now and the penny hasn’t dropped.

Should I switch to automatic?!!

I’m so reassured to see others on this thread have struggled with the same issues as I have though.
I think it’s perfectly understandable after 5 months off and a broken leg to have a bad lesson. I felt so weird driving for the first time after breaking my ankle. Not very supportive of your instructor. I def don’t think it’s a reason to switch to automatic.

I passed 4th time with a brilliant instructor. Had 2 horrible ones before that, 1 shouted at me a lot and the other pushed me to go for my test When I wasn’t ready and it was an absolute shit show. If you dread your lessons and don’t feel supported find another instructor!