Absolutely heartbreaking. Honestly felt sick to the pit of my stomach when I saw the announcement. Knowing those kids are too young to ever have memories with her it truly soul shattering.
My heart goes out to them all, I hope she is at peace and that her family find the strength to get through the difficult days ahead.
All those people coming out of the woodwork, where have you been for the last 2 years? Why fight someoneās corner now instead of defending her in life? If you know in your heart of hearts what Jemma used the money on then why not come on and defend her and explain?
Iāve never saw one comment wishing Jemma any ill will on here. Trolls are people who are wishing harm on others, who are sending nasty messages to people, bullying them & making their life hell. That has never happened on here once.
Everyoneās question was where did the money go? Why wasnāt the GFM shut down once the Mexico trips stopped? At the end of the day, if Jemma had stated from the beginning that the money was going to medical treatment AND to make life a bit easier for Clive when she passes then there would have been no problem at all. Well not that I can see. I have donated to peoples GFM who have stated the funds were for their family after they leaveā¦ to make up for lost income their family will no doubt face due to being off work etc; I have absolutely no problem with that at all. I would have still donated to it personally.
When you ask for donations for medical bills and people donate, then see a lot of lavish and expensive items being purchased even after the Mexico trips stop, those Who donate are entitled to ask questions.
Because the reality of it is, Cancer is horrific, absolutely horrific!! But it effected more people than just Jemma. So when donators saw the designer bags etc, it was a kick in the teeth, as that money could have went to helping someone else who was struggling.
even if she bought the designer bags with her own moneyā¦ itās still a kick in the teeth, as if you can afford those kind of things & are needing help with medical expenses, why would you waste that money?
The only way I can put it is, she wasnāt helping herselfā¦ it was the public donations that was paying for treatment and the cost of a designer bag wether paid for by herself or not could have gone to helping another person. Those bags arenāt cheap, that could have helped out a family who were struggling financially due to a partner being off work to be a full time carer to the other partner.
This is literally all the people on this post are saying. It wasnāt fair.
GFM needs regulated to stop things like this. People should be made show they are spending the money on. Because now we have a whole lot of people who are reluctant to donate again. And who knows, the person they decide to not donate too could be sitting with an empty bank account due to loss of job and be struggling to make ends meet.
Regardless of what has been done, my sympathies do lie with the family. As they lie with all the other people out there who are battling this horribly disease.
Yes, her kids may read these one day. However, they will never read anyone wishing her badly. Tbh at this stage I was hoping it was all a scam and that she wasnāt dying, regardless of the GFM money, as no amount of money could make up for those kids losing their mummy.
Iāve gone off on a tangent but I really hate that people canāt see that none of us on here wished any of this on Jemma. Quite the opposite. All they wanted to know was why?
My heart goes out to them all, I hope she is at peace and that her family find the strength to get through the difficult days ahead.
All those people coming out of the woodwork, where have you been for the last 2 years? Why fight someoneās corner now instead of defending her in life? If you know in your heart of hearts what Jemma used the money on then why not come on and defend her and explain?
Iāve never saw one comment wishing Jemma any ill will on here. Trolls are people who are wishing harm on others, who are sending nasty messages to people, bullying them & making their life hell. That has never happened on here once.
Everyoneās question was where did the money go? Why wasnāt the GFM shut down once the Mexico trips stopped? At the end of the day, if Jemma had stated from the beginning that the money was going to medical treatment AND to make life a bit easier for Clive when she passes then there would have been no problem at all. Well not that I can see. I have donated to peoples GFM who have stated the funds were for their family after they leaveā¦ to make up for lost income their family will no doubt face due to being off work etc; I have absolutely no problem with that at all. I would have still donated to it personally.
When you ask for donations for medical bills and people donate, then see a lot of lavish and expensive items being purchased even after the Mexico trips stop, those Who donate are entitled to ask questions.
Because the reality of it is, Cancer is horrific, absolutely horrific!! But it effected more people than just Jemma. So when donators saw the designer bags etc, it was a kick in the teeth, as that money could have went to helping someone else who was struggling.
even if she bought the designer bags with her own moneyā¦ itās still a kick in the teeth, as if you can afford those kind of things & are needing help with medical expenses, why would you waste that money?
The only way I can put it is, she wasnāt helping herselfā¦ it was the public donations that was paying for treatment and the cost of a designer bag wether paid for by herself or not could have gone to helping another person. Those bags arenāt cheap, that could have helped out a family who were struggling financially due to a partner being off work to be a full time carer to the other partner.
This is literally all the people on this post are saying. It wasnāt fair.
GFM needs regulated to stop things like this. People should be made show they are spending the money on. Because now we have a whole lot of people who are reluctant to donate again. And who knows, the person they decide to not donate too could be sitting with an empty bank account due to loss of job and be struggling to make ends meet.
Regardless of what has been done, my sympathies do lie with the family. As they lie with all the other people out there who are battling this horribly disease.
Yes, her kids may read these one day. However, they will never read anyone wishing her badly. Tbh at this stage I was hoping it was all a scam and that she wasnāt dying, regardless of the GFM money, as no amount of money could make up for those kids losing their mummy.
Iāve gone off on a tangent but I really hate that people canāt see that none of us on here wished any of this on Jemma. Quite the opposite. All they wanted to know was why?
it will be a humbling experience to say the least for Clive when all that is at the graveside is him, the kids and any family members.
