Jay Slater Was Missing, Now Found #12

[Rosieroo69]

She is as bent as they come, why would she need more money?? There was 50k In it! Surely she’s not used all that already? This is about money not her son

 

[MrsMushroom]

So, I googled LBT Global who now seem to be the mouthpiece for the family

LBT GLOBAL | lbt.global

Overseas Crisis Support - death abroad, murdered abroad, missing people, crisis abroad, LBT Global, missing abroad, terrorism support, lbtrust

www.lbt.global

Another non-profit organisation. Holding onto that GFM pretty tightly aren’t they?
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I’m really surprised no one has convinced her out of this. My dad died of cancer when I was 21 and I asked to see his body just a few days after he died and they wouldn’t let me because of the state he was in and the trauma it would cause me. I was devastated and probably could have demanded but I accepted they knew best. She’s deeply going to regret this.

Don’t she say that the reason she didn’t go searching was because she couldn’t handle it if they found him?

 

[jackolantern]

People have to grieve children or loved ones every day without the financial backing of strangers, it's downright greed nothing else. The second someone is found or dies the GFMs should be closed but as with lots of scenarios like this, the relatives keep spinning them to milk as much as they can under the guise of pity, it's sick.

 

[jackolantern]

The reality is no one can judge her for wanting to give Jay a good send off but we certainly can judge her for expecting anyone else to pay for it especially when she’s already raked in what she has. Everyone wants to do best by their loved ones but that’s the difference THEY do best, no one else. No one expects strangers to pay for their families funeral, like get a clue.

And if we want to nitpick - send off he deserves? He doesn’t deserve this Debbie and you know that.

 

[LockdownLurker2020]

Ive been an avid lurker and reader on these threads and i was genuinely hoping it was going to be an elaborate scam and he would be found alive and well. No one deserves to go the way he went despite what he did in his past it is a tragic way to depart. I said from the off his ma was shifty AF and her begging for more donations today has left me disgusted. She’s already had over £60k donated by people who im harshly going to call absolute mugs tbh. She clearly wants an absolute chav fest piss up of a funeral to send her “beautiful boy” off, just have some dignity love and have a quiet affair to say goodbye in your own way stop begging for more and more cash you absolute scumbag. I genuinely think she saw more pound signs when she found out he was gone. I feel like a horrible bitch writing all of this but i have absolutely no respect for her whatsoever. I felt genuinely sad for Jays dad and brother because they were seen out “searching” but she couldnt give a shit and didnt search because it would be too traumatic to find him yet wants to view whats left of him? Oh do fuck off. Sorry for the rant but im gobsmacked by her audacity. Anyway back to silently lurking on this thread for me.

 

[Chipsandcheese]

Ok I get that you are disgusted but like I said no one is forcing people to donate. It just seems weird to me that this would out rage people when he’s actually dead. I hope she uses any money left over to live on so she doesn’t have to go back to work and can grieve the loss of her child without extra worry regardless of the circumstances but that’s just me.

Well it outrages me because why should Debbie get to live on, not go back to work and spend the rest of her days worry free because she’s scrounged for it on a GFM? Plenty of people sadly lose loved ones abroad without a social media circus. The GFM should have been closed as soon as he was found. Her behaviour as a mother is bizarre and unsettling. But that’s just me

 

[RubyRowallan]

Are you lot ready for this... We thought level of cringe had peaked. Think again

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Why again has that bloody bear got its coat on back to front?

 

[Rach8456]

Funny how Rapidly Downhill doesn’t assist searches for people who go missing locally/not in holiday destinations

 

[Pavement1979]

I must be an over emotional, dramatic mother. I have 3 kids, one the same age as Jay and two younger ones (yes three teenagers, it's as big of a shit show as it sounds ) - I know you can't always tell how you'd grieve in this specific sets of circumstances but I do have experience of loss (the twin of my youngest child died in utero). IME, 3 days after confirmation of your child's death you are still feeling physical shock and tbh stuck in the oddest thought pattern, where you are IME questioning if you want to be here yourself. There is no way I could have contemplated:
1. Writing a quite eloquent and well structured update about repatriation, volunteers and my emotional landscape
2. Thought about fundraising
3. Starting to describe and think about my child's funeral

It's baffling to me how she is conducting herself. I honestly just can not grasp or relate to it. I think in the future she's going to regret the way she's behaved. She's compromising the dignity of her son's life and memory by inviting every man and his dog to say 'hang on a minute this is weird' because she's acting sketchy. He had no dignity when missing and no dignity in death. He clearly had his issues but a large percentage of his life (at least two thirds?) would have just been him being a baby, toddler and kid. Why can't she just quietly get on with processing the loss and remembering him instead of creating this dramatic narrative in public and pouring petrol on the bonfire? It's not right.

 

[Maggiemaynot]

Yea I get that people have children that die everyday but her son went missing and it was turned into an absoloute media circus globally to the point it’s got its own tattle thread? Couldn’t imagine the long standing trauma his mum will deal with when she comes round from the shock of everything and her son being dead. It’s absolutely shocking the things that have been said and done. I’m just a NORMAL human being with some compassion. I hope the woman can pay of her mortgage and doesn’t have to face going back to work. Imagine how she’s going to walk down a street now with everyone’s opinions. So what if she’s removed her nail polish and had her roots done? How do you known her friend hasn’t offered to do her hair to take her mind of things for a hour? Crazy behaviour threads like this about people who have gone missing. Why don’t you all train and join the police force?

