Im sure shes said before that she usually ends things first before she gets heartbrokenI said the same earlier in the thread. Had a feeling she had ended it but she was quite happy to let people bash him all over the internet for being a crap dad and abandoning them when that clearly wasn't the case. Just awful.
Also they found out in Oct/Nov i think it was, they were split by the Jan, she didn't give him much chance to get his head round things did she. Who wouldn't have trouble getting to grips with that diagnosis. Can't imagine breaking up with the person i've just agreed to marry because they are having trouble dealing with something as life changing as that.