Jesy Nelson #7 same old same old…

[Pivot]

Just watched it. Those poor little girls, actually heartbreaking all the stuff they have been through and will continue to go through. They are such happy little souls too.

So the Zion thing was pretty much glossed over other than Jesy felt they were handling things differently. So from that I take it that Zion was struggling and she felt he was bringing the situation down. Interesting though her mum also seemed to be taking it hard(who wouldn’t be) but Jesy didn't seem to have a problem with that. There was no mention of how much he helps or when/if he has the girls. Seems like she wanted to give the impression she does it all with her mum and whatever other family help they have.

Her mum needs a medal tbh. And I can't help feel that it's not fair on her at all. Looking after one child with complex medical needs is alot but two? She seems like such a lovely woman who clearly would never say no to helping Jesy but when she said about not getting time to eat i was like wow! I know Jesy said she doesn't want help but even if not help with babies she could get a mother's help/au pair who could help round the house and maybe cook so they can actually have proper food. Her mum is almost at pension age and not getting any younger even if Jesy doesn't want to think that and if she doesn't look after herself she won't be any use to anyone.

 

[BugglyWuggly]

I feel like her mother is on her way to burn out and fast. Jesy better mind her mum, she'd be screwed without her.

 

[KINGAA]

Just watched it. Those poor little girls, actually heartbreaking all the stuff they have been through and will continue to go through. They are such happy little souls too.

So the Zion thing was pretty much glossed over other than Jesy felt they were handling things differently. So from that I take it that Zion was struggling and she felt he was bringing the situation down. Interesting though her mum also seemed to be taking it hard(who wouldn’t be) but Jesy didn't seem to have a problem with that. There was no mention of how much he helps or when/if he has the girls. Seems like she wanted to give the impression she does it all with her mum and whatever other family help they have.

Her mum needs a medal tbh. And I can't help feel that it's not fair on her at all. Looking after one child with complex medical needs is alot but two? She seems like such a lovely woman who clearly would never say no to helping Jesy but when she said about not getting time to eat i was like wow! I know Jesy said she doesn't want help but even if not help with babies she could get a mother's help/au pair who could help round the house and maybe cook so they can actually have proper food. Her mum is almost at pension age and not getting any younger even if Jesy doesn't want to think that and if she doesn't look after herself she won't be any use to anyone.

She also has Jesy, like Jesy is not an easy person either - like it must be so difficult being a mum to 3 people. It must be awful on her mother… she’s being selfish by not getting the help in because of her own traumas and feelings. It’s also about everyone else having respite too including the babies.

 

[maytoseptember]

It’s going to get harder as the girls get bigger too. They’re going to need an adapted home: hoists, a wet room, ground floor bedrooms… that kind of thing.

 

[Twinkle6]

I totally understand Jesys want to do it without hired help. In my first few years with my daughter it was only me and my husband. No childcare, nothing. I refused. I did not believe anyone could help. In hindsight, they could but you get so deep thinking you’re the only one who knows best.

She absolutely needs to consider help, she’s burning everyone to the ground if she doesn’t .

 

[KINGAA]

Just watched it, I think it was very clear Zion was struggling - I think he just needed a bit of love and support too. It must be hard to be young and delt that card.