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Feel like shes ramping up the i love tom posts at the minute, well, ever since the news of her new bf was announced
Well all I can say is she’s going to have to up here game to keep in the spotlight. I’m a widow kelsey and im fed up of hearing that you were widowed at 32 or whatever you are and we should speak more about grief. Yes I agree but you know what I don’t want to speak about it anymore so please stop banging on and take your grief more privately. I mean that’s all you have isn’t it? Your husbands death and to make that last longer let’s talk about grief. You yourself don’t actually have anything else to offer. Your not actually talking about grief only if it’s your tv show or a newspaper article . Your insta is filled with parties that’s not talking about grief because that’s not relatable to most of us widows that don’t have a village around us to care for our kids.
Just watched episode 2. What did Tom see in her?! She’s simply awful and is obsessed with becoming ‘someone’.
And why does she talk over everyone!!!!! She infuriates me
And why does she talk over everyone!!!!! She infuriates me
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New poster on here as I have only just found thread. I thought I was the only one who thought this woman was a fame hungry cow who did not seem to be grieving at all..... apparently not!
Nope you’re certainly not alone. she’s vile with her toxic positivity it’s all me me me with her
I see her friend Kelsey has managed to get her wedding on TV for the documentary, they really are all as bad as each other, how is having her friends wedding televised helping raise awareness for brain tumours and grief?
Shes insufferable
Shes insufferable
Yeah, when she announced that she had “one last huge surprise” for Lil’ Kews on her wedding day, and it turned out to be a speech fromI see her friend Kelsey has managed to get her wedding on TV for the documentary, they really are all as bad as each other, how is having her friends wedding televised helping raise awareness for brain tumours and grief?
Shes insufferable
bloody her!!!!….and even announcing she was Tom’s “hot replacement”
She is so bloody cringe with no self awareness - oh, and just incase you thought “best friends Kews and Dean” were beginning to enjoy a day dedicated to themselves - up pops Kelsey on camera loudly reminding them (and us) that it was hers [and *Tom’s] idea, they had told them to get married, so that’s why they were doing it
*she has to mention Tom, otherwise there’d be no programme.
Oh, and whilst I’m at it, the therapist really doesn’t like Kelsey, she makes it so obvious. I can’t say I blame her, being as Kelsey’s only visited her once but makes out that she’s there every week - either that, or she has been more than once but decides to wear the black dress and hideous boots for every visit!
Seriously Kelsey - duck off!
Her friends showed more emotion than her.
Really tired of this woman, it's utterly tragic what happened to her husband BUT when the widow goes on and on about it in the public eye and tries to capitalise on it to make herself a celeb in her own right, then the story loses any grace that it had in the first place and sympathy sort of dries up a bit.
She probably thinks (and maybe she is right) that being a widow of a celeb, for whom there was much goodwill, makes her immune for criticism...what newspaper would criticise the poor grieving widow...
She's so publicity hungry that I doubt the marriage would have lasted - it's not a pleasant character trait.
It reminds me a little bit of Kate Garraway who has capitalised on her husband's illness - difference being that KG's husband is still alive and that KG is a celeb in her own right - still distasteful imo.
I totally agree! She's not raising awareness of grief she's just using her husband's tragic death to elevate herself to sainthood and celebrity. Loads of people grieve losses, she doesn't represent them.
She probably thinks (and maybe she is right) that being a widow of a celeb, for whom there was much goodwill, makes her immune for criticism...what newspaper would criticise the poor grieving widow...
She's so publicity hungry that I doubt the marriage would have lasted - it's not a pleasant character trait.
It reminds me a little bit of Kate Garraway who has capitalised on her husband's illness - difference being that KG's husband is still alive and that KG is a celeb in her own right - still distasteful imo.
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Interesting how she spoke to the therapist and said she needs to let go of the guilt considering this was filmed when she had already met that new guyYeah, when she announced that she had “one last huge surprise” for Lil’ Kews on her wedding day, and it turned out to be a speech from
bloody her!!!!….and even announcing she was Tom’s “hot replacement”
She is so bloody cringe with no self awareness - oh, and just incase you thought “best friends Kews and Dean” were beginning to enjoy a day dedicated to themselves - up pops Kelsey on camera loudly reminding them (and us) that it was hers [and *Tom’s] idea, they had told them to get married, so that’s why they were doing it
*she has to mention Tom, otherwise there’d be no programme.
Oh, and whilst I’m at it, the therapist really doesn’t like Kelsey, she makes it so obvious. I can’t say I blame her, being as Kelsey’s only visited her once but makes out that she’s there every week - either that, or she has been more than once but decides to wear the black dress and hideous boots for every visit!
Seriously Kelsey - duck off!
If you actually look at Tom’s Insta stories, compared with the you tube vids before they got married you can see that she is fed-up and ‘jokingly’ talks about divorce several times.
Kids put so much pressure on a relationship - especially if you’re a narcissist.
Of course, it could well be lockdown (although it was only filmed in the first week!), and possibly Tom’s tumor was already there and affecting his personality,but cracks seemed to be already there.
I agree with the poster above, I don’t think she would’ve stayed in the marriage.
Kids put so much pressure on a relationship - especially if you’re a narcissist.
Of course, it could well be lockdown (although it was only filmed in the first week!), and possibly Tom’s tumor was already there and affecting his personality,but cracks seemed to be already there.
I agree with the poster above, I don’t think she would’ve stayed in the marriage.
8 months is shockingly short to be moving on after losing your husband and father of your 2 very young kids. It would be the last thing on my mind.
I think there’s a respectful amount of time based on public opinion and this ain’t it but regardless of what everyone else thinks, I just can’t comprehend how or why someone could actually want it so soon
I think there’s a respectful amount of time based on public opinion and this ain’t it but regardless of what everyone else thinks, I just can’t comprehend how or why someone could actually want it so soon
Maybe they didn’t have a happy marriage and switched off long before he passed, making moving on look so easy. God knows what went on behind closed doors. I’m sure we all know couples who look picture perfect online but miserable offline. That said, I find her very sinister and I imagine the kids will grow up to resent her when they read/see this online in the future.
She I think the opposite
There videos together on YouTube really are sweet and cute
You could see the love
Yes there was toms lockdown stories and they annoyed one another and wound each other up but who didn’t ??
It was a very strange and boring time!
But I think that’s how they were they bantered and had a laugh with each other which I did love
Which is why I find so hard to see Kelsey now moving on as I used to think to myself how will she ever move on and have what she had with Tom it will be so hard
Is it just me, or did the third episode seem like it was all about her friends wedding? How many times were Kelsey and Dean mentioned? The whole episode was the wedding and the mention of it.
Fair enough, I didn’t see those videos but believe you. I still think social media is mostly an illusion and she went to performative arts school! 
Was anyone else cringing at Kelsey meeting the elderly widows and saying, “I was with Tom for a very long time…13 years…”
Wrong crowd Kelsey, wrong crowd.
Wrong crowd Kelsey, wrong crowd.
Some of them were still tearful after 20 odd years too.Was anyone else cringing at Kelsey meeting the elderly widows and saying, “I was with Tom for a very long time…13 years…”
Wrong crowd Kelsey, wrong crowd.
She’s now on a girly weekend in Chelsea… kids are probably with ‘the village’ again
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