In a nutshell.Yeah, when people talk about how terrible it is that this story got so much attention, they're ignoring the fact that Jason Arday himself was about to publish a huge autobiography in several countries. HE WANTED all this publicity. He just didn't want it to be critical. And when you get paid £1m+ to write an autobiography for an international audience and you choose to lie all the way through, you can't also ban people from saying anything bad about it.
Tldr: he wasn't a private citizen subjected to a media pile on, he was actively trying to get famous.
I posted a video about this story on the Meghan and Harry thread the other day (my belief being that Meghan is a fantasist and has an underlying personality disorder), but I made the point that this story could be likened to pretty much any thread on this site, because the common thread with most of these people, is their narcissism.
Narcissism is not a derogatory insult, it’s a mental health condition. I think at this point is a mental health crisis.
At no point in living history have people been encouraged to be so self-aware. In my opinion this is completely driven by social media.
You create a social media account, you create a bio. You’re encouraged to be looking within, to be introspective, to project onto people, to impress people, to impress upon people, to be thinking about yourself, or should I say overthinking about yourself.
I think narcissism is prevalent in my generation. The millennial generation is called the MTV generation. We’ve gorged on popular culture and celebrity. It has infected so many people who don’t want humdrum 9-5 jobs, they want to be famous. For so many of these people who have this condition, fame is the worst thing to happen to them, because they are a fantasist, and the fame indulges the fantasy.