Jazzybum

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Would just like to clarify I wasn't saying it as an issue or anything, as I said in the original message, everyone heals differently and does things a different way. I was more curious at their approach to it really
 
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Yeah I imagine they do talk about it off camera, I’m sure there’s been a lot of anxious thoughts and feelings they haven’t shown in the tiktoks or YouTube videos but it’s just odd how they just talk like this is their first
 
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Would just like to clarify I wasn't saying it as an issue or anything, as I said in the original message, everyone heals differently and does things a different way. I was more curious at their approach to it really
No I totally agree. Like with the ovulation tests they didn’t have to mention their previous pregnancy, but to make it like it’s the first time ever taking a test like that was an odd choice to make. You can say you’ve taken ovulation tests before without making reference to a previous loss.
 
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Now I feel even more confused by her 😂

She was buying maternity jeans at 16 weeks and it was apparently novel to her that she was needing to?

Did we imagine this other baby/pregnancy, she was 20-23 weeks before right? Surely she would’ve encountered clothes not fitting before !
 
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I think it is a case of any potential new viewers or people not aware asking about what happened, where's the baby etc

Also it could be a case that they want this baby to be able to watch the videos back later on and not have the past over shadow their life
 
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I’m sure they said they were having a boy in the post before she said about losing him?

I could also be misremembering though
I only remember her saying that he was a boy when she posted about the loss. I don't remember a gender reveal beforehand xx
 
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I know everyone heals differently but I am curious about them going down the route of acting like it's her first pregnancy.
Even with the ovulation tests and asking people questions about it, she did 6 months of ovulation tests before and multiple pregnancy tests, same as Nick asking what the positive test looked like and Jazz talking/asking about symptoms and everything as if it's her first pregnancy. Don't get me wrong, they don't have to mention the other pregnancy, of course not, it was more the acting like it's her first pregnancy and has no idea what is going on 🤔
This can be a trauma response. She's likely to have some ptsd from her previous experience and that can pretty much delete things from your memories. They are still there but you can't reach them. Often only intense therapy will bring the memory back.
 
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I actually don’t see an issue with her acting like it’s her first pregnancy, it was only last Jan I believe a year ago. Clearly her pregnancies were very wanted, the trauma of losing a baby, one she shared online will haunt her forever the questions etc. I can see she has plenty of new viewers and this is probably why she’s acting this way, so she doesn’t have to address it again. Of course their son is no doubt spoken about privately, and she wants to grieve him privately. She doesn’t need to justify anything, and unless you have been in her situation you can’t really understand. I did see a comment she made about she’s nearly ready to film in real time, I can see why she waited and she may address it then she may not, but she doesn’t have to.
 
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Alright we get it you have a bump 😂
Get on with it lol

maybe I’m just grumpy today but I’m bored of her dragging this content out now 😂
 
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Alright we get it you have a bump 😂
Get on with it lol

maybe I’m just grumpy today but I’m bored of her dragging this content out now 😂
Yeah I’m feeling a bit iffy about her content. Fair enough you are pregnant but content around every single aspect of pregnancy is getting a bit tedious now. I hate to say it as well considering her previous loss, but I knew she would be the type to utterly milk pregnancy sickness wandering round with a bucket etc. We get it, you are pregnant. Millions of other women are as well and likely still working in proper jobs managing their sickness as best they can. She has the luxury of working from home where she can access her toilet if she needs to vomit. There’s no need for a bucket.
 
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So is she just going to forget her job for the whole pregnancy and maternity leave?

Anyone know her surname? Interested in companies house details because I'm nosey 😅

I think Nick has a decent job and when she shows her parents house with their swimming pool, I think she'll be financially fine
 
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To be fair to her, the sickness seemed to hit her hard last time. I for one am enjoying the pregnancy content. She lost her little boy the same time I was pregnant with my daughter and I was terrified of something going wrong. I am so pleased for them that I don’t mind a bit of self-indulgent pregnancy videos. She’s waited a long time to be pregnant, let her enjoy it her way I say.
 
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I'm really sad that I can't get up to speed with all her vids but I've had to block her for now as I've recently lost my baby and can't bear watching pregnancy related things, and she kept popping up, so I keep checking here to see if I've missed anything haha 😅
 
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I'm really sad that I can't get up to speed with all her vids but I've had to block her for now as I've recently lost my baby and can't bear watching pregnancy related things, and she kept popping up, so I keep checking here to see if I've missed anything haha 😅
Sorry for your loss and you're having to go through all of this. I hope you're doing okay and you have support in place.
 
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She's gone from posting several times a week, to silence again, nothing for over 2 weeks now. Really hope nothing awful has happened.
 
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She's gone from posting several times a week, to silence again, nothing for over 2 weeks now. Really hope nothing awful has happened.
I think she's just got to the end of her pre-recorded content probably... she was the same before with her not posting for ages and then uploads in bursts
 
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I think she's just got to the end of her pre-recorded content probably... she was the same before with her not posting for ages and then uploads in bursts
But no insta stories, nothing? That's what's making me think something has happened. I hope I am wrong though
 
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I’d have thought there’d be more content by now too so it’s a little worrying?

She mentioned going baby shopping in the last Tiktok so she could’ve done a haul or showed off a few bits in a TT. But nothing at all?
 
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I've been concerned too, she just dropped off. I'm really hoping she's just taking some time for herself to enjoy being pregnant and relaxing.
 
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