Julia Zelg (and Eileen)

[Tom_Nook]

I completely forgot about Julia! For some reason something reminded me of her today so I thought I'd see if her thread was active. I'm surprised more people aren't here to be honest. It looks like her content hasn't changed since I unfollowed her, lots of videos of her wife 'rating' her underwear and clickbaity Q&As. It made me feel genuinely sad when she got her veneers and ruined her teeth for no reason and the way she talked about getting her lips done. It's like she constantly needs validation and reassurance from viewers or from Eileen, hence the videos and photos of her posing in skimpy outfits. No hate for any woman wearing what she wants but she just seems so.... sad? It was uncomfortable to watch someone putting on an OTT performance of being really happy and bubbly when you could tell she wasn't happy at all. I can never quite put my finger on it but something wasn't right.

Has anything changed over the last year or two? Do they still have the dog and the cat and live in that tiny apartment?

 

[olivie]

This really is so uncomfy. These thinly veiled insults from Eileen are becoming more and more common

The passive aggressive post from Eileen is definitely her way of tearing Julia down so that she doesn't become too confident with all of the positive comments she received on that photo.

I'm seeing some comments on Julia's YouTube out people finding records of Eileen having convictions for assault on a minor??
Has anyone else heard or seen that?

I saw these, too, but there doesn't seem to be any tangible evidence. I have a feeling that PULL members (like Lielieen) would have uncovered it during their in-depth search of Eileen and her aliases back when she was arrested in NY.

Unless, of course, it's a new charge but I doubt that as well. It would have been hard to hide and, while Julia can be questionable at times, I don't think she'd stay with Eileen if she caused harm to a minor.

 

[Jenbean1992]

This really is so uncomfy. These thinly veiled insults from Eileen are becoming more and more common

 

[DoubleOld]

Longtime lurker and first time poster here.... I have so many thoughts about this soon to be divorced couple.

Does anyone remember the story Eileen told about how they met? Eileen said that Julia made the first move by contacting her through the mutual dating app they were on. Eileen then responded and things took off from there. So, first red flag on both their parts given the 37 year age gap between them. It just felt off to me. Then, when Julia recommended they meet somewhere for their first date Eileen said she couldn't possibly do that because of her bad knees and Julia would have to come to her house. (Ummmm....NO!) Second red flag waving in the breeze. And then Julia chimed in with how she told Eileen: "Okay but please don't seduce me because I am feeling very "vulnerable" right now." (Vulnerable put in quotes because I can't remember the exact word she used but it was some word that meant that.) Then they talked about when Julia showed up and Eileen had put on beautiful perfume and sprayed it through the house to create a certain kind of mood with Eileen smiling like a Cheshire cat and Julia giggling while telling the story. Obviously, the seduction must have happened. Third red flag as I feel Julia was very, very naive about what usually happens when someone claims they can't possibly leave their house and you must go over to their place for your first date. Either that or Julia was not that naive and, on some level, wanting it all to happen but not wanting to admit it.

So we're still on the first date and I am screaming to Julia "RUN!!!!!!" and getting some seriously shady vibes about Eileen.

 

[Jenbean1992]

There's also speculation that the room with the sprinkles on the wall isn't in America like she claims, as British plug sockets have been spotted on the walls in there. It could be a room she's decorated at his house.

 

[lolatkim]

The latest music video is a bit much.

 

[Kezzy]

Love is love and I'm going to hell for this but their relationship repluses me. When Eileen is malling julia I want to puke. I had to unfollow. I don't get how Julia has sex with that woman, she's could have her pick of any woman

 

[natashalester19]

I agree she’s beautiful and seems like a good person
I’m with you I just hope she’s happy

But like so soon after a divorce ?

It just seems so bizarre that like old people are her thing. Like that’s 3 we have seen. If it was just Eileen I’d be like well love works in mysterious ways but it just seems to be her attraction.

Just hope it works out for her this time. I will admit she looks so happy in the last few videos and posts away from Eileen

 

[Smokeyjo]

Does anyone else watch Julia? The website I usually use for gossip on her has been taken down and noticed she doesn't have a thread here yet!

 

[nellybignose]

She has a trained voice rather than an actual talent, and it sounds forced. I don’t think it’s mean to say, just honest feedback

 

[Tom_Nook]

A video of Julia rating Eileen's lingerie just came up on my suggested videos

 

[Lord Farquad]

I'm a huge fan of Julia as well and it makes me so sad to see her decline like this!! I really don't understand why Eileen always says no to going out and about (I do to a point if you take her age into account, but not always?) But I had a thought about it while watching Julia's Pageant video - why does she leave in the clips where she says that Eileen didn't want to come because of XYZ? I know people would ask anyway but still. Especially while she was travelling recently and you could see she was sad because E wasn't joining her.

I never really thought much of J&E at the beginning and the age gap thing isn't an issue to me, but so many comments are saying that Eileen isn't being supportive and it's clear that Julia would have seen them (and Eileen as she commented on the video) so why leave those clips in at all? It's not painting a very good picture on either of them at this point. I know they said in their Q&A that they've had a rough patch and I get that, but something seems off.

It's very concerning that Julia is SH and seems so depressed at the moment. I'm pleased that she is out and about though, even if it is alone. I know couples shouldn't do everything together, but doing everything alone doesn't seem great either? My husband competed in a charity MMA fight a few years ago, while it wasn't my *thing* at all and I was anxious AF about watching him get punched (thankfully he won lmao) but I went a long to the event to support him!