Frankly my dear, I don’t give a damn.
By the way, you are defending a woman who most definitely is cashing in on a tragedy.
You can try and spin it any way you want to but the fact is she is still begging for money after her son’s body has been found by the Spanish police force.
The Dutch search team are volunteers. Yes, fair play, they need to be paid travel expenses.
DTR probably had a few quid bunged his way.
As far as I can tell, apart from paying out to fly a horde of onlookers (and also pay for their accommodation) there has been no monies whatsoever paid to any charity who have supported the family in this dreadful time although I’m happy to be proven wrong.

You have stated on here, wtte “If people choose to donate then that’s up to them. It’s not his mother’s responsibility”.
Ok, that’s not verbatim but it’s the gist of it.
On the other hand, I lurk on the Lauryn Goodman threads.
On there you state that Lauryn is nothing but a gold digger.
So, by your reasoning, if people want to donate to Debbie’s go fund me they can.
No one else’s business.
So also by your reasoning, Kyle Walker should be able to spend his money on whatever he wants to. If that includes Lauryn then so be it
Yet you state that Lauryn is a gold digger.
I can’t stand Lauryn Goodman and I’m not too impressed with Debbie either but you can’t have it both ways.
Defend one gold digger but demonise another.
You really haven’t thought this through properly.
Upwards of £66,000.
Oh dear

 

[Glaschelle]

This might not be the right thing to say but people have no sense of "shame" these days.

I do feel sorry for the boy and his family and the circumstances surrounding his death.

But he was hardly an angel. Years sgo your mum would have been be mortified if you were involved in a machete attack.

But no, here's Jay out in the 'refe living his best life, and gets lost.

Up pops mummy dearest for a wee extended holiday using other folks money. Then they find Jay and mummy dearest needs more money - what for??? I'm sure they've got a version of direct funerals in Tenerife. My neighbour arranged this for his son - £1800. And then brings his ashes home and celebrate his life with folk who know him.

And honestly if you donate to his page, you're mental. Just set fire to your money. At least you'll see a nice glow!!!

 

[DIDDLY1]

This send off she is planning, why does she need more money? Is he going to be blasted off into fucking space in a Musk rocket, or sent down in a sub to explode near the Titanic? No! Me thinks she’s just a greedy bitch and wants to keep scrounging more money from the unfortunate souls who have fallen for her shit.
Just when you think the circus has finished another clown show starts, this family are awful.

 

[anniemouse]

Money talks, wealth whispers.

Whispers like Ayub

 

[charlied0106]

Just seen Debbie has posted this update, not sure if it's her real account



And DTR is arse licking Rach now too...
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"Nor did we ask for a penny".

Is she fucking delusional? She was constantly asking to share the gofundme "far and wide", and her previous update she asked for money to give him the 'send off he deserves'. She is utter scum! There are families out there struggling to get money together to bury their loved ones and she's been sitting with £60k and STILL wanting more! Utterly disgusting human

 

[NumptymeNumptyyou]

She only really cared about him since he died, and become a cash machine to her.

Maybe if she had cared when she was bringing him up he might not have become such a druggie scumbag and might be alive.

 

[soupmodel]

Verifying Device

This will be why the Dutch team are still there

Do you think they are looking for the Rolex?

Why on earth would the Spanish police release the specific location? They don't want a circus or having to rescue every obsessed idiot who wants to go there.

It's like how when John Jones got stuck in the Nutty Putty cave (USA). Since they couldn't get him out (dead or alive) the decision was made to seal the cave, using explosives and concrete. People, specifically cavers, protested this and some are still upset about this to this day. Why on earth would you want to go in a cave, which has become someone's tomb, take a wrong turn and be trapped where their remains are?

I could never go caving, apart from wanting to know where the exits are at all time, my tits and belly are too big for that claustrophobic shite.

 

[jackolantern]

I'm sorry but she has absolutely confirmed what we all knew, she doesn't give a shit about that poor boy. What mother whose child had been missing for a month (not only that but the very real possibility of horrific criminal involvement that the mere thought of would be enough to make you lose your mind) then found dead after lying there alone and well you know the rest, that entire time, could even THINK of money at this point in time nevermind beg for it? She disgusts me

 

[Shesaidwhat?]

Lame. Someone disagrees with the majority and they MUST be the subject of the thread.

I've been here since thread 1, slagging off Jay the thug and his idiotic crowd, but that poster is right. People WANT to donate.

Someone said it's wrong to "profit off a child's death" (referring to Australian kid). What a weird way to put it. People want to donate to these people to try and make life a bit easier. People receive compensation for all kinds of bad things that happen. Do you disagree with that because it's profiting off an accident? Yes, most people have to pay for everything without any help - does that mean that's the way it should be? It's not a race to the bottom.

Why don't "the disgusted" among you start some threads about other missing people and try to get them some traction? Or raise some money for the people suffering hardship? You know the reason Jay's GoFundMe is still increasing is because people like us are still here discussing it?

This thread peaked around thread 3. Now we've got Internet detectives here claiming that removing your nail varnish once in a month long period is evidence that you don't give a shit your son is dead. Go back to Facebook if you got a C or lower in your English GCSE please.

I really don’t think the reason people are still donating to his GFM, is because he has a Tattle thread.

 

[HollyGolightly]

Downtherapids has shared this on his IG stories...

 

[Sour Pickle]

His dad's note makes me sad. He wrote it for his son, not for the public to read. It's heartfelt, bless him.

These endless dreadful tributes remind me of a poem I read in the memorial column of our local paper:

We miss you every day
It makes us feel so sad.
Why did you go away
Our ever loving mum.

Put some effort into it FFS.

I think I might be warped and a tattler because as a child my grandad and I would read the obituary poems each week in the free local paper and piss ourselves laughing at how bad they were.