I'm so glad that someone else has said this.
I would never compare losses and everyone's situation is completely different. But I was just left a bit confused by her video. I'm not really sure why she made it.
She basically seemed to say that she knew right from the start that it wasn't right this was coming, and her period came after a day or two of having a very faint test. So it was, as others have said, a chemical pregnancy that most people wouldn't have known about.
But she's so affected she's not been able to work properly for months
I don't wish loss on anyone at all. It sucks. I tried for over 2 years to get pregnant, and then found out at my 12 week scan that there was no heartbeat. It was absolutely shit after trying for so long, but it was still just described as a 'non-viable pregnancy' and I still had to go to work and carry on.
She also said that the pain was manageable. I don't mean to be distasteful or crude, but she was only a few days late. She can't have expected a chemical pregnancy to be much different to a period.
I do repsect her for being honest, and stepping away from the over processed perfect princess image she tried to create. But it does seem like she feels that every tiny detail needs to be shared and madd video worthy. Maybe because she's seen so many others discussing their miscarriage and felt she now had something to share. I dunno.
Loss is shit, especially if you have been really hoping for it. And people do need to talk about loss more. But I'm just not sure what to make of this at all.