Guys Jasmine's eventually planning on quitting social media!!! We won!!!
I haven't looked at her stuff in detail for ages but the podcast title with the word "quit" piqued my interest. Still seems like she hasn't got any friends to talk to so she's using the podcast as a way to voice her stream of consciousness.
Summary (typing as I listen so sorry if it's not coherent, I'm trying to cut through her projection and translating it into what she's actually saying about herself lol)
She's apparently in a season where she doesn't want to put her face out there as much anymore and doesn't want to be addicted to the ego massage and dopamine kick SM brings. She generally seems very disillusioned and finally admitting that a lot of what she posts is a lie. The lines are blurred between her life and business.
She as usual, comes across very high horse and condescending with no self awareness when talking about much she hates when people overshare on the internet and how people should keep things sacred with their partners not realising her entire sex life, pornographic photoshoots, birth control methods, domestic fights are plastered on these forums. I genuinely laughed out loud when she talked about how she hates "fake vulnerability for likes and attention" but admits she's played into it in the past.
Seems she really regrets sharing so much of her life as it lives "all over the internet" (aka on the forums). She worries about her children seeing what she has posted.
Talks about having increased engagement recently and how she's gone viral with certain reels. Sounds like she's upset that people with opposing views are now finding her rather than her insanity being confined to her right wing wacko bubble. Felt pressure to post everyday to capitalise off this newfound virality.
How real life connections are more important than social media connections because what would happen if you lost all your followings? (Sounds like a worry for her lol) Seems like she's feeling like she doesn't matter on social media. Says she doesn't get her phone out with friends and doesn't need to prove she's got friends (ok that one really made me genuinely laugh!)
She says she doesn't share anything unless she has processed it fully because she doesn't want to be upset if people judge it or scrutinize her. (Like wtf how about just keep shit to yourself in the first place like surely that's the main solution here?!)
Starts talking about hateful and abusive comments and how she blocks. Ok this one made me really laugh. She starts talking about "people" (note reader, she means herself) naively post something on reels and it goes viral and then you get mean comments so you need to be ok with whatever you post getting judgements.
her and Josh have had conversations about sharing couples stuff. They have strict boundaries and that they'll never sell out (
) talks about how people make their whole personality their relationship and film themselves doing everything together. Her belief is that your relationship is better when it isn't monetised (in the same sentence she says they have a YouTube channel and podcast but stresses that they aren't active on it as if that doesn't make it worse. All I can say it WTFFFF
She says other streams of income outside of social media now sounds "luxurious" to her and that she doesn't want to depend on using her life for money.
Now thinking about motherhood and doesn't want her kids seeing her being self obsessed (lol) and being in front of a camera. Wants to focus on skills and what she can contribute to the world.
My notes
I'm taking it all with a pinch of salt and wondering if someone/something has scared her off? She's a massive narc and her "breaks" have only ever lasted 2-3 weeks at most".
I just hate how she tries to turn it into a lesson for all about how "everyone" should practice "sacred privacy" like no dumbass, most sane minded people keep their shit private. it's YOU who is such a narcissist you have no self preservation and now trapped in your own actions of whoring yourself online.
Sounds like she has SERIOUS social media addictions. Like the problems she describes having are unfathomable to me. For example she would get anxiety about wanting to show everyone where she's going, what she's doing etc...
Idk it feels like this is all tied into her wanting to please Josh and become a proper submissive trad wife for him.
I'd be VERY interested if she manages to find a job outside of social media given she has no skills, no education, no personality or people skills. her hateful, homophobic, right wing racist views are plastered on the internet alongside her scamming, porn photoshoots, sex life etc.
I guess time will tell what she does but hopefully we'll be saying goodbye and good riddance to this scamming bozo soon