Kate, Iāve said it before and I will say it again (because you are a bit thick and need telling over and over)ā¦.. Saying that the opinions of others are due to their own insecurities, only works if the criticism you are facing is unwarranted or unjust.
Most of us tattlers probably have a life you can only dream ofā¦ Without a single manifestation, I have a beautiful mortgage-free home, a brand new prestige car (with cosmetic repair insurance to keep it looking immaculate) and take several holidays a year (anything from 5 to 16 days long), both in the uk and in luxury hotels around the world.
My house has always been kept clean, I turn up for work having showered every morning with my hair blow-dried and my make up on.
My kids are adults now, in professional jobs after completing university. One very gregarious, the other has a more reserved personality, but both respectful and well-mannered children who understood boundaries.
Do I sound like a snob? Probably, but I work hard to maintain standards in my life and to get where I am today.
It hasnāt always been a bed of roses for me Kate, but I took onboard any advice / criticism along the way to make my life the way it is today. Try doing the same, it can only benefit you long term.
P.s. Start by spending less time fucking about meditating, and more time cleaning yourself and your kit. It will do much more for your mental health than any manifesting ever can.