I’m starting to wonder if maybe Tom Muh Boy is a jerk. Casey seems to have no problem spending holidays away from him, & when he was on the vlog that one time when they were all together at Walt Disney World, Casey & Bri seemed desperate to stay by his side in a very odd, hyper competitive, super pleaser kind of way. He might just be a total mole
According to oar boy and Casey, Tom was just gushing over Kylie about how amazing, what a great guy, and what a big celebrity he is until the fateful Thanksgiving visit.
I think he just isn't pleased with his daughters choice. Something went down (hence the deleted videos). And the reason she doesn't go visit him is because Kyle is a malignant narcissist, and one major quality of that personality disorder is extreme control and/or isolation from family & friends (especially from those who don't approve of the narcissist). Maybe Kyle isn't invited back, but I'm sure Casey is welcome. But I don't see Kyle allowing that.
Maybe Tom is, but I just don't see sufficient evidence to say for sure that he's a jerk. Seems more likely to me that Kyle just won't allow Casey to go visit her family, and she's so meek & submissive that she won't put up a fight. So he books these cruises intentionally over Thanksgiving now and makes Casey come. She looked so sad & miserable on the cruise for Thanksgiving last year. Also, I can't blame Tom for not wanting to be in squirt's home movies.