littledumpling
New member
First post for me, I've been lurking, liking and LOLing along for months now I've watched people come and go and seen you stand your ground and lift each other up with your warmth and amazing humour, you beautiful, beautiful people
I've never liked this bitch, I just don't understand how the public are oblivious to what we see and how the media cover up and make constant allowances for her shameful choices and behaviour but I didn't comment as you always said what I was thinking and I was happy to like from afar and keep my head down but I will say this; during my relationship with my ex I too became very good at applying makeup to COVER UP the bruises, bite marks and finger prints he left on me, I did it thinking I was protecting our children (MY beautiful children) our families and even him, I suppose. The day he grabbed our son I took the children and left, we had absolutely nothing, the kids were 1 & 3 and I started again.
So followed 9 years of post split harassment and stalking that was that bad I contemplated returning at times because being smacked hurt less than what he was doing now, but I didn't because my children and their happiness are everything to me. I fought him through the courts and almost bankrupted myself in the process, but we won and he is banned from ever having any contact with us. I could have gone bankrupt but I learnt how to live the best life we could on little money and I arranged a debt relief order and I am still years later repaying every single penny because I want to because I have my pride and my kids are worth it. I've never had another relationship as I would never put my kids through that instability again, they have everything they need through me and are thriving. This bitch is the worst of mothers and I pity her as much as I hate her. But I love you lot!! xxxx
I've never liked this bitch, I just don't understand how the public are oblivious to what we see and how the media cover up and make constant allowances for her shameful choices and behaviour but I didn't comment as you always said what I was thinking and I was happy to like from afar and keep my head down but I will say this; during my relationship with my ex I too became very good at applying makeup to COVER UP the bruises, bite marks and finger prints he left on me, I did it thinking I was protecting our children (MY beautiful children) our families and even him, I suppose. The day he grabbed our son I took the children and left, we had absolutely nothing, the kids were 1 & 3 and I started again.
So followed 9 years of post split harassment and stalking that was that bad I contemplated returning at times because being smacked hurt less than what he was doing now, but I didn't because my children and their happiness are everything to me. I fought him through the courts and almost bankrupted myself in the process, but we won and he is banned from ever having any contact with us. I could have gone bankrupt but I learnt how to live the best life we could on little money and I arranged a debt relief order and I am still years later repaying every single penny because I want to because I have my pride and my kids are worth it. I've never had another relationship as I would never put my kids through that instability again, they have everything they need through me and are thriving. This bitch is the worst of mothers and I pity her as much as I hate her. But I love you lot!! xxxx