I have one minor thing to add to the KH affair debate... no children involved ... I divorced my ex for various reasons, none of which was adultery, he is a knob, we did not remain friends. He was in the music industry and involved with the development of a young singer 3 years before I left him. She was odd frankly, 16 at the start and my ex and I spoke to her Mum because she got a bit fixated on him (he was 30), because of this she was never alone with him ... long story short, her singing career went nowhere and her contract was binned, years later (long after my divorce) she wrote a book that also went nowhere ... I was messaged about it by mutual friends ... an entire chapter on her 'torrid affair' with my husband and how he had divorced me to be with her ... complete and utter bullshit, the lot of it. I know my ex well, he had zero interest in her, she was/is a nutcase and I DIVORCED HIM, a
as far as i was and am concerned anyone is welcome to him ... Adultery at that tkme would have been far easier grounds for divorce and beloeve me I would have been grateful to have that grounds ... but, I know that there was no adultery with anyone let alone that oddbod kid ... all I am saying is, that people can be very strange, literally make tit up and convince themselves that things happenned, especially when they are nuts and their ego cant accept that the object of their desire isn't, or is no longer interested .. exhibit A ...