( so even though there isn't detailed abuse described here, as that isn't what iv been/ going through. I put trigger warning in the title in case anyone has experienced abuse and that this topic could cause upset. )
Iv been with my partner for 7 years now. Only until I got pregnant during covid did we start getting close to my partners father and step mum.
When we told him we were expecting he was very supportive and we have all grown alot closer.
I can't fault his support and love for his Grandson.
However, he's starting to make me feel very uncomfortable.
Iv noticed he always wants to welcome me with a kiss and a hug, and that's ok, I'm quite tactile but sometimes it seems too much....but the main problem is that he ends in a bum touch/ pat.
I hate it and it makes me feel so awkward and angry. I don't want anyone touching my bum!
But what do I do? My partner adores his dad and is so sensitive. But I'm really starting to get irritated by it. I keep thinking do I move away when he goes to kiss me, or place my hands behind my back on my bum to prevent him touching me?
It just doesn't feel right, it feels off.
But i don't know if I'm over reacting slightly or what to do.
Has anyone experienced this? And what did you do?
Iv been with my partner for 7 years now. Only until I got pregnant during covid did we start getting close to my partners father and step mum.
When we told him we were expecting he was very supportive and we have all grown alot closer.
I can't fault his support and love for his Grandson.
However, he's starting to make me feel very uncomfortable.
Iv noticed he always wants to welcome me with a kiss and a hug, and that's ok, I'm quite tactile but sometimes it seems too much....but the main problem is that he ends in a bum touch/ pat.
I hate it and it makes me feel so awkward and angry. I don't want anyone touching my bum!
But what do I do? My partner adores his dad and is so sensitive. But I'm really starting to get irritated by it. I keep thinking do I move away when he goes to kiss me, or place my hands behind my back on my bum to prevent him touching me?
It just doesn't feel right, it feels off.
But i don't know if I'm over reacting slightly or what to do.
Has anyone experienced this? And what did you do?