It must be so so sad and difficult for Tom’s family to see this. I just cannot imagine being able to put my husband in a box in the back of my mind less than a year after he passed away from brain cancer. How can she not look at her two children and just see him? How can she not want to spend every moment with her babies, making the memories Tom will never get the chance to make? I know as the saying grows grief is different for everybody but Christ, I’ve never seen it done like this before.