Sorry for the long post - I'm really hoping that this thread picks up because I'm genuinely worried about her!

My thoughts exactly. Especially the bit referring to the clips revolves around Eileen's continuous absence. Julia must have learned by now that they will cause an avalanche of negative comments. As you said, why leave them in? It’s almost like a cry for help.

 

[elle_33]

Something that bothers me is she has included people's faces in the background of her insta post. If I was in A&E I would be really upset about that. It's not hard to blur out faces or just not photograph them in the first place.

Also her wound was apparently bad enough she had to edit over it, but didn't appear to have it covered while she waited in the hospital. Maybe I'm being harsh, but I don't think it's okay to have a wound on display like that. Cover it with something, even if it's just a paper towel?

 

[Negativecreep]

My thoughts exactly. Especially the bit referring to the clips revolves around Eileen's continuous absence. Julia must have learned by now that they will cause an avalanche of negative comments. As you said, why leave them in? It’s almost like a cry for help.

Definitely. I just can't understand why she'd leave them in and essentially throw her wife to the wolves like that, if it wasn't a cry for help!

Did you see the new video? They went glamping and people in the comments are saying "see they DO do stuff together"

 

[YB64-XUH]

I think the old man seems sweet and he really likes her but they just seem so mismatched I can’t believe they have a lot in common

 

[Negativecreep]

I'm a huge fan of Julia as well and it makes me so sad to see her decline like this!! I really don't understand why Eileen always says no to going out and about (I do to a point if you take her age into account, but not always?) But I had a thought about it while watching Julia's Pageant video - why does she leave in the clips where she says that Eileen didn't want to come because of XYZ? I know people would ask anyway but still. Especially while she was travelling recently and you could see she was sad because E wasn't joining her.

I never really thought much of J&E at the beginning and the age gap thing isn't an issue to me, but so many comments are saying that Eileen isn't being supportive and it's clear that Julia would have seen them (and Eileen as she commented on the video) so why leave those clips in at all? It's not painting a very good picture on either of them at this point. I know they said in their Q&A that they've had a rough patch and I get that, but something seems off.

It's very concerning that Julia is SH and seems so depressed at the moment. I'm pleased that she is out and about though, even if it is alone. I know couples shouldn't do everything together, but doing everything alone doesn't seem great either? My husband competed in a charity MMA fight a few years ago, while it wasn't my *thing* at all and I was anxious AF about watching him get punched (thankfully he won lmao) but I went a long to the event to support him!

Sorry for the long post - I'm really hoping that this thread picks up because I'm genuinely worried about her!

 

[Lorny]

It was all so awful! I think Julia is trying to get a video to go viral. None of her music videos have done too well, so she's used Eileen in for shock factor to try to get exposure. I feel bad for Julia as it seems quite a desperate move to me.

I had only watched a bit of the video with the sound down not long after it was released. It got recommended to me today so I watched again as I was able to actually listen to it, Julia’s voice is like nails down a chalkboard for me. She’s not mainstream enough to make it and I don’t think her voice is nice enough for her uniqueness to get her to go viral. She’s obviously creative and loves doing what she does which is great but agree with the use of Eileen to get the shock views.

 

[natashalester19]

Oh Julia…
I’m glad she’s happy I really am
But I would of loved to have seen her with a similar age or 10 years + man or woman
Why is it always waaaaay older people?

 

[thenajak57]

I'm sad this thread is dead!

But anyway, I assume Julia is flying back to Brazil for Christmas? Again, without Eileen. I'm not saying you HAVE to spend Christmas with your other half but Eileen never seems to want to go anywhere or do anything with Julia.
It's not like Eileen has family in the UK or anything which is why she wants to stay, right? She just can't be bothered to go.

I don't know, it just makes me sad for Julia. She shouldn't have to be doing everything alone because her wife doesn't want to do anything.
I don't think they're compatible at all. I just think Julia may be too proud to admit that things aren't good and there's no way Eileen is going to end things with her trophy wife.
I'm actually not against age gap relationships if they work but Julia and Eileen seem to be the epitome of why they so often don't.

LOL Why would Eileen end things with Julia? She has someone to take care of her in her old age and clean after her and pay for all her shit while she doesn't have to ever lift a finger again. I'm surprised actually at how Eileen put no effort into this marriage. Not even for Julia. Even when Eileen was finally forced into going to Croatia with Julia, she probably didn't want to be there and literally stayed sitting at restaurants while Julia went exploring cause she is just so out of shape (or maybe lazy? or both) I just think Eileen is selfish idk that's just my assessment, she would rather be all alone in England (not a single relative there) than spend the Holidays with Julia and her family, which would probably have meant a lot to Julia, but the lack of effort is just really really sad. Like if you love and respect someone you put effort, I just have never seen any effort from eileen despite julia being the icome provider, cleaner, working fulltime & until recently studying also.

 

[thenajak57]

Well of course. In another video she just posted, Julia finally admits that the age gap is affecting their marriage. Cause Eileen is so practically immobile and in terrible shape for her age that she doesn't want to go out with Julia anymore. She says this started after their first year of marriage. Also yes.. is it shocking that they're having sex once a week (answered with hesitation like you said) cause once a week is probably all that eileen has energy for at this point.