She’s also got to look at the way he talks about his ex wife. If he can talk about her that way, he’ll do the same to you when it inevitably goes to shit.Exactly this. If he was willing to cheat on his pregnant wife and abandon her and his child. Then he is more than capable of doing the same to clingy, needy jen.
It isn't altruism if someone then shows off about it; it's doing something for their own gain. Bragging about helping someone else out to show how altruistic and kind your are is a complete oxymoron.They are at it again with the latest post Jen is once again a hero! This time an 88 year old though arghhhh they are too much! It’s nice to be nice yes - but stop ramming it down everyone’s throats that makes it not just being nice but being nice so that everyone knows about it and they are different things!!
Yes I agree I am sure she is like this! They never asked to have her for Christmas untill she was 5 .... I’m sure this was Jen not allowing it! Wanted her perfect Christmas with “her boys” She also has an insta called “maker of boys” and wears T-shirt’s mum of boys.....I wonder if this makes Isla feel excluded as part of their family?!Im 31, and have had a stepmum since I was a teenager. We’ve never particularly seen eye to eye. She‘s admitted to me. (A few years ago when I became pregnant with my 1st) that she would purposely encourage/discourage my Dad communication with me and my little sister, just out of spite. She has extreme issues with mental health. I can quite imagine Jen being exactly like this.
She is just as bad though! “The dad network” was 99% in Jens name and 1% in Als for years to avoid paying the correct amount of child support to Isla. It was probably her idea. He pays the minimum each month couldn’t even buy a weekly food shop on what he contributes towards her each month. Yet his has money to surprise Jen with his ugly red bus #vanlife he needs to sort his priorities out.Jen's hang(over)xiety is an indication of her poor mental health. However, I can well imagine marriage to a man whom dumped his pregnant wife and then ignored his daughter, literally pretending she didn't exist when his son was born must be very, very stressful. The feeling you know how badly your husband can treat a woman and HIS OWN CHILD must wear terribly on the mind. Pity her; she really needs it.
If this is true that is horrendous behaviour. The fuss they made when jen had to stop breastfeeding, cant imagine he would have let anyone do this to precious ted. I used to be a supporter, I cant believe how blind I was to all of this. They really should keep their mouths shut about the custody because unless we get to hear both sides its simply not fair.Let’s put it this way what the Court said he could have he chose to only take half the time! He did see her at the start but minimal contact I think once a week and would do everything he could to upset Islas mum. Ie one occasion not bringing her back at the agreed time to prove she didn’t need to be breast fed. He would also not communicate how Isla had been etc. How disgusting is that it’s like he was as playing a sick game to upset her. He also never once asked to have her for the night until she was 5! But the first time he did he wrote a soppy post about how amazing it was to finally have her as if Islas mum hadn’t allowed it which is not the case!
What about. -Anyway they can turn it around so they become the victim is a win for them! They are truly awful.
Also guys we need a new thread soon so has anyone got any names??