I do get what you are saying but he has been manipulating her and brainwashing her for years. His control won’t just end because someone says a refuge is available. We are not aware what he says to her off of lives and she may fear for hers or her child’s life if she leaves. It’s easy to comment saying she should leave and I hope she does but it is likely that it’s not that straight forward for herJodie looks in a right mess since he has been back….as in mentally. I think she’s the biggest mug going as she was told there was a refuge going with her name on that she had to go to with the baby but she has just let him weed his way back in so I have zero sympathy for her. I don’t think this is going to end well though as she looks on the brink of giving life up. He will blame that on all the meanies if she does and will no doubt have a gofund set up for